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Terry115

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am I pregnant?
Posted: 09-02-07 00:15am

I may be pregnant.. and am only 15...
i never ment for it to happen
and i dont know wha to do.....
i know what i have to do
but i can't mess my family up again
it already happened to my sister.. and it can't happen to me....
it just can't
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amethyst eyes

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Posted: 09-02-07 00:38am

It is not the end of the world. There are so many things to look roward to to think of doing something to extreme. Please talk to a family member you trust or another adult you trust about this. Everything will be ok.
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victoria16

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Re: I Want to Kill Myself
Posted: 09-02-07 01:03am

Terry115 wrote:
I may be pregnant.. and am only 15...
i never ment for it to happen
and i dont know wha to do.....
i know what i have to do
but i can't mess my family up again
it already happened to my sister.. and it can't happen to me....
it just can't


Hey
Im Victoria. Im 16 years old Im also pregnant. You need to relax. Thiers many opptions for you. What is it YOU want to do? Please keep calm dont do anything extreme. Feel free to pricate message me if you want to talk or jsut need to vent.
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Terry115

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Posted: 09-02-07 14:43pm

Thanks for the support. I dont want to do anything extreme.. if i am pregnant.. i want to take responsibilty for what i chose to do and attempt to raise the child th best i can. if not, im no longer going to have sex or do anything of the sort.. it only leads me to have a hard life.. and isaw it.. and i dont want it to have any affect on my familyu.
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victoria16

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Posted: 09-02-07 15:37pm

Terry115 wrote:
Thanks for the support. I dont want to do anything extreme.. if i am pregnant.. i want to take responsibilty for what i chose to do and attempt to raise the child th best i can. if not, im no longer going to have sex or do anything of the sort.. it only leads me to have a hard life.. and isaw it.. and i dont want it to have any affect on my familyu.


Thats very responsable of you. Very
Happy
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ilovemyfishies81

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Posted: 09-02-07 15:56pm

Teenage pregnancy is becoming more common and people are not doing the mouth drop like they used too. Talk to your parent/s if you have any. If you have grand parents talk to them about it. There are options for handling a situation like this. Even if you dont believe in abortion you can always put it up for adoption. There are alot of people who want children who can not have them. Im 26 i have seen,heard and been through alot. Its not as bad as you think
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Keeba88

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Joined: 08 Sep 2007
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Posted: 09-10-07 19:32pm

I am so very proud of you...that your stepping up to the plate and taking responsibility for possibly having a child. Yes you may be young...but i know you can do it! Are you still with the guy that could posibly be the father of your child? I'm sure that he will help you out to (if hes still around). I really can't explain how proud i am of you that you are taking responsibility and are willing to take as good of care as you possibly can of this child...if you are pregnant. If your not...i think it would be a good idea if you go on birth control if you decide to still be sexually active. I'm not sure where youlive and if youhave a planned parenthood around you...but its a great place. Thats where i go to get birth control pills. GOOD LUCK HUN! Very
Happy and update us as to wether you are for sure pregnant or not! We are all here for you!
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Oicangi

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Posted: 09-10-07 20:04pm

How can you be depressed if you didn't even talked with your family? I mean, sure you have doubts on how they will take it because it happened to your sis, but, its dammn beautiful to have a child, and more if is with someone you really love...

So, go talk to them, I assure you they will be understandable, I bet.

Go on and have a nice baby Smile
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Terry115

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Posted: 09-10-07 21:28pm

Well, I know it's been a while since my last post.. but i just actually got through with my period.. so i'm not pregnant.. but.. i was just so very scared. I can be depressed with the knowledge of not talking to my parents because something like that is life changing.. and its not the life i want. I know having a child is beautiful, and when i'm ready for it, I'll agree and be super amazingly happy. But for the moment now as it stands, the guy who could have been the father and i are still together and we have decided to wait until we are married ot have sex. I know it was a big decision but it was the best.
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Keeba88

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Posted: 09-10-07 22:09pm

Well congrats hun...but i'm still glad that you were willing to step up to the plate. And i'm glad that you guys are still together and have committed to not having sex until you guys get married! Very
Happy i support that!
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Staocheb

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Re: Am I Pregnant?
Posted: 09-11-07 05:35am

Terry115 wrote:
I may be pregnant.. and am only 15...
i never ment for it to happen
and i dont know wha to do.....
i know what i have to do
but i can't mess my family up again
it already happened to my sister.. and it can't happen to me....
it just can't


Hi! My sister is 29 y o and she doesn't have a child yet. Her husband can't have children. That is the tragedy.
You must be wiser. Don't be a child. If you are pregnant you are adult enough to solve problems. Don't think about killing yourself. Everything will be OK. Just be stronger and wiser.
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brent 10

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Joined: 20 Sep 2007
Posts: 1
Loneliness
Posted: 09-20-07 19:30pm

I wish I could find a woman who is interested in me.I do not enjoy being by myself. Sad
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