Thats messed up! Sorry to be harsh, but I have no words for you.... How can you even come in here and ask something like that,...."what do we think". In my opinion you dont deserve to be a mother!!!!!! God lemmi stop b 4 I say some thing really mean!!!!!!!


Pamala & mjy blatter baby jaylynn

Maybe you should give that baby up for adoption so it can go to a responsible family. Someone who wont smoke coke when they know their pregnant. You put your needs before that baby hopefully that baby wont be addicted.


Chrystal!

You are sick. No other words. But yes, give up your baby. So maybe it can go to a home where it won't be abused. Because doing drugs while you know you are preggy is abuse!

You dont deserve the blessing of being pregnant-do u know what you're doing to your unborn child? U need to sort yourself out because you cant go on like that

I'm sorry about everything that happened to you.....But do that baby and any future baby a favor......Give it up for adoption and then have your tubes tied. You have no right to be a mother. How could you knowingly do something that could be so harmful to your child?!?!?! Ach....You disgust me.

Wow...My god.. I pray that u give this baby up for adoption (baby # 3 or 4???!) and I hope u dont get pregnant for a long long time....U need to be more careful and do everything in ur power not to get pregnant.. U should be thinking about your baby, not yourself. U know coke is terrible! I would call tthe doc to see what he thinks. How far along r u anyhow? If ur a good person somewhere at all u will give him/her up to a family who knows their ready and wont jepordize the babys life like u just did. How old r u?!!? Also. . Obviously your not trying too hard not to get preg if u keep getting pregnant and giving them away because u cant take care of them! Here u are writing us up a whole long sap story of your hard life and how ur dad was also the dad of your children and how ur clean now, and everyone sat there apoligizing to u and congratulating, and then a week later u come back and ur back to the same old damn thing..God I would get my tubes tied if I were u! I dont know when u will be ready for kids.

Diddo 2 kissybai12

This is unacceptable. I hope this girl is a fake cause I just cannot fathom someone doing this to their child(ren). Give it up to someone who can care for it. Make sure your baby lives too. You are right, you cannot be a mother since you have no self control and discipline. Get help for yourself


meg

You should give the baby up if you cant keep your caca together. And you need to get on a good form of birth control so you dont have anymore kids.

I hate how women who are preggy do sh*t that might hurt the baby..Doing drugs smoking ciggs and drinking. You are so lucky to be able to have 2 kids already and having another one! You should give ur baby up for adoption. You dont dersve to have this baby! You need to give ur baby everything it needs to be healthy and by doing coke its not helping it. I know its hard trying to quit drugs when ur so additced but have 2 kids and another one on the way!!! Wake up and see how bad it is doing drugs when ur preggy even when ur not...I myself smoke weed alot..But if I ever found out I was preggy I would stop it would be soooo hard but I would just have to do it.

Alison xoxo

Girl you need to be smacked real real really g hard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You need to learn to keep your legs closed! Quit having kids if you can't take care of them! God, I can only imagine what that other family who has your children things. "hmmm why does she keep getting pregnant" you look like a really crack prostitute!

Right on sister!

I really dont agree with what you did and it does make me mad but I dont like how everyone is handling this. You did come here for advice, we shouldnt yell and/or call you names. I personally think that you should give this child up for adoption. You said it yourself, you dont think you're ready to be a mom. And you wont be ready until you are completely free of drugs. Stay away from anything that can jepordize (sp?) your babies health, stay healthy until the child is born, give it up for adoption, then go back to the life *you* want to live. Go on birth control until you are strong enough to resist drugs. Go to rehab and stay there until you are ready to leave...Unless drugs is the life you want to live. Im only thinking about the baby and any of your future children. You should be more aware about your childs health and stop being greedy (sorry but its true, anyone who does what you did is greedy) I hope that this feeling of guilt that you have will help you change into a more cautious and caring woman. Good luck with everything,
shannon

I was just wondering how old u r?

Maybe she doesnt wanan write back now cuz she was expecting us to be nicer to her...

Scarf, I understand what u mean, yeah we werent nice and were yelling, but thing is I mean sometimes thats what it takes, its not like this is her first kid, I mean 3 kids and still not changing? She doesnt deserve a break or for people to be nice to her to right now. All I can think about is the 3 children

I agree with you kari, obviously she deserved a second chance after the first baby but now this is the third! Its totally irressponsible and absolutely horrible thing to be doing to that baby. All I can say to that girl is stop feeling sorry for yourself and do something about it. Help your baby above anything else!

I am not going to apologize for being rude!!! She deserves everything I said to her and I hope god dosen't give her anymore children because she dosen't deserve them. I feel truly bad for those kids. Thank god they are with a better family.

Sara ~n~ jayden

I hate it when girls give there babies up and dont learn . I mean if you cant handle one use protection or dont have sex. I mean why would you keep having babies. That is so cold hearted.