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ronwifey
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Orgasms ?
Posted: 09-01-07 18:46pm
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I'm so glad I found this site. It's better
then Sue Johansen, lol. Ok, how do I know
I've had a real G-Spot orgasm? I can have
an O while on top or bottom and receiving
oral  and
it feels the same. Of course it feels
GREAT but how do I know that's actually
"it". Also what the heck and where the
heck does the *~feeling~* come from?
Lately when I'm about to have an O I start
concentrating so I can try to feel where
it's actually coming from and try to
describe the feeling but I just can't. I
know I'm weird, lol.  And
I've tried to look up information about
orgasms but all I get is a bunch of weird
porn crap.
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-01-07 18:55pm
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ha ha yeah dont google orgasms 
well there are 2 kinds of orgasms
vaginal and clitoral
clitoral is the one most women have
because only 10% of women can actually
have a vaginal orgasm! so therefer most
women dont even have vaginal orgasms or
know what it feels like when the man hits
your "G spot"
however if you were haveing a vaginal
orgasm some women like to describe it as
an urge to pee
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CBacall
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Find Your G Spot
Posted: 09-06-07 11:05am
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Not all people can have an orgasm via
their GSpot because some are not as
"accessible" and so isn't easily
stimulated when having sex. If you have
never experience GSpot orgasm you sure are
missing out on something. There's this
procedure i saw on TV and read about on
the net that increases the size of the
GSpot so you can have increased pleasure
during sex. You might want to read about
it. It also has an illustration of where
the GSpot is so it'll help you find where
it is.
http
://www.body-philosophy.net/gspot_gshot_sex
_viagra_women
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-06-07 12:05pm
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I'm pretty sure all my orgasms are
clitoral and I don't feel I'm missing out
on anything.
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thelmas4sale
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Posted: 09-06-07 19:57pm
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i know this is totally unrelated...but i
just found out that the organs required to
have an orgasm are attached to your
coccyx! thats its only function is to aid
in orgasms lol...so basically if humans
didn't have a coccyx we couldn't have
orgasms!! isn't that weird?!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 09-06-07 20:33pm
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| thelmas4sale
wrote: | | i know this is totally
unrelated...but i just found out that the
organs required to have an orgasm are
attached to your coccyx! thats its only
function is to aid in orgasms lol...so
basically if humans didn't have a coccyx
we couldn't have orgasms!! isn't that
weird?! |
What are they??
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young Girl
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Posted: 09-06-07 20:33pm
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| Georgia59
wrote: | | thelmas4sale
wrote: | | i know this is totally
unrelated...but i just found out that the
organs required to have an orgasm are
attached to your coccyx! thats its only
function is to aid in orgasms lol...so
basically if humans didn't have a coccyx
we couldn't have orgasms!! isn't that
weird?! |
What are
they?? |
i dont know lol but im glad i have them!
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CBacall
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Coccyx
Posted: 09-07-07 08:30am
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Googled it up...
Coccyx - Commonly called the tailbone, the
coccyx is composed of four separate but
fused vertebrae that make up the bottom of
your spine.
Now i know why it's called a boner...
But wait that's for guys!
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young Girl
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Re: Coccyx
Posted: 09-07-07 19:13pm
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| CBacall
wrote: | Googled it up...
Coccyx - Commonly called the tailbone, the
coccyx is composed of four separate but
fused vertebrae that make up the bottom of
your spine.
Now i know why it's called a boner...
But wait that's for guys!
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lol ive never had a boner before! orgsm
yes boner no
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ILovePete
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Posted: 09-08-07 00:06am
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There is another aspect to this
conversation.
My husband and I have been married almost
5 years. I have never had an orgasim. We
have been going to a womens institute for
sexual health for over a year with no
results. we have seen physical therapist,
sex therapist, acupuncture, herbs, libido
lifters, vibrators, books, postions,
tests, hormones. Everything! with no luck.
There are sexual problems that are not
just mental but physical as well. My twin
sister has the exact same sex problems as
me and she has been married twice as long.
Some times your body just doesn't respond.
I have the sweetest most romantic husband
that I talk to all the time and tell him
what I want. but I still have no desire
for sex and no matter how long we do
forplay nothing in my body that is
supposed to happends happends. so how do
you explain that?
