Dannzibelle
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Paranoid Danni!
Posted: 09-10-07 12:07pm
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This girl is driving me nuts! i know that
i should worry becaus ei know that Dom
loves me but it's still getting to me.
Basically Dom plays football once a week
with friends at the park and she goes up
there to walk her dog (she doesn't have a
dog!) and ends up talkign to Dom all the
time and trying to get his attention.
Constantly texts him even though he told
her not to. And this is what REALLY
annoyed me, the other day she told Dom she
was having a birthday party and when he
got there it was just her there, her
parents were out and she answered the door
in her dressing gown, JUST HER DRESSING
GOWN!!!!
I wish she'd get the picture that i'm with
Dom and we have a family.
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Posted: 09-10-07 12:13pm
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ugh
what does dom say about all this?
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 09-10-07 12:19pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | ugh
what does dom say about all
this? |
He says he doesn't like her that way and i
believe him, it really annoyes him because
he's told her countless times that he's
not interested and he's even changed his
number but she got his new one off of
someone else's phone! He's gettign sick to
death of it but no matter how many times
he tells her it's not going to happen she
still keeps trying. PLus Dom's with me
pretty much all of the time so there's not
much chance of him cheating
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Ingi
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Posted: 09-10-07 12:26pm
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| Dannzibelle
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | ugh
what does dom say about all
this? |
He says he doesn't like her that way and i
believe him, it really annoyes him because
he's told her countless times that he's
not interested and he's even changed his
number but she got his new one off of
someone else's phone! He's gettign sick to
death of it but no matter how many times
he tells her it's not going to happen she
still keeps trying. PLus Dom's with me
pretty much all of the time so there's not
much chance of him
cheating |
Then why did he go to the party?
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 09-10-07 12:27pm
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| Ingi
wrote: | | Dannzibelle
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | ugh
what does dom say about all
this? |
He says he doesn't like her that way and i
believe him, it really annoyes him because
he's told her countless times that he's
not interested and he's even changed his
number but she got his new one off of
someone else's phone! He's gettign sick to
death of it but no matter how many times
he tells her it's not going to happen she
still keeps trying. PLus Dom's with me
pretty much all of the time so there's not
much chance of him
cheating |
Then why did he go to the
party? |
because free chinese was offered 
 Dom
loves his chinese
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-10-07 12:29pm
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| Dannzibelle
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | ugh
what does dom say about all
this? |
He says he doesn't like her that way and i
believe him, it really annoyes him because
he's told her countless times that he's
not interested and he's even changed his
number but she got his new one off of
someone else's phone! He's gettign sick to
death of it but no matter how many times
he tells her it's not going to happen she
still keeps trying. PLus Dom's with me
pretty much all of the time so there's not
much chance of him
cheating |
oh yeah im not saying he would cheat on ya
danni
he knows better 
but he needs to tell her flat out that he
doesnt like her and he finds her annoying.
and going to the party might have sent her
the worng message
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Ingi
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Posted: 09-10-07 12:32pm
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| Dannzibelle
wrote: | | Ingi
wrote: | | Dannzibelle
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | ugh
what does dom say about all
this? |
He says he doesn't like her that way and i
believe him, it really annoyes him because
he's told her countless times that he's
not interested and he's even changed his
number but she got his new one off of
someone else's phone! He's gettign sick to
death of it but no matter how many times
he tells her it's not going to happen she
still keeps trying. PLus Dom's with me
pretty much all of the time so there's not
much chance of him
cheating |
Then why did he go to the
party? |
because free chinese was offered
Dom
loves his chinese |
He chose to go to a girl's house who he
doesn't want anything to do with for food?
That sounds silly.
