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Airyka

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Posted: 09-05-07 02:35am

Im 15 years old and I have a 2 year old daughter. I had her wen I was 12 I was suposed to be 13 but she was born 3 months early. Her birthdays october 2nd and im planning her a big birthday party, On top of all that plus raising her going to school working its not easy!! PLUS her dad is a jerk. I know he loves her to death,........wen he's with her he shows it but thats just the problem he's only ever with her once or twice a month. Im just trying to Help girls out who are young and want to have a baby. No matter what you might think it's Nothing but work and responsiblity for the rest of your life!!
be smart
Wait!!
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ANGELOS MAMA

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Posted: 09-05-07 19:45pm

Damn.Im 17 with a 15 month old son. && damn let me say,it aint easy.juggling school,work,errands and other caca that comes outta nowhere. i mean.how did you do it? having her at 12-13? wasnt that hard? i had my son when i was 16 and i cant even imagine having him any sooner.

marie
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victoria16

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Posted: 09-05-07 19:51pm

Wait is this the guy you are trying to get over? Your babys dad. I replied to another one of your bulleteins...
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Airyka

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Posted: 09-06-07 00:26am

Yea it was hard Very very hard. I dnt no how I did it either. guess wit my moms help but even then things were still Extremly had!!

Yeah he's her father,........and he doesn't care.
when he's with her he loves her but only wen he wants her
other then that he wants nothing to do wit me or her.
but wat am i suposed to do?
I cant keep him away from his daughter im not that type of person!
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Airyka

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Posted: 09-06-07 00:26am

Yea it was hard Very very hard. I dnt no how I did it either. guess wit my moms help but even then things were still Extremly had!!

Yeah he's her father,........and he doesn't care.
when he's with her he loves her but only wen he wants her
other then that he wants nothing to do wit me or her.
but wat am i suposed to do?
I cant keep him away from his daughter im not that type of person!
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SamanthaM

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Posted: 09-06-07 08:06am

I can't even imagine having a baby at 12..or 16 for that matter. I had my first at 18 and it was pretty hard. I'm 20 now and have 2 babies that are 11 months and 3 weeks apart.

You ladies must be strong. I think I would have died if I had a baby that young!
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd

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Posted: 09-06-07 10:05am

so how old is the dad??
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victoria16

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Posted: 09-06-07 21:57pm

Airyka wrote:
Yea it was hard Very very hard. I dnt no how I did it either. guess wit my moms help but even then things were still Extremly had!!

Yeah he's her father,........and he doesn't care.
when he's with her he loves her but only wen he wants her
other then that he wants nothing to do wit me or her.
but wat am i suposed to do?
I cant keep him away from his daughter im not that type of person!



Aww I'm sorry. I wish he was more supportive. It must be difficult for you. You probably get this alot, BUT YOUR SO YOUNG. Im having my first baby and Im 16...n I think thats young. Very
Happy Your daughter look like you, shes beautiful.
You look older then 15 though, which Im sure helps.
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Airyka

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Posted: 09-07-07 10:15am

Her dad is 15 also.......His birthdays October 8......mines is october 16th..........and hers is october 2
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young Girl

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Posted: 09-07-07 21:31pm

Airyka wrote:
Her dad is 15 also.......His birthdays October 8......mines is october 16th..........and hers is october 2


wow thats very young

im sorry hes not arround to support you
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ANGELOS MAMA

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Posted: 09-08-07 16:45pm

I have a friend who also had her daugher when she was just 13.And damn,she didn't want t keep it at first.That had to be tough.

I remember when i was pregnant with my son and i was just 16.And i would remember the way people would stare.i just cant imagine how they would look at anyone younger.
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sexxybexxy

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Hi
Posted: 10-01-07 06:25am

i was 13 when i had my first baby, i have a cute baby boy who is 2, i am 15 know and pregnant again. I am also in a 7 year old relationship.I never thourght then that i would have a baby so young.I am really sorry that he is not around for support.
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Airyka

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Posted: 10-01-07 20:21pm

Thankz Smile
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young Girl

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Re: Hi
Posted: 10-01-07 21:01pm

sexxybexxy wrote:
i was 13 when i had my first baby, i have a cute baby boy who is 2, i am 15 know and pregnant again. I am also in a 7 year old relationship.I never thourght then that i would have a baby so young.I am really sorry that he is not around for support.


wait wait wait

you are in a SEVEN yr relationship?
so you hooked you when you were 8? Confused Rolling Eyes
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victoria16

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Posted: 10-01-07 21:53pm

WOW!!! 7 year relationship, you were just a lil girl when you met your man. Crazy!
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jessamyn

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Posted: 10-03-07 12:51pm

Thats a good post. Maternal instinct usually kicks in no matter what age.. but guys! that never happens... they have alottt of growing up to do.. I dont believe in part time dads but if thats what you wnat then thats cool that you let him see her when he wants to.

trying to get over him? in one effed up version or another you'll probably always have love for your childs father
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