If Someone Doesn't Want to Discuss Something... Posted: 09-08-07 15:57pm
If someone is having a conversation and
says "oh, I don't want to discuss that,
you've already heard all I have to say
about it, and I don't like talking about
it," and if you know it is a touchy
subject to them...
Then honestly, you don't have a right to
get angry and patronizing towards that
person if you bring the subject up again
and they respond angrily!! What were you
expecting? Flowers? Of course they're
going to get angry!!
Have a cookie
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Ingi
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Posted: 09-08-07 16:00pm
Mmm, cookies.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-08-07 16:04pm
Ingi
wrote:
Mmm,
cookies.
haha XD
I mean, let's say you don't like talking
about... cookies. You've discussed with
someone in detail why you don't like
cookies and why you'd rather not talk
about cookies because you find it
offensive or whatever.
That same person starts nagging you when
you're discussing say... chocolate bisuits
and how you like them. You've explained to
the person that chocolate biscuits and
cookies are not the same thing, but
clearly this person considers them to be
identical and can't understand you!
They keep nagging until they manage to
drag you in to another discussion about
darn cookies. You have a right to be angry
and offended, don't you think?
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Chezzy
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Posted: 09-08-07 17:45pm
Can you elaborate more eiri???
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Birch
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Posted: 09-08-07 22:58pm
If your cookies are burned quit baking
them.
Edit to add: This thread should be locked
because it is all about retaliation and
inciting drama. Where are those mods?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-09-07 10:30am
Lol, it's not about either of those
things. I'm not insulting anyone, and I
even completely changed the situation.
I do, however, want other people's
opinions on the situation, as I do feel
very offended, insulted, slighted,
wronged, and patronized for no good
reason. I feel there is no need to discuss
the actual situation nor is there a need
to mention names.
If I was truly retaliating, people would
know it.
My cookies weren't burnt. I'm sorry
someone else choked on their cookie.
Doesn't mean we all will choke.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-09-07 10:31am
Chezzy
wrote:
Can you elaborate more
eiri???
Nope, as that's not fair. lol.
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Birch
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Posted: 09-09-07 14:27pm
Eiri
wrote:
Lol, it's not about either
of those things. I'm not insulting anyone,
and I even completely changed the
situation.
I do, however, want other people's
opinions on the situation, as I do feel
very offended, insulted, slighted,
wronged, and patronized for no good
reason. I feel there is no need to discuss
the actual situation nor is there a need
to mention names.
If I was truly retaliating, people would
know it.
My cookies weren't burnt. I'm sorry
someone else choked on their cookie.
Doesn't mean we all will
choke.
Eiri, you could not be more disingenuous.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-09-07 14:31pm
look...
listen....
i just want to say that.... if its a
choclate chip cookie...and its burnt...id
still eat it
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-09-07 19:38pm
Birch
wrote:
Eiri
wrote:
Lol, it's not about either
of those things. I'm not insulting anyone,
and I even completely changed the
situation.
I do, however, want other people's
opinions on the situation, as I do feel
very offended, insulted, slighted,
wronged, and patronized for no good
reason. I feel there is no need to discuss
the actual situation nor is there a need
to mention names.
If I was truly retaliating, people would
know it.
My cookies weren't burnt. I'm sorry
someone else choked on their cookie.
Doesn't mean we all will
choke.
