haha, like she'd want that.

What do I think of when I picture abortion? Well, I have watched numerous videos of abortions and I picture a vegetating fetus that looks more like a shrimp than a human being sucked out of the woman's body.

But I also picture women feeling relief knowing they do not need to suffer the consequences of failed birth control or rape/incest. I see women who have the opportunity to remain in college, keep their careers, and not maintain physical bonds to men they may possibly no longer want to have anything to do with. I also see children who will never have to grow up in families where they are not wanted, or in the system where it's only completely blatant they were not wanted.

I see the reality of the procedure, but I also see the potentially life-saving results it can have for the one whose life matters more.

I see somebody who sees what they want to see! Do not mistake that for reality though!

I see and saw a easy medical setting softened by the knowing touch of a good interior decorator, I saw kind patient staff full of ready explanations of what was going on, I saw a soft voiced compassionate doctor explaining everything he was doing to me; so now I picture abortion done by caring compassionate calm professionals who make women as comfortable as possible, take excellent care of the women afterward, provide antibiotics and pain killers and ensure she has a safe way to get home even if they have to pay for a cab for her.

Experience colors my views but as for the embryo; I see something resembeling a blood clot or egg drop soup being removed. Cairyfairy once posted pictures of an actual 10 week abortion; it looked like egg drop soup, it wasnt a 1.5 cm perfect replica of a post birth baby.
Rhetoric and propaganda have never worked for me.

i see something that women want to see
happiness but guilt

He's obviously still so mentally slow that he doesn't understand sarcasm. For once, I thought it was obvious enough that I didn't need the [/sarcasm] tag! Guess not!

Oh jeeze! So "marriage material" is considered by this loser is a woman who obeys her husband's every command?? Puh-lease!!!!

My husband is scared of the wrath of Marianne, just as he should be.

Doesn't seem like you're much of marriage material at all, embarrassed40. Must be what you're so embarrASSed about.

At least you feel guilty! Most of these ladies act like they did nothing wrong and are all about the "Right"! Very sad, and definately not marriage material!

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My husband is scared of the wrath of Marianne, just as he should be.

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He either pretends to be scared to mollify you or is pretending to be a man!

I already mentioned earlier, you are not marriage material for me but that does'nt mean there is not someone out there for you. Good luck in your search!

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I think you're the one pretending to be a man. I'm sure you're either single, 40, and living in your mother's basement, or your wife is seriously depressed that she settled for the likes of you

I see a delusional person.
Oh, and good luck with finding a wife who has never aborted. Half of all women will have at least one abortion in their reproductive lifetimes.

Obviously you wouldn't want one. Do you think people go around "wanting" abortions? And you are at a place in life where you don't need one, either. I am also in a place where I don't "need" an abortion. Any subsequent pregnancies (I have one little girl) would be welcome because I am married and in a secure financial and emotional place.

But weren't you ever in a place where the thought of gestating a pregnancy and giving birth filled you with horror? Like when you were 12?

SHOOT.

My husband took me to the abortion clinic, JUST LIKE I WANTED HIM TO.



I am pro choice and never want babies, so I would never marry a man that did not support abortion.

I will repost those pictures of abortion..

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Just ignore it.

lol!

I think somebody needs to come out of the closet.

You able to get it up these days, embarrassed?

I see my neice or nephew on the ultra sound screen and still hear that heart beat and remember hearing my little boy talking about baby dot. That baby I won't ever get to hold and spoil. Try explaining to a 3 and 6 year old why auntie is not having baby dot. It sucks! I had sex and got pregnant at 17 I sucked it up and had my baby. You can do anything you want a baby may make it harder but you still can. And if you can't at least give someone the chance to have the baby THEY always wanted. You chose to have sex chose to be responsible when something happens. And if you don't want children there is a small fix for either sex on that one!

Possible because we didn't do anything wrong. Abortion isn't illegal so there is nothing to have done wrong.
Emotionalization doesn't do it for me either.

*PLays the long sad song on the worlds smallest violin* guilt trip attempts get no father then propaganda or emotionalization and rhetoric.
Though I am wondering why you brought a small child into see an ultrasound during and abortion.
Would you care to explain this?