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im extremely traditional and very picky. one thing i love about this girl is she is the girl and lets me be the guy. she has no history of drinking or partying or smoking and the more i see of the world the more i realize she is one of very very few girls like this. she is honestly the perfect girl. im very unattracted to "experience". i was this girls first kiss and everything to follow, as she was mine. we've done everything but have sex which i wont deny i want to but im not at all pushing for it because theres no need to, we are happy how we are.

im just very paranoid that something bad is going to happen and im not going to be able to be with her anymore because of something she does because of my very picky preferences

anything?

i totally understand where you're coming from only I'm the girl and left my man at home. We met over the summer and fell completely head over heels in love, I left to go 4 hours away to school and we wanted to be together so we just made guidelines for each other. I was a party freak freshman year of college before I met him so sophomore year I had the same party friends and we all wanted to go out, so we made the agreement that both of us could go out but not drink. Well, it caused alot of problems and trust issues and we started fighting alot so, basically came up with no partying no drinking except when I come home and we're together. I must say, those 8 months 4 hours away at school we SO hard. But we made it through it. Sometimes you gotta sacrafice and give certain things up to be with someone, and for me and him not going out wasn't a problem. It relieved alot of stress. You have to respect each other and if you dont want her going out in that way express your concerns and hope she cares enough about you. Don't tell her to not go out at all and be controlling..just suggest that maybe her and a few girlfriends go to a movie and dinner or something instead. Alcohol can make you do things you wouldn't normally do... Best of luck to you and your relationship, don't give up!

Dating a highschool girl? i did not try that!