A lack of intellect shows when you discount a successful and wise woman with Ivy League degrees as not being intelligent. LMAO How was what I said misconstrued to mean that Michelle Obama was dumb because she didn;t have abortions or that only smart women abort? The insinuation in Diiamondz post was that smart women don't want to be married and don't want to be mothers and if they are they are as unhappy as she is. That just isn't true. Period. FACT most married women are college educated and make more on a whole than unmarried women. CHeck your latest census information for more detail.

You saying maybe I should have an abortion is as offensive as me saying maybe you should be pregnant. Both scenarios are repulsive.

Where did I ever say I think Michelle Barrack is stupid??? Please quote me on where I specifically demeaned Michelle barrack.

WHAT I insinuated was I don't agree with people who think they are entitled to stay home when the partner has had no say, a uterus doesn't not entitle a women to stay at home unless both parties agree, its called compromise or an agreement....

diamondsz, have you read much science fiction? Some people's realities are different from ours!

I don't know who Michelle Barrack is but my example set forth outside of myself was Michelle Obama. You replied as if I said only smart women abort when I said she hadn't.

I don't remember anywhere in there you saying anybody felt entitled to anything. You said women were stupid for wanting to be married and have children. A goal that amongst many other goals was one of Mrs. Obama's and many other highly intelligent and ambitious women like her.

Now as far as anyone feeling entitled to stay home, I agree nobody should feel entitled to stay home though a spouse, whether its the husband or the wife is entitled to by law being taken care of by the person who by virtue and responsibility of marriage to take care of them. Who gets taken care of and when and how much and all the politics surrounding that is definitely something that should be worked out between the two. A girlfriend and boyfriend no matter how long they have been together has no legal responsibility or right to decide or do squat for the other. Thus why marriage rights are such a hot issue, nothing else really compares no matter what, marriage prevails in the hierachy of relationships and any legal perks or responsibilities associated with it.