Ingi
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Posted: 09-12-07 17:33pm
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| everyday_struggle
wrote: | i honestly think your being
a great woman. You really are trying to
make it work. My advice is this, stop
doing all the things your doing. Make him
WORK for your sex. Your making it to easy
for him, a man likes a challenge, give it
to him. Even when you want it, refuse it.
and if
any of you females have a problem with me
posting in here. Go to the mens chat and
you will see all the females posting in
there. dont preach what you cant
practice! |
This same, exact post is in Sexual Health
MEN. You could post there. This says,
"WOMEN ONLY".
So until I see you grow a vagina, you
should probably leave.
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Ingi
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Posted: 09-12-07 17:37pm
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| everyday_struggle
wrote: | | Ingi
wrote: | | everyday_struggle
wrote: | i honestly think your being
a great woman. You really are trying to
make it work. My advice is this, stop
doing all the things your doing. Make him
WORK for your sex. Your making it to easy
for him, a man likes a challenge, give it
to him. Even when you want it, refuse it.
and if
any of you females have a problem with me
posting in here. Go to the mens chat and
you will see all the females posting in
there. dont preach what you cant
practice! |
This same, exact post is in Sexual Health
MEN. You could post there. This says,
"WOMEN ONLY".
So until I see you grow a vagina, you
should probably
leave. |
im sorry, i didnt know you had a penis and
a vagina. because i see you posting in the
mens chat. stop preaching and start
practicing.
hypocrite. |
Was I in mens chat? I thought I posted in
mens sexual health.
ETA: Please show me where I posted in mens
chat. Because I cannot find anywhere.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-12-07 18:11pm
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Sometimes it appears as though women have
posted in the men's chat area because the
posts have been moved from another
section, like men's sexual health, where
posts are fair game to any gender.
If a female is posting on your forum,
report it.
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stacy4renee
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Posted: 09-12-07 18:57pm
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He said he wasn't going to talk to anyone
about anything.
What is sex therapy?
I really don't want a new hubby. I just
want to stop being an a--. If things don't
work out I think I will stay single for a
long time.
I have tried doing myself in front of him
& I have tried talking dirty & he
said he would have sex because I put him
on the spot. What?
What man does not like being talked dirty
to?
I have an extra bedroom that I am going to
start sleeping in. I am thinking that this
will distance myself from wanting it so
much & laying beside knowing he
doesn't want me. Maybe he get the point
that it is past the point of talking.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-12-07 20:08pm
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Sex therapists are just like regular
therapists but they work on counseling
your sex life, and all the physical and
emotional reasons why it might not be
working out.
Honestly, you deserve someone who respects
and loves your body too....
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Birch
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Posted: 09-12-07 22:52pm
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| everyday_struggle
wrote: | i honestly think your being
a great woman. You really are trying to
make it work. My advice is this, stop
doing all the things your doing. Make him
WORK for your sex. Your making it to easy
for him, a man likes a challenge, give it
to him. Even when you want it, refuse it.
and if
any of you females have a problem with me
posting in here. Go to the mens chat and
you will see all the females posting in
there. dont preach what you cant
practice! |
While I like that you are reality based in
most of your painfully honest answers, I
don't think for a second that manipulation
and dishonesty are the best roads for this
poster. Or anyone in a relationship, for
that matter.
| stacy4renee
wrote: | He said he wasn't going to
talk to anyone about anything.
What is sex therapy?
I really don't want a new hubby. I just
want to stop being an a--. If things don't
work out I think I will stay single for a
long time.
I have tried doing myself in front of him
& I have tried talking dirty & he
said he would have sex because I put him
on the spot. What?
What man does not like being talked dirty
to?
I have an extra bedroom that I am going to
start sleeping in. I am thinking that this
will distance myself from wanting it so
much & laying beside knowing he
doesn't want me. Maybe he get the point
that it is past the point of
talking. |
He said he wasn't going to talk about it
with anyone? And then you say that you want
to stop being an "a--"?
The light of day is hard to see sometimes.
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msx
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Husband Is Not Wanting Sex.
Posted: 09-13-07 14:29pm
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You may need to ask a guy. This forum may
not be able to help you answer your
questions. Good Luck.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-13-07 16:46pm
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| stacy4renee
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I really don't want a new hubby. I just
want to stop being an a--. If things don't
work out I think I will stay single for a
long time.
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Why? It's like you don't think you deserve
to have a man who actually respects you.
I just don't get it. I understand being
loyal to someone, but if you're not happy
with the relationship and he's not willing
to change it, you deserve to find someone
who does fulfill your needs.
Or that's what I think.
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stacy4renee
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Posted: 09-16-07 11:13am
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He said that he was not going to talk
about it & so far he hasn't. I have
been so busy doing my step-daughter's
wedding this week that I haven't really
cared, but I do plan on start sleeping in
the other bedroom. Let's see how long it
takes him to talk then.
I just wish that he would see how much I
love him & know that I am not being
judgemental or critical, that I am only
trying to help & fix the problem. When
I try to discuss it he gets on the
defensive every time.
For the record, I have not done anything
else for him. He has cut his own throat on
that one.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-16-07 15:03pm
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A gentle reminder: This forum is for Women
Only! (I'm looking at you, Juan!)
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stacy4renee
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Posted: 09-16-07 16:48pm
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In my post earlier I meant for him to quit
being an ass not me. Sorry
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Chezzy
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Posted: 09-17-07 02:48am
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You really deserve better than what he is
doing to you, tell him to take a hike and
sling his hook.. 
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whitetiger22
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Posted: 01-16-08 15:02pm
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Well this sounds what i have been though
with the jelous thing. My husband was the
same way. He was jelous of me just saying
hi to people. Also he was so jelous when
ever i talked to my family. Well it got to
the point that he abused me over him being
jelous. I would be very careful with him.
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Neek
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Posted: 01-19-08 05:18am
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maybe you should tell him if he doesnt
meet your needs that you have talked
through, that you will stay in the
relationship... but get your sexual needs
elsewhere........
see how it likes that!
im sure he wouldnt want another mans hands
all ove ryou... especially if he is
already suspicious
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fiona05
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Posted: 01-19-08 06:16am
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having read all your posts, it seems you
have already done everything you possibly
could have done to make things better. if
constant reassurance doesnt do it,
communication doesn't do it, trying to
'spice things up' doesnt do it, then there
is just nothing else you can do. the way
i see it you have two options. you either
need to go to a sex therpist together as a
final attempt at fixing this, or you need
to break it off. this is not you. this is
him.
i know this post is 4 months old but since
its been brought back i thought i'd give
me 2 cents. i hope you're still about,
renee, cos i would really like to know
what happened.
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