Airyka
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Posts: 24 Location: Lancaster, pa, 17603 USA
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Teenage Mom
Posted: 09-05-07 02:35am
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Im 15 years old and I have a 2 year old
daughter. I had her wen I was 12 I was
suposed to be 13 but she was born 3 months
early. Her birthdays october 2nd and im
planning her a big birthday party, On top
of all that plus raising her going to
school working its not easy!! PLUS her dad
is a jerk. I know he loves her to
death,........wen he's with her he shows
it but thats just the problem he's only
ever with her once or twice a month. Im
just trying to Help girls out who are
young and want to have a baby. No matter
what you might think it's Nothing but work
and responsiblity for the rest of your
life!!
be smart
Wait!!
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ANGELOS MAMA
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jul 2006 Posts: 1128 Location: , San Diego,California
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Posted: 09-05-07 19:45pm
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Damn.Im 17 with a 15 month old son.
&& damn let me say,it aint
easy.juggling school,work,errands and
other caca that comes outta nowhere. i
mean.how did you do it? having her at
12-13? wasnt that hard? i had my son when
i was 16 and i cant even imagine having
him any sooner.
marie
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
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Posted: 09-05-07 19:51pm
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Wait is this the guy you are trying to get
over? Your babys dad. I replied to another
one of your bulleteins...
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Airyka
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Posts: 24 Location: Lancaster, pa, 17603 USA
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Posted: 09-06-07 00:26am
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Yea it was hard Very very hard. I dnt no
how I did it either. guess wit my moms
help but even then things were still
Extremly had!!
Yeah he's her father,........and he
doesn't care.
when he's with her he loves her but only
wen he wants her
other then that he wants nothing to do wit
me or her.
but wat am i suposed to do?
I cant keep him away from his daughter im
not that type of person!
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Airyka
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Posts: 24 Location: Lancaster, pa, 17603 USA
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Posted: 09-06-07 00:26am
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Yea it was hard Very very hard. I dnt no
how I did it either. guess wit my moms
help but even then things were still
Extremly had!!
Yeah he's her father,........and he
doesn't care.
when he's with her he loves her but only
wen he wants her
other then that he wants nothing to do wit
me or her.
but wat am i suposed to do?
I cant keep him away from his daughter im
not that type of person!
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SamanthaM
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Joined: 15 Dec 2005 Posts: 2079 Location: Mishawaka, Indiana
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Posted: 09-06-07 08:06am
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I can't even imagine having a baby at
12..or 16 for that matter. I had my first
at 18 and it was pretty hard. I'm 20 now
and have 2 babies that are 11 months and 3
weeks apart.
You ladies must be strong. I think I would
have died if I had a baby that young!
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
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Posted: 09-06-07 21:57pm
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| Airyka
wrote: | Yea it was hard Very very
hard. I dnt no how I did it either. guess
wit my moms help but even then things were
still Extremly had!!
Yeah he's her father,........and he
doesn't care.
when he's with her he loves her but only
wen he wants her
other then that he wants nothing to do wit
me or her.
but wat am i suposed to do?
I cant keep him away from his daughter im
not that type of
person! |
Aww I'm sorry. I wish he was more
supportive. It must be difficult for you.
You probably get this alot, BUT YOUR SO
YOUNG. Im having my first baby and Im
16...n I think thats young. Your
daughter look like you, shes beautiful.
You look older then 15 though, which Im
sure helps.
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Airyka
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Posts: 24 Location: Lancaster, pa, 17603 USA
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Posted: 09-07-07 10:15am
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Her dad is 15 also.......His birthdays
October 8......mines is october
16th..........and hers is october 2
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 09-07-07 21:31pm
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| Airyka
wrote: | | Her dad is 15 also.......His
birthdays October 8......mines is october
16th..........and hers is october
2 |
wow thats very young
im sorry hes not arround to support you
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ANGELOS MAMA
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jul 2006 Posts: 1128 Location: , San Diego,California
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Posted: 09-08-07 16:45pm
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I have a friend who also had her daugher
when she was just 13.And damn,she didn't
want t keep it at first.That had to be
tough.
I remember when i was pregnant with my son
and i was just 16.And i would remember the
way people would stare.i just cant imagine
how they would look at anyone younger.
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sexxybexxy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Sep 2007 Posts: 217 Location: England, Grimsby
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Hi
Posted: 10-01-07 06:25am
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i was 13 when i had my first baby, i have
a cute baby boy who is 2, i am 15 know and
pregnant again. I am also in a 7 year old
relationship.I never thourght then that i
would have a baby so young.I am really
sorry that he is not around for support.
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Airyka
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Posts: 24 Location: Lancaster, pa, 17603 USA
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Posted: 10-01-07 20:21pm
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Thankz
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Re: Hi
Posted: 10-01-07 21:01pm
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| sexxybexxy
wrote: | | i was 13 when i had my first
baby, i have a cute baby boy who is 2, i
am 15 know and pregnant again. I am also
in a 7 year old relationship.I never
thourght then that i would have a baby so
young.I am really sorry that he is not
around for
support. |
wait wait wait
you are in a SEVEN yr relationship?
so you hooked you when you were 8?
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
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Posted: 10-01-07 21:53pm
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WOW!!! 7 year relationship, you were just
a lil girl when you met your man. Crazy!
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jessamyn
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Joined: 18 Aug 2004 Posts: 4101 Location: San Diego, CA
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Posted: 10-03-07 12:51pm
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Thats a good post. Maternal instinct
usually kicks in no matter what age.. but
guys! that never happens... they have
alottt of growing up to do.. I dont
believe in part time dads but if thats
what you wnat then thats cool that you let
him see her when he wants to.
trying to get over him? in one effed up
version or another you'll probably always
have love for your childs father
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