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gashead

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Please Help Me, I Dont Know What to Do
Posted: 09-03-07 13:49pm

Help, me, im distraught. Im a teenage boy. I went to a friends sleepover, and over night, i wet the bed. I dont have a history of bedwetting by the way. I tried desperatly to cover it up by blaming it on his pet dog, but i dont think he believed me. Now what do i do? I can never go back to the boys house again because his family know, and have proabaly had to clean it up. He has older sisters who probably find it funny. Im denying it, but he thinks it was me and now he is going to tell all my friends and everyone else, and my social life will be ruined. Im just so distraught, embarrassed and depressed. What cann i possibly do?
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young Girl

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Posted: 09-03-07 13:52pm

oh hun im sorry

you know ive had some very embarassing moments in my life
one time someone pulled my pants down at school. it was horrible because i was on my period and so i had a pad on Evil or
Very Mad
i was a cheerleader and everyone knew me
it sucked
but you know the best way is to just laugh it off with everyone else
its not a big deal ya know? so what you had to pee? you cant help it! its not your fault!

and if that boy is your friend then he wil not spread it around
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gashead

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Posted: 09-03-07 14:03pm

but do i just admit it and be really embarrassed or continue with the lame "the pet dog peed on e" story?
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young Girl

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Posted: 09-03-07 14:08pm

if someone brings it up then just go on with your story

they dont know
they werent there!!!!!

kids are cruel these days and im sorry that you had to expiereince that
i know i wouldnt laugh about it. its just not funny to me
everyone has to pee ya know?
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victoria16

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Posted: 09-03-07 14:31pm

Hey,
Sorry to hear about what happend that must have been very embarasing.
If I were I would stick to your storie no one needs to know the truth its none of thier buisness rite? People may even think your friend is lying...if you stick to your storie. Very
Happy Hope this helped
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gashead

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Posted: 09-03-07 14:33pm

thanks guys, that makes me feel better Smile

im still going to be paranoid about it for quite some time tho....

and how do i act to his family if i go back to his house?
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young Girl

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Posted: 09-03-07 14:40pm

gashead wrote:
thanks guys, that makes me feel better Smile

im still going to be paranoid about it for quite some time tho....

and how do i act to his family if i go back to his house?


i would be like " if that dog pees on me one more time im going to cut his wee wee off" Wink

his family shouldnt care either
if they like and respect you they will leave it alone

its natural to be paranoid and scared and embarassed
if you need anything i here ok and also let us know in a few days how it all goes

good luck!
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victoria16

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Posted: 09-03-07 14:43pm

the_girlfreind wrote:
gashead wrote:
thanks guys, that makes me feel better Smile

im still going to be paranoid about it for quite some time tho....

and how do i act to his family if i go back to his house?


i would be like " if that dog pees on me one more time im going to cut his wee wee off" Wink

his family shouldnt care either
if they like and respect you they will leave it alone

its natural to be paranoid and scared and embarassed
if you need anything i here ok and also let us know in a few days how it all goes

good luck!


EXACTLY!!! They should not care. I mean seriously thier dog peed on you, rite? *wink wink* They should feel bad. Very
Happy Im sure they wont treat you any differently then before. I understand why you would feel paranoid and embarassed I would to but it will pass in time.
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gashead

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Posted: 09-03-07 14:54pm

thank you both so much Very
Happy
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victoria16

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Posted: 09-03-07 14:59pm

gashead wrote:
thank you both so much Very
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Anytime. Very
Happy
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young Girl

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Posted: 09-03-07 15:05pm

no problem Very
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thats what we are here for lol

but seriously if you need anything just Pm me anytime ok? i have no life so im on this forum all day long Very
Happy
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gashead

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Posted: 09-04-07 05:24am

ive been invited out with a bunch of friends including THE friend

im scared to go....
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young Girl

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Posted: 09-04-07 12:10pm

gashead wrote:
ive been invited out with a bunch of friends including THE friend

im scared to go....


ahh go for it! if they invited you out then the obviously want to be friends with you still
have you talked to any of them over the phone or anything?

i know its scary but you really cant avoid them your whole life ya know? Sad
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gashead

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Posted: 09-04-07 16:53pm

it went well i think, nobody said anything to my face. Im still worried that they are talking behind my back however...
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