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Q: Protected sex but possibly implantation bleeding?
asked by: Terry115 on September 2nd, 2007
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I'm so scared right now
i'm talking to my boyfriend about this
i'm only 15... iknow it was a mistake
but ihad sex.. with a condom
then i had my period.. but we had anal.. after words
and now i have bigger boobs and implantation bleeidng
i never EVER have regular periods
but this would be my frist regular one.... and i'm scared as hell and am crying
and nervous... please someone.. help me
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amethyst eyes
replied on September 2nd, 2007
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Honey, if you are having a period at all then you are not pregnant. You need to get on birth control and/or use a condom every single time and even then it is not guaranteed that you will not get pregnant. If you are going to be sexually active at all you need to be responsible for your body and take care of yourself. Get pap smears and regular gyno check-ups and protect yourself everytime.
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Terry115
replied on September 2nd, 2007
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I never ment for this to happen.. and i'm not even sure
i just feel pregnant
i've heard its a sign.. and it can happen
but what do i do if i am? my parents would be devistated.. i need to finish school.. and i need to be a good person
but i coudn't live with myself
i barely can now
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amethyst eyes
replied on September 2nd, 2007
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When was your last period? When did you have sex?
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Terry115
replied on September 2nd, 2007
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last time i had sex was maybe on the 7th.... it was anal... and the condom broke.... he said he din't sperm or cum.. but i was till worried

and i would trade in everytihng.. just to not have to feel like this...
i feel owful..



if i am.. its going to ruin my parents trust in me.. and in my sister future boyfriends
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Moo
replied on September 2nd, 2007
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You wouldn't be pregnant from anal sex hun.

If when you had vaginal intercourse you used a condom it's unlikely you'd be pregnant but you say you've had your period since then so try not to worry.

Also, implantation bleeding is not actually common and many 'pregnancy' symptoms are the same as pre-menstrual ones, if you're worried it's easy to confuse the two but I would try not to worry ok?

If you're planning to continue having sex have you thought about maybe using another form of birth control (such as the pill) as well? It will also help regulate your periods.
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Terry115
replied on September 2nd, 2007
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Well you see, I know that this could very well not be true, and i could just be freaking out.. but i just feel pregnant.. i'm not sure.. my body feels different.. and its not in a good way what so ever. I'm just nervous.. but both my boyfrine and i said if i was, then we'd take responsibiilty for our actoins and grow up.
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AyaMiyaki
replied on September 2nd, 2007
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You can't get pregnant from anal sex, sweetheart. The only way it could happen would be if sperm happened to get inside your vagina somehow. You said yourself that he didn't ejaculate, and I highly doubt pre-ejacualte from your anus traveled into your vagina.

I really, really don't think you're pregnant. I think you're panicking and over-analyzing what you're feeling. Wait until you miss your period, and then take a pregnancy test if it doesn't show. I think you can relax though.
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Terry115
replied on September 3rd, 2007
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I have terrific news. Today i started my period.. fully.. no brownish blood or pinkish... but full on red. I am soo happy! I started to cry and thanked God. I am going to start something from this.. both my boyfriend and I are. If you are responsible for a child, then dont have sex. My life almost crashed in front of my eyes, and there wasn't a thing i could do. Abstinece is the ONLY way to keep your life calm and safe. With any type of sexual conections to your boyfriend.. you get sucked in somehting that is terribe.. both my and my boyfriend felt our lives start to hurt.. and we couldnt' figure otu why until we decided NO MORE! THank you SO much for all you rhelp and kind words! I love you all so much.
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