If he really doesn't want anything to do
with her, he wouldn't talk to her. He
would never text message her and he would
never go to her house whether there was
chinese food there or not. He might be
flattered she is paying him so much
attention. But if he truly didn't want her
to contact him or anything, I think he'd
make sure she didn't.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 09-10-07 12:32pm
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Oh yes he knows better And
he gets all he needs from me All those months
of no libido have gone into complete
reversal so he's a very happy boy lol. He
really didn't think the party thing
through and he's admitted that. I really
don't know how many more times she needs
to be told 'no', she's either very
determind or just pure stupid
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Ingi
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Posted: 09-10-07 12:39pm
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| Dannzibelle
wrote: | | Oh yes he knows better And
he gets all he needs from me All those months
of no libido have gone into complete
reversal so he's a very happy boy lol. He
really didn't think the party thing
through and he's admitted that. I really
don't know how many more times she needs
to be told 'no', she's either very
determind or just pure
stupid |
Sounds like it. Maybe next time she texts
him, he could just ignore it. And, when he
plays football, maybe you should be there
a few times. You know, just to show her
whats really up 
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 09-10-07 12:48pm
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| Ingi
wrote: | | Dannzibelle
wrote: | | Oh yes he knows better And
he gets all he needs from me All those months
of no libido have gone into complete
reversal so he's a very happy boy lol. He
really didn't think the party thing
through and he's admitted that. I really
don't know how many more times she needs
to be told 'no', she's either very
determind or just pure
stupid |
Sounds like it. Maybe next time she texts
him, he could just ignore it. And, when he
plays football, maybe you should be there
a few times. You know, just to show her
whats really up |
thats what i was gunna say. and when she
is around tell him t come by to give you a
kiss and stuff.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 09-10-07 12:53pm
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hey maybe while hes playing football, be
there and when she shows up, beat her in
the face lol.
i would lol.
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Posted: 09-10-07 12:55pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | hey maybe while hes playing
football, be there and when she shows up,
beat her in the face lol.
i would lol. |
That's what I was thinking. I would have
went to her house and beat her up after
the "party" incident.
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amethyst eyes
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Posted: 09-10-07 12:59pm
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I get that all the time with my bf. Girls
in the OC are skanky so they always do
that even after they have met me etc. As
long as there is trust you don't need to
worry about it. He should just tell her
flat out he isn't interested.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 09-10-07 13:05pm
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If he truly doesn't want her bothering him
then he can make her stop. Perhaps the
threat of a harassment charge would be
appropriate right about now?
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 09-10-07 13:06pm
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| SamanthaM
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | hey maybe while hes playing
football, be there and when she shows up,
beat her in the face lol.
i would lol. |
That's what I was thinking. I would have
went to her house and beat her up after
the "party"
incident. |
mhm, me too.
i don't play with hoez.
she wouldn't even see me comin'.. and her
boyfriend needs a little sense knocked
into him as well.. he needs to not even
tell her no, go away. just IGNORE her is
better. she'll get the idea. Talking to
her at all just makes her think hes
playing hard to get.
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amethyst eyes
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Posted: 09-10-07 13:10pm
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As long as she trusts him there should not
be an issue, but he should definetely tell
her flat out he is not interested and he
is in a commited and loving relationship
with Danni.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 09-10-07 13:16pm
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I would file a harrassment claim,
personally.
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sick_mama17
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Posted: 09-10-07 13:38pm
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Why doesnt he just ignore her? When she
comes over to talk to him at football he
could tell her to "go away" -not that
politely ofcourse and move away from
her. Or maybe he could make her stop
liking him by insulting her LOTS? ...thats nasty but..yeh. Or if he feels
he really has to talk to her, he could try
only talking to her about YOU...saying how
much he loves you, is happy with you,
found his soulmate, no other girl even
compares to you etc etc etc....she should
get bored pretty fast.
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Posted: 09-10-07 14:21pm
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I'm just bringing this up because to me
it's obvious.
If he 100 percent didn't want her
bothering him it wouldn't be happening.
He's obviously giving her some reason to
think she can keep coming back... And I
don't think it was very considerate or
respectful to you for him to have even
gone to her party... but that is just my
opinion. If he really didn't want her
attention he could make sure he didn't
have it, so there must be some kind of
payoff for him because he keeps letting it
go on. The payoff is probably just the
attention, come on, we all like attention.
I don't mean this to offend you at all, I
hope I don't.
I'd be annoyed too. When Nathan's band is
playing shows there are always those
little girls that chase boys in bands, "I
wanna f**k your drummer!!!" and even
though I hear about it and know it goes on
I don't really care because I know he's
smarter than to go for that.
I wouldn't beat her up, but I'd definitely
have the urge.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 09-10-07 14:24pm
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lol.... *i wanna f**k your drummer!!*
I juts pictured some squeaky voiced
pre-teen screaming that and giggled.
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