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orthogirl
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Joined: 02 Sep 2006 Posts: 69 Location: NC
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Intercourse Caused Vaginal Tear..?
Posted: 09-08-07 00:01am
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well, i've been having painful sex for
about 2 months now.. and it seems to be
getting worse. the pain is only on one
side of my vagina.. and it's near the
entrance. i examinded and found that there
is an area that looks cut & it's kinda
swolen around the area.. i'm guessing i
have a vaginal tear. have any other women
had any experiences with this? i keep
trying to give it time to heal but, i'm
not sure exactly how much time i need.
i've given up sex for a week, at the
most.. but when i try again, it still
hurts. any ideas?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-08-07 09:30am
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Go see an ob-gyn. There may be a cream
s/he can give you to help it heal faster.
Until then, there's not much you can do.
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Gellin
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Joined: 27 Nov 2007 Posts: 1
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Posted: 11-27-07 17:51pm
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I was just wondering what your result was
because I am experiencing just that exact
thing right now. I had one tear (kind of a
split in the skin on my inner labia on one
side of the opening. I gave it almost a
week to heal and then had sex again with
my boyfriend and now I'm noticing that the
first cut is almost healed, but there is
another one on the opposite side. I have
an appointment with my obgyn tomorrow, but
I'd really appreciate hearing what you
went through.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 11-27-07 18:24pm
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Pain and irritation from sex can be caused
by more serious underlying conditions- you
should get checked!
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poorbaby
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Posted: 12-21-07 12:23pm
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im also experiencing a vaginal cut rite
now, it doesnt hurt so bad, but i wanted 2
kno how long its gonna take 4 it 2 heal,
and the next time i have sex if it is
highly likely that it will happen again.
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 12-21-07 12:32pm
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Go to the obgyn and see if you can be
prescribed something to make it heal
faster. Also, maybe get it checked out to
make sure it isn't std related.
Refraining from sex for a little would
probably be good so you don't keep
agitating and reopening it.
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womaninpain
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Posted: 12-23-07 22:39pm
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I had this when I was pregnant. Apparently
my boyfriend was extremely into me at that
time and we just had a ton of sex. I went
to the doctor and the doctor just told him
to lay off....So we had to stop having sex
for a good 3-4 weeks. You have to give it
more time to heal than you would if it
were a cut on your finger reason being
that the cut on your finger hits the air
and dries up fast and heals. The vaginal
tear is pretty much always moist and does
not heal as fast. The doctor did not give
me anything but tell me to chill out on
the sex for a bit and we did and I was
fine within a month.
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love_pinkish
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Posted: 12-23-07 23:12pm
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I had this problem a litttle over a year
ago. i went to the gyn and she told me
that it could be friction and gave me some
lube to use and I bought my own also. We
used lube ever since and I didn't have
that problem again.
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becca222
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Is it commmon for women to experience a tear?
Posted: 02-03-08 13:28pm
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I had sex last night and when we got of
bed we noticed that there was blood on the
sheets. I had finished my period a week
and a half ago so I knew that wasn't the
cause so it really freaked me out. I have
never bled after having sex before. It had
been a few weeks since we had seen each
other and I felt a bit sore our second
time together, but I've been abstinent
for a year and half without bleeding the
initial time. It seemed like a lot of
blood initially until I calmed down and I
realized that it seemed like so much
because it had mixed with "other bodily
fluids". When I took a shower I felt a
stinging sensation inside close to the
entrance of me and realized I had a small
cut. I'm assuming it's cut since I don't
feel torn. I was relieved that I knew this
is what had caused me to bleed and not
something more serious, but now I'm just
surprised. To my knowledge I have never
been cut or torn before and I want to know
if this is common for women? The sex was a
bit rough, but that's nothing new. I was
wet so that wasn't a factor. It did feel
as if he was hitting the wall of me at
times so I don't know if that's it.
Anything anyone could tell would be
great...thanks!!!!!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 02-03-08 14:00pm
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It sounds like that particular position
caused a little extra damage to the wall
of your vagina.
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becca222
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Posted: 02-03-08 14:20pm
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Thanks for your reply Eiri. I guess it
did. Is this a common situation for women?
I've always been a studious person, sex
included, but I've never read about this
issue. Is it common for women to
experience this? Should I be concerned?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 02-03-08 15:09pm
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Well, the vagina is a delicate area. I
don't know how common it is, but I do hear
of a lot of women on this board with
fissures/cuts. I wouldn't worry.
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becca222
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Posted: 02-03-08 20:17pm
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Thanks again Eiri, I truly appreciate your
feedback and I feel much better now.
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play_naked
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Posted: 06-17-08 10:35am
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my boyfriend and I had some very rough dry
sex 2 wkends ago . . . the next day I
noticed it stung a little when I peed.
then the next day I got really itchy . . .
I'm very prone to yeast infections and can
recognize the symptoms, but have never had
a tear that has lasted this long - about a
week now . . . I'm very paranoid and went
to the doc to get std checked . . . at
first he told me that my cut looked a
little like herpes, then I told him that
when I started itching, I scratched -
hard! after he did my yeast test he came
back and said that it was probably from
the yeast and rough sex and scratching . .
. but I got the std tests anyway - have to
wait a week for the results . . . bottom
line is, I'll get tears/cuts around my
vagina from time to time if I have dry
sex, get fingered too much, during my
period, etc... if you're positive you're
clean, then just remember to use lube!
also, don't have sex until it's healed up
- you're only prolonging the healing. and
it is a very very sensitive area with very
delicate skin. when you tinkle now, dab
or pat instead of wipe and never wipe your
poo toward your vagina. ps - I didn't
like what the doctor initially said so I
had my best girlfriend come over and give
me a second opinion, she's a nurse
practitioner and said I just had a tear
and nothing more
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