Used Condoms Correctly But Fear Pregnancy

You don't get pregnant from oral sex. if you used the condom correctly and your penis didn't go near or enter her vagina without a condom then your chances are very very slim. I was one of the small precentage who got pregnant while using a condom but if you even checked for holes afterwards then as i said your chances are so so slim. periods can be late for so many reasons

when she was grinding on me i got off but it was in the condom. when we had sex the first time i used a lube. I found out that some of them can damage condoms.. I would assume that when i checked for holes i would be able to tell. the lube said condom safe so that should be good enough..I should stop freaking out. I KNOW she is stressed about this and the sudden change in where she lives with more classes and more work. that probably doesn't help....

Young women often have periods that are not regular. She is more than likely stressing. If you two are concerned, please have her take a pregnancy test. Planned parenthood will test her for pregnancy FOR FREE and they will also give you birth control. Also FOR FREE.

we went and got a pregnancy test today and it came out negative. Reality really sets in when your buying one of those. I told her I have made an executive decision not to have sex anymore until we are closer to finishing college, she is 22 and i am 22 and i have about 2 more years left. It would be a complete waste if something like this happened because I dont think I would be able to finish and I would need to finish school to get a good paying job to take care of the kid.

its a normal 28 cycle but its been late before a few times that i know of. she normally doesn't keep track of it.. but she knows it started 8th of aug and lasts about 5 days and ended the 13 she said is was going to start somewhere on the 5th of sept. and its now the 10.

I am still a little worried even after a negative on the test ( i know they can be wrong some times) it should have ended close to the 10th if not a little before. she is really worried about it. But not so much worried about being pregnant now. I still think its a possibility. Even though the condoms worked and we were extremely careful. and I pulled out as well, with the condom..I wish someone would tell me the odds are in our favor. right now she is just worried about why she missed it. but I think thats making it worse. I have a day at the spa booked for her to help her relax a little bit.. I hope that works. could the stress make it that much worse.. can she actually miss a month? I just think that its a bad time to miss because we actually had sex this month. But she is more busy than ever before and its been a stressed filled month because she works 30-40 hrs a week with 5 classes (roughly 15 hours) she has never done this before. Also when she got back from vacation (before we had sex) I wasn't here and she was late that month too but only by about 3 days. since she got back her diet has changed along with how much sleep she gets and how active she is.. Can this happen and not be pregnant? she says she thinks she about to start but then she wakes up the next day and hasn't and she is more worried than the day before.

also it was her very first time and some people have (actually alot) have said that when they had sex the first time it messed up their cycle.Is that true?

Her nerves and schedule and her hormones are messing up her cycle. A lot of women who change their patterns have 'off' cycle months. If she didn't have a regularly scheduled cycle before, she certainly wouldn't have one now with all the stuff she has going on.

Relax.

No one can tell you the odds of getting pregnant using a condom AND pulling out. There is no concrete statistical data - besides, every single woman and her cycle is different.

I know this is scary for you - but, honestly, the chances (although I don't know specifically) are so low you need to just breathe and let it go.

That said, IF she were pregnant at this moment in time (highly unlikely), there is nothing you can do about it RIGHT THIS MINUTE. The only thing you are doing - and I assume she is also doing - is freaking out. This is not productive.

she keeps saying that at night she thinks she is about to start..I guess thats good. she is going to the spa today.

her period was due the first wed (5th) of this month today (thur 13th) we took the first response pregnancy test in the morning just after she got up. It came back negative no sign of a second line at all. this is the second one she has take. I heard that it might have been to early for the first one which we took on monday (10th) but they said this one would be more accurate. whats your opinion on this test?

P.S.... can they really miss a hole month if there stressed and their cycle is changing to a different time.. she is 8 days late now. but we are less stressed because of the tests.

well the results are back from the blood test and as we feared..she is p.g......just kidding she started to day. thank the good lord, we are going to wait til we are closer to finishing school before we start having sex alot. even though we are in our 20's..thanks alot

i am glad. she said that it was much thicker than normal. But then again this month hasn't been normal. I dont know if that has anything to do with it. She is extremely moody!!!! So i guess her hormones are all messed up. I guess there isn't a chance of her being pregnant.

when do you use first response. some people say to use it any time after you period should have started but i am confused when they say take it the first day of your missed period. Does that mean a week after you should have started or the day you should have started. I ask because i have seen some places where it say its more accurate 4+ days after your expected period and some site saying 4+ after you missed period...
example: if it was going to start on the 7th are they talking about taking it on the 11th or the 18th? I know the 18th would work too but I am confused. the first response site said 4+ after your expected period.

I'd go with the website, since it seems to have answered your question.

It has been 1 month since her missed period. If she were pregnant, a pregnancy test would have been positive by now.

If her period would have started on the 7th - count 4 days (so the 11th) for most accuracy.