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Chezzy
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Posted: 09-08-07 04:16am
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| ILovePete
wrote: | There is another aspect to
this conversation.
My husband and I have been married almost
5 years. I have never had an orgasim. We
have been going to a womens institute for
sexual health for over a year with no
results. we have seen physical therapist,
sex therapist, acupuncture, herbs, libido
lifters, vibrators, books, postions,
tests, hormones. Everything! with no luck.
There are sexual problems that are not
just mental but physical as well. My twin
sister has the exact same sex problems as
me and she has been married twice as long.
Some times your body just doesn't respond.
I have the sweetest most romantic husband
that I talk to all the time and tell him
what I want. but I still have no desire
for sex and no matter how long we do
forplay nothing in my body that is
supposed to happends happends. so how do
you explain
that? |
I'm not being silly here, but serious,
maybe get a mirror and have a look at your
vagina, if need be get some lube and see
where your clitoris is, and start gently
carressing it..Have a look at the area and
where you can feel its stimulation..My EX
was hopeless at getting me to climax 
I ended up doing it myself..
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ILovePete
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Posted: 09-08-07 14:46pm
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Dear chezy,
Yes i have already done that, hundreds of
times, for hours at a time. I know exactly
where my clitoris is. It feels like
nothing when it is stimulated, it feels
unsexual and numb. I have tried it with
lube, vibartors, and my dotor even gave me
a pump that you sunction on for 15 mins
before sex and it swells up with blood
flow down there for more sensation. it
doesn't feel good.
Like I have said I have tried everything.
It is frustrating when you love your
husband so much and you feel like you
san't satisfy him, or feel close with
him.
It is very depressing.
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Posted: 09-08-07 15:28pm
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Well, unfortunately, some women simply
can't orgasm.
About the only thing it seems you haven't
tried is g-spot injections, but that won't
help your clitoris.
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Chezzy
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Posted: 09-08-07 17:53pm
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I didn't mean to be offensive to you if it
came out that way, was trying to suggest
things that you may not have tried, I'm
really sorry, it must be very frustrating,
I could not imagine how much.. 
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ILovePete
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Posted: 09-09-07 23:07pm
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Dear chezzy,
no I didn't mean to sound rude. It is just
a helpless situation. I can't even imagine
a normal sex life.
Everything I see makes me feel bad,
commercials, movies, songs eerything.
Luckily my husband and I hae been soul
mates since the first time we layed eye's
on each other.
I can tell it frustrates him but we still
have so much more to our relationship then
sex. Thank God for that. He still tries to
make me feel special with romantic
weekends away, flowers and poems. I am
glad he married me for more then sex you
know?
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ILovePete
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Posted: 09-09-07 23:11pm
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Dear Eiri,
Yeah I have heard of the g-spot
injections. My doctor said that my aginal
cavity is shaped different and that my
g-spot of coered with bone. Bad luck I
know. Whenever we hae tried to do anything
with where the g-spot should be it feels
like I have to pee really bad, and does
not go away no matter how long we try.
craziness.
I hope I have an orgasim someday...I feel
very sexually frustrated *smile* oh well
for now
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Chezzy
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Posted: 09-10-07 03:24am
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Your very lucky to have such an
understanding guy, he obviously loves you
too pieces no matter what, which is bloody
fantastic..Like I said I Cant imagine
what your feeling or going thru or even
begin too, I just hope in my heart that
you are able to get an answer or solution
to it..
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ILovePete
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Posted: 09-10-07 13:39pm
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Dear chezzy,
Thank you for the kind words. Yes I am
lucky. My husband and I were both virgins
when we got married, so we didn't get
married for sex, and we aren't going to
seperate because of sex.
I am looking more into the coccyx thing
you guys were talking too. I hurt mine
years ago really bad and since you guys
were saying that it may be tied with
orgasims I am going to ask my doctor about
it next visit. Thanks. I will never stop
searching for what is going on. If we can
get the sex on track our relationship
would be perfect!
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Keeba88
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Posted: 09-10-07 17:45pm
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G-Spot orgasm is suppose to feel like you
have to pee. But i wish the best of luck
to you and your hubby and i hope you find
some way to make it work. Best of luck to
you hun!
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