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Q: Younger Boy In Love In Older Girl !
asked by: elderboy10 on September 4th, 2007
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hey i am 13 and in year 8 and i am a bit troubled
theres this girl in year 11 whos mates with my brother and i really fancy her i know her name and stuff but i have neva spoken to her the only thing she said to me is you look like your brother and its really annoying so please help

IS IT weird FOR SOMEONE A LOT YOUNGER TO LOVE AND GIRL A LOT OLDER????!?!?!?!

and most ppl say its lust but i know its not because i really really love her


its also making me kinda deppressed coz ive only told my bets mate about it who called me a freek
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Airyka
replied on September 5th, 2007
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Its Not wierd for someone young to love someone older. Its completely normal. And don't let anyone tell you Your not inlove. ONLY YOU can know if your truley inlove or not. Noone else can tell you that but yourself. So does she go out with your brother or is she just friends? cuz if there just friends and u really like her i say Go for it!! but if shes with your brother I wouldn't go for it.
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elderboy10
replied on September 5th, 2007
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she isnt going out with my brother but she is going out with someone else
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Airyka
replied on September 5th, 2007
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well Maybe since she's going out with someone else you shouldn't try but just becuz she has a boyfriend dont mean u cant let her no u like her. As long as its not ur brother and Ur not trying to mess up her relationship theres no problem with letting her no u like her and possibly waiting for her
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elderboy10
replied on September 5th, 2007
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Mm
1 of my mates told me to right her a note and give it to her hes the only person ive told
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young Girl
replied on September 5th, 2007
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love knows no age hun

Very Happy
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Airyka
replied on September 5th, 2007
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That can be a good idea.........Write her a note telling her how you feel. There no garentee that you'll get positive results but atleast you'll no she no's how u feel about her.
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elderboy10
replied on September 5th, 2007
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Well..
well...im a cowerd and i find it hard to pluck up the courage i need help on that
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elderboy10
replied on September 5th, 2007
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Woohooo!!!!
oh oh and today!!!! she spoke to me she said u look like your brother!!!!!!! Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Embarassed Laughing Laughing Laughing Cool
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Airyka
replied on September 6th, 2007
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are you happy that she said that?
if at the moment you dont have neough courage to write her a letter
Maybe you should start off by getting to know her spending time with her as friends. Let her catch feelings too. After awhile of spending time with her you'll start to feel comfortable and be able to write her that letter or maybe even tell her to her face
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elderboy10
replied on September 6th, 2007
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ok i wasnt happy about the brother thing that she spoke to me!
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Obscure23
replied on November 23rd, 2009
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hey....em....just like...i need help..cos im going out with a 4th year....and im in 1st year...i mean shes really nice and i like...her..but is it wrong???
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J3nnyuk
replied on November 27th, 2009
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no its not wrong hun only if you think its wrong then there is something wrong because in a relationship you should feel happy and content no matter the age...Jenny
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