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embarrassed40
on October 6th, 2007
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Jincks013 wrote:
armywife5607 wrote:
i picture someone who has no heart or soul


And you'd know this how? Did you actually open up their chest to see she hasn't a heart? you did know a person doesn't live real well without one and as entertaining as we find vampires the undead just don't happen. I'm pretty sure they wouldn't be able to get pregnant either.

armywife5607 wrote:
that is perfectly fine with killing an innocent child


Whoa! Brakes! Warp Stop Sulu..
I haven't seen a single person post killing a child is ok. Why do you assume so? Do you have some information you ought to share with the rest of us?
This tiresome game of self gratifiying pity party semantics may work for you but lets get back to embryos m'kay?


armywife5607 wrote:
who's an unsuspecting bystander in someone's mifortune that never had a chance at life.


Embryo's can stand by? How? Can you describe in exact detail how this occurs? Last I heard they don't have any self awareness to stand by. Again your use of senseless semantics leaves me gasping for breath trying to control my laughter..


Strictly rationalizations, unsuccessully meant to demean this young ladies opinions as ignorant! Her simple wisdom trumps your silly play on semantics! Laughing
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Jincks013
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Awww.. poor Embarrassed.. you certainly are.

Perhaps you'd care to point out where this wisdom is there plato? in your cave perhaps?
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Georgia59
replied on October 6th, 2007
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#1 I can not force anyone to gestate, but I can be a very strong influence! Razz

#2 I will take your "Informed" comment under consideration in future sexual escapades, although I am currently engaged and do not expect any in the near-term!

#3 Regardless of whose body is being utilized for housing & nurishment, the act was committed by both parties, therefore both parties live up to their different & equally difficult responsibilities.


#1- You're right, you couldn't force a woman to gestate. But that is the basis of the pro-life movement, that they don't want women to even have the choice of aborting regardless of her spiritual/moral beliefs.
#2- I do think it is important, since you have such strong opinions on the subject, that you make them known before you have sex with a woman. I would appreciate it if I was a woman in that situation. Smile But I'm happy for you that you're engaged.
#3- This is true. But for the first nine months, it really is mommy only. You can't deny that. We have had this debate in a similar but different way- my suggestion is that since mommies can opt out of being pregnant (through abortion) daddies should have a period of time where they can opt out too, thus not be legally/financially responsible for a child if the mother decides to carry through with the pregnancy, to try and reconcile the fact that daddies don't seem to have a choice in the abortion issue. But I also think that's why it's important for you to tell women (before you sleep with them!) your views- so they can choose not to have sex with someone who would rather gestate.

Once again, many (I want to say most but I don't know the stats) abortions happen because of the failure of birth control, not because of frivolous sex! Do you consider any time you've had sex with a woman frivolous if you didn't follow up to make sure that she wasn't pregnant? I don't know about your sex life, so I don't really know the nature of your 'sexual escapades'. I just have a hard time when you make these judgments of women but not the men who slept with them- like you pointed out, there are two parties responsible for a pregnancy.

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embarrassed40
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Jincks013 wrote:
Awww.. poor Embarrassed.. you certainly are.

Perhaps you'd care to point out where this wisdom is there plato? in your cave perhaps?


Sadly your ignorance & intolerance are glued on your craggled forehead! Yes, my cave is full of many simple yet wise artifacts.
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Jincks013
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LMAO.. you are ignorant!! Hint.. try putting philospher and plato into your browser there mr. wisdom..perhaps you might understand the reference sometime.
wisdom involves:

seeing things clearly; seeing things as they are (not usually a 17 yr olds forte)
acting in prudent and effective ways (teenagers do this? when did that start?)
acting with the well-being of the whole in mind (indulging in prejudice does not in fact demonstraite this)
deeply understanding the human/cosmic situation (again.. teenagers do this when?)
knowing when to act and when not to act (this is why its called learning years)
being able to handle whatever arises with peace of mind and an effective, compassionate, holistic response (judgementalism doesn't qualify here)
being able to anticipate potential problems and avoid them ( again.. a learning process)

PWN'D by logic and actual wisdom embarrassed philosopher..
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embarrassed40
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Jincks013 wrote:
ha ha ha.. you are ignorant!! Hint.. try putting philospher and plato into your browser there mr. wisdom..perhaps you might understand the reference sometime.
wisdom involves:

seeing things clearly; seeing things as they are (not usually a 17 yr olds forte)
acting in prudent and effective ways (teenagers do this? when did that start?)
acting with the well-being of the whole in mind (indulging in prejudice does not in fact demonstraite this)
deeply understanding the human/cosmic situation (again.. teenagers do this when?)
knowing when to act and when not to act (this is why its called learning years)
being able to handle whatever arises with peace of mind and an effective, compassionate, holistic response (judgementalism doesn't qualify here)
being able to anticipate potential problems and avoid them ( again.. a learning process)

PWN'D by logic and actual wisdom embarrassed philosopher..


Good luck in your philosophical studies. I suggest starting at the 100's level classes with the other young and unfinished minds. I think once you have been versed with the wisdom of the ages your opinion on abortion will be forever changed!
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Jincks013
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*chuckles* you so don't get it do you cave man? Hint: Allagory of a cave.. you fail to grasp the significance of the epistimology in relation to your obession with hