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sillyakchick
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If it was an isolated incident, how did he know enough to go there to a particular bathroom in the Minneapolis airport where the local authorities knew enough about the fact that this type of activity had been going on?
( how would you like to have to be THAT cop?
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So, alhtough public lewdness is in deed a crime, i don't place as much importance on this as, say, lying to the country to get involved in an oil war. But this man is going to be publicly humiliated by his republican bretheren and run out of town.
SO here's a few points to consider:
1. WHY are men having sex in airport bathrooms with one another and then living a life outside that campaigns against the rights of homosexuals?
2. WHY is his crime worse than the other very obvious abuses of congressional, senatorial, and presedential power which are being orchestrated and carried out DAILY?
3. HOW can this man claim now to not be gay?
Anyone remember the case of James Dobson? Ultra right wing conservaitive evangelical church leader of the focus on the family movement in colorado springs, CO? He not only requested a male prostitute to come to his home to rpovide him with his services, he also requested that he bring along a little gift package of crystal meth. Funny thing, he's still welcomed by that same church which condemns homosexual behavior. You know why? He REPENTED AND SAID, OK I AM CURED! I AINT GAY NO MORE!
Is this OK? Can he have been "cured"?
OPinions?
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AyaMiyaki
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sillyakchick
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Birch
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AyaMiyaki
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That's not something I'd want my young son to walk in on, though. 
I kind of wish they'd get a hotel room or jump into a car with tinted windows, like other frisky horny people do. What's sexy about a filthy restroom? (apart from voyeurism I guess...)
I kind of wish they'd get a hotel room or jump into a car with tinted windows, like other frisky horny people do. What's sexy about a filthy restroom? (apart from voyeurism I guess...)
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Rodge
Active User, very eHealthy
Is this a 'cottaging' situation, or was there supposed to be actual sex involved? (This thread title makes me laugh so hard for some reason, by the way. 
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To answer your questions:
1) Repression and self-hatred. Eventually they temporarily snap from living a lie and go have anonymous gay sex in public toilets. Then they go right back to repressing it and hating themselves for their deviant urges. And the cycle goes on.
2) EW ICKY GAY PEOPLE OH NO THEY'RE HAVING SEX ON TOP OF THE FLAG AMERICA IS DOOMED OH GOD A NUCLEAR FAMILY JUST BURST INTO FLAMES
3) Panic, repression and self-hatred. Or maybe he's bi.
Being gay isn't something that can be cured. It'd be like having therapy to destroy your love of classic cars and rock music- it's a characteristic, not a disease. As long as you're healthy and happy and don't hurt the people around you, why get rid of one of the things that make you what you are? Oh, wait. The guy in the dress said so.
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To answer your questions:
1) Repression and self-hatred. Eventually they temporarily snap from living a lie and go have anonymous gay sex in public toilets. Then they go right back to repressing it and hating themselves for their deviant urges. And the cycle goes on.
2) EW ICKY GAY PEOPLE OH NO THEY'RE HAVING SEX ON TOP OF THE FLAG AMERICA IS DOOMED OH GOD A NUCLEAR FAMILY JUST BURST INTO FLAMES
3) Panic, repression and self-hatred. Or maybe he's bi.
Being gay isn't something that can be cured. It'd be like having therapy to destroy your love of classic cars and rock music- it's a characteristic, not a disease. As long as you're healthy and happy and don't hurt the people around you, why get rid of one of the things that make you what you are? Oh, wait. The guy in the dress said so.
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Georgia59
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Crazeh_Sunshine
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Mabel
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| sillyakchick wrote: |
| So recently a senator went to a Minneapolis airport bathroom where it was told that he would be able to solicit a man for gay sex. So he went there are did so, but the man he solicited was actually an undercover policeman. This senator claims that he is not gay, by the way. He also claims that it was just an isolated incident. |
How do you know he went there knowing he'd been told he could solicit gay sex? I've not seen a single thing that says he knew he could solicit sex.
| sillyakchick wrote: |
| If it was an isolated incident, how did he know enough to go there to a particular bathroom in the Minneapolis airport where the local authorities knew enough about the fact that this type of activity had been going on? |
People talk? How do people seeking drugs find drug dealers? It is along the same lines. How do gay people find other gay people?
