Hi
My Names Eva I Am 18 And In Feb This Year
I Lost My Baby Ever Since I Have Wanted To
Try For Another...Do You Think This Is
Wrong Or Is It Ok?
When I 1St Got Preggz I Wasnt Planning For
A Baby But AFter Seeing My Baby On The
Screen I Was Over Happy.
Please Give Me View On What I Should Do.
xx
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 09-03-07 14:44pm
i think its perfectly fine as long as you
are stable financially and emotionally.
babies are hard work but if you are ready
then why not? its normal as well for you
to have felt attached to your baby and
after loosing him you may want to try
again
best of luck to you and my name is suzy
im here if you ever need to talk
im 16 yrs old and 25 weeks 3 days pregnant
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MsSincere
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Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Posts: 5 Location: London
Posted: 09-03-07 14:47pm
Thnxz N Congrats
Yh It Was Hard I Have The Biggest Support
4rm My Fiance And I Really Want Another
Child But Every1s Tellling Me Im Silly.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 09-03-07 14:48pm
No one can tell you what's right or wrong
for you. Only you can decide that. You
should consider the following though:
-Money. Could you support a child's basic
needs?
-Housing. Do you have a stable place to
raise a child?
-Bills. Goes along with money.
-Future plans. Do you want to go on to
university? Do you have a dream job? Are
you planning to stay home with your child
(and are you able to do that?) or will you
rely on using a nanny/daycare and work
instead?
-Relationships. Is your partner ready and
willing for a child? Are you hoping to
marry some day? If you and your partner
split up, are you prepared and okay with
being a single parent?
-Emergencies. Goes along with money as
well. Do you have a "rainy day" fund you
could draw from if there's an emergency?
-Support system. Do you have people you
can rely on to help you through your
pregnancy and afterward with your child?
-Emotions. Are you trying to replace the
child you've lost? Do you feel truly
prepared to end your "childhood" and
become a mother?
There are other factors to consider as
well, but I'll leave you to consider these
first. Either way, I wish you the best of
luck, and I invite you to stay around and
listen to other women as they talk about
their pregnancies, babies, and lives with
children. Best wishes.
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 09-03-07 14:49pm
yeah its normal to get negative response
from people because your so young
but who cares?
also if maybe you could start spelling
better on the fourms because its kindof
hard to read your posts
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MsSincere
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Joined: 03 Sep 2007 Posts: 5 Location: London
Posted: 09-03-07 14:53pm
Sorry about the spellings my keyboards
messed up and i am writing fast.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 09-03-07 14:56pm
I'm with everyone else. I feel that 18 is
old enough where IF you can support it and
*want* it, go for it!
Aside from that: having a desire to become
pregnant again after losing one is very
very common.
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 09-03-07 15:03pm
MsSincere
wrote:
Sorry about the spellings my
keyboards messed up and i am writing
fast.
its ok lol
i do the same thing sometimes
i type too fast
