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Terry115
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007
Posts: 29
Location: Forest Grove
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am I pregnant?
Posted: 09-02-07 00:15am
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I may be pregnant.. and am only 15...
i never ment for it to happen
and i dont know wha to do.....
i know what i have to do
but i can't mess my family up again
it already happened to my sister.. and it
can't happen to me....
it just can't
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amethyst eyes
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Nov 2006
Posts: 1339
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Posted: 09-02-07 00:38am
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It is not the end of the world. There are
so many things to look roward to to think
of doing something to extreme. Please
talk to a family member you trust or
another adult you trust about this.
Everything will be ok.
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007
Posts: 451
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Re: I Want to Kill Myself
Posted: 09-02-07 01:03am
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| Terry115
wrote: | I may be pregnant.. and am
only 15...
i never ment for it to happen
and i dont know wha to do.....
i know what i have to do
but i can't mess my family up again
it already happened to my sister.. and it
can't happen to me....
it just can't |
Hey
Im Victoria. Im 16 years old Im also
pregnant. You need to relax. Thiers many
opptions for you. What is it YOU want to
do? Please keep calm dont do anything
extreme. Feel free to pricate message me
if you want to talk or jsut need to vent.
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Terry115
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007
Posts: 29
Location: Forest Grove
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Posted: 09-02-07 14:43pm
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Thanks for the support. I dont want to do
anything extreme.. if i am pregnant.. i
want to take responsibilty for what i
chose to do and attempt to raise the child
th best i can. if not, im no longer going
to have sex or do anything of the sort..
it only leads me to have a hard life.. and
isaw it.. and i dont want it to have any
affect on my familyu.
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victoria16
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jul 2007
Posts: 451
Location: ,
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Posted: 09-02-07 15:37pm
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| Terry115
wrote: | | Thanks for the support. I
dont want to do anything extreme.. if i am
pregnant.. i want to take responsibilty
for what i chose to do and attempt to
raise the child th best i can. if not, im
no longer going to have sex or do anything
of the sort.. it only leads me to have a
hard life.. and isaw it.. and i dont want
it to have any affect on my
familyu. |
Thats very responsable of you. 
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ilovemyfishies81
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Posted: 09-02-07 15:56pm
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Teenage pregnancy is becoming more common
and people are not doing the mouth drop
like they used too. Talk to your parent/s
if you have any. If you have grand parents
talk to them about it. There are options
for handling a situation like this. Even
if you dont believe in abortion you can
always put it up for adoption. There are
alot of people who want children who can
not have them. Im 26 i have seen,heard and
been through alot. Its not as bad as you
think
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Keeba88
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Sep 2007
Posts: 223
Location: ,
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Posted: 09-10-07 19:32pm
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I am so very proud of you...that your
stepping up to the plate and taking
responsibility for possibly having a
child. Yes you may be young...but i know
you can do it! Are you still with the guy
that could posibly be the father of your
child? I'm sure that he will help you out
to (if hes still around). I really can't
explain how proud i am of you that you are
taking responsibility and are willing to
take as good of care as you possibly can
of this child...if you are pregnant. If
your not...i think it would be a good idea
if you go on birth control if you decide
to still be sexually active. I'm not sure
where youlive and if youhave a planned
parenthood around you...but its a great
place. Thats where i go to get birth
control pills. GOOD LUCK HUN! and update
us as to wether you are for sure pregnant
or not! We are all here for you!
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Oicangi
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Sep 2007
Posts: 18
Location: Private
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Posted: 09-10-07 20:04pm
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How can you be depressed if you didn't
even talked with your family? I mean, sure
you have doubts on how they will take it
because it happened to your sis, but, its
dammn beautiful to have a child, and more
if is with someone you really love...
So, go talk to them, I assure you they
will be understandable, I bet.
Go on and have a nice baby 
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Terry115
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007
Posts: 29
Location: Forest Grove
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Posted: 09-10-07 21:28pm
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Well, I know it's been a while since my
last post.. but i just actually got
through with my period.. so i'm not
pregnant.. but.. i was just so very
scared. I can be depressed with the
knowledge of not talking to my parents
because something like that is life
changing.. and its not the life i want. I
know having a child is beautiful, and when
i'm ready for it, I'll agree and be super
amazingly happy. But for the moment now as
it stands, the guy who could have been the
father and i are still together and we
have decided to wait until we are married
ot have sex. I know it was a big decision
but it was the best.
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Keeba88
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Sep 2007
Posts: 223
Location: ,
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Posted: 09-10-07 22:09pm
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Well congrats hun...but i'm still glad
that you were willing to step up to the
plate. And i'm glad that you guys are
still together and have committed to not
having sex until you guys get married!
i support
that!
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Staocheb
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Sep 2007
Posts: 7
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Re: Am I Pregnant?
Posted: 09-11-07 05:35am
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| Terry115
wrote: | I may be pregnant.. and am
only 15...
i never ment for it to happen
and i dont know wha to do.....
i know what i have to do
but i can't mess my family up again
it already happened to my sister.. and it
can't happen to me....
it just can't |
Hi! My sister is 29 y o and she doesn't
have a child yet. Her husband can't have
children. That is the tragedy.
You must be wiser. Don't be a child. If
you are pregnant you are adult enough to
solve problems. Don't think about killing
yourself. Everything will be OK. Just be
stronger and wiser.
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brent 10
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2007
Posts: 1
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Loneliness
Posted: 09-20-07 19:30pm
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I wish I could find a woman who is
interested in me.I do not enjoy being by
myself. 
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