( how would you like to have to be THAT cop?
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So, alhtough public lewdness is in deed a crime, i don't place as much importance on this as, say, lying to the country to get involved in an oil war. But this man is going to be publicly humiliated by his republican bretheren and run out of town.
SO here's a few points to consider:
| sillyakchick wrote: |
| 1. WHY are men having sex in airport bathrooms with one another and then living a life outside that campaigns against the rights of homosexuals? |
This is shame. They were brought up one way. All their friends believe one way and, believe it or not, there is still a stigma on homeosexuality.
| sillyakchick wrote: |
| 2. WHY is his crime worse than the other very obvious abuses of congressional, senatorial, and presedential power which are being orchestrated and carried out DAILY? |
I don't think anyone said his crime was worse than anyone elses crime. He admitted to his crime though.
| sillyakchick wrote: |
| 3. HOW can this man claim now to not be gay? |
Bi-sexual? Maybe he was just curious?
| sillyakchick wrote: |
| Anyone remember the case of James Dobson? Ultra right wing conservaitive evangelical church leader of the focus on the family movement in colorado springs, CO? He not only requested a male prostitute to come to his home to rpovide him with his services, he also requested that he bring along a little gift package of crystal meth. Funny thing, he's still welcomed by that same church which condemns homosexual behavior. You know why? He REPENTED AND SAID, OK I AM CURED! I AINT GAY NO MORE!
Is this OK? Can he have been "cured"? OPinions? |
How about Jimmy Swaggart? Or Tammy Faye Baker's husband (cannot remember his name)? The church is about 'forgiveness' but I doubt people within the church TRULY forgave him - they are putting up the words that they forgave him because it is the right thing to do.
No, you cannot be cured of teh gay.
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lonestarguy
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Jude-Love
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Georgia59
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I think if lesbians were seen having sex in public the guys would like it too much and not complain. 
Hell, I'd like it too much.... and I'm straight as an arrow.....
But seriously, there is such a huge "you have to be a good Christian boy" phenomena- and anyone who defies that (gay, pro-choice, etc.) is ridiculed. :::::shaking head:::::::
Hell, I'd like it too much.... and I'm straight as an arrow.....
But seriously, there is such a huge "you have to be a good Christian boy" phenomena- and anyone who defies that (gay, pro-choice, etc.) is ridiculed. :::::shaking head:::::::
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Mabel
Moderator
| Georgia59 wrote: |
| I think if lesbians were seen having sex in public the guys would like it too much and not complain.
Hell, I'd like it too much.... and I'm straight as an arrow..... But seriously, there is such a huge "you have to be a good Christian boy" phenomena- and anyone who defies that (gay, pro-choice, etc.) is ridiculed. :::::shaking head::::::: |
I don't know, I know some pretty manly levsbians. HAHA! Now if they were hot... maybe
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sillyakchick
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Georgia59
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Birch
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Georgia59
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Maybe he expected it to get boisterous and noisy.
I don't actually think they broke the law. The thing is, if a man and a woman had sex in a bathroom (which does happen) the most a cop would do is bust them and tell them to get a room. It has everything to do with an anti-gay attitude.
Just a question- I don't remember much of my high school law class, but how is this not entrapment??
I don't actually think they broke the law. The thing is, if a man and a woman had sex in a bathroom (which does happen) the most a cop would do is bust them and tell them to get a room. It has everything to do with an anti-gay attitude.
Just a question- I don't remember much of my high school law class, but how is this not entrapment??
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Georgia59
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Birch
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| Georgia59 wrote: |
| Maybe he expected it to get boisterous and noisy.
I don't actually think they broke the law. The thing is, if a man and a woman had sex in a bathroom (which does happen) the most a cop would do is bust them and tell them to get a room. It has everything to do with an anti-gay attitude. Just a question- I don't remember much of my high school law class, but how is this not entrapment?? |
I've always thought that sex stings, like the stuff that Perverted Justice.com does in conjunction with that TV show, was classic entrapment. I guess they only get charged with 'intent to...whatever' because the person was actually overage that they were in contact with.
Yeah, I agree that there certainly is a grand anti-gay aspect to this whole deal. (Personally, I think it's sweet that this man who advocates against gay rights was nailed.
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