Joined: 05 Sep 2007 Posts: 2 Location: San Diego, CA USA
Depressed and Afraid to Be Alone Posted: 09-05-07 23:19pm
I´m a new user here, and I am in a
situation lately where I can´t find no
one to talk to, feeling like the world
is coming apart and crying each day and
finding out that no one is by my side to
confort me or love me, I haven´t been in
a real relationship with somebody and I´m
22 now and still counting. Sometimes I
feel that people see me as the most
disgusting thing they ever saw and
sometimes I feel like they don´t see me
at all.
I´m so sick of myself and I just feel
like dying
What do you thing I should do?
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
Re: Afraid to Be Alone Posted: 09-05-07 23:30pm
aracelihdz
wrote:
I´m a new user here, and I
am in a situation lately where I can´t
find no one to talk to, feeling like the
world is coming apart and crying each day
and finding out that no one is by my side
to confort me or love me, I haven´t been
in a real relationship with somebody and
I´m 22 now and still counting. Sometimes
I feel that people see me as the most
disgusting thing they ever saw and
sometimes I feel like they don´t see me
at all.
I´m so sick of myself and I just feel
like dying
What do you thing I should
do?
Aww sweetie,
Im so sorry your feeling so down. Im here
if you want to talk. Feel free to vent. I
know life can be very hard, but you have
to keep your chin up.
You can Private message me if you like. Im
on here almost everyday.
So why is it that you can talk to anyone
rite now? If you dont mind me asking.
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Enlightened Uselessness
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Sep 2007 Posts: 86 Location: ,
Posted: 09-05-07 23:46pm
I'll help you evaluate the situation. Why
do you believe you're not in a
relationship? Is it a personality thing or
an appearance thing?
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aracelihdz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Sep 2007 Posts: 2 Location: San Diego, CA USA
Posted: 09-06-07 17:05pm
Enlightened Uselessness
wrote:
I'll help you evaluate the
situation. Why do you believe you're not
in a relationship? Is it a personality
thing or an appearance
thing?
Both I think but mostly appearance and
that makes me be so shy and depressed
because i'm not a thin person or with a
good figure, and I know I could go and do
something about it but I just don't feel
inspired of motivated and I really hate
myself for that and for also being so god
dam shy words won't just come out of me, I
really don't know what to do I just feel
so pathetic
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Enlightened Uselessness
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Sep 2007 Posts: 86 Location: ,
Posted: 09-06-07 22:43pm
aracelihdz
wrote:
Enlightened Uselessness
wrote:
I'll help you evaluate the
situation. Why do you believe you're not
in a relationship? Is it a personality
thing or an appearance
thing?
Both I think but mostly appearance and
that makes me be so shy and depressed
because i'm not a thin person or with a
good figure, and I know I could go and do
something about it but I just don't feel
inspired of motivated and I really hate
myself for that and for also being so god
dam shy words won't just come out of me, I
really don't know what to do I just feel
so pathetic
Don't worry, everything will be fine if
you put your mind to it. Just make a vow
with yourself that you WILL lose the
weight. Think of how much happier you'll
be after you do. One of the healthiest
things for you is wheatgrass, although the
taste is horrible (I personally don't mind
it); try it for yourself. Run a little bit
and in no time you'll look just fine. Then
do other little things to bring out the
beauty within yourself. As for the shy
thing, I'd suggest seeing a therapist or
psychiatrist, and after you feel confident
enough, go to a club or something. You'll
be happy one day, I know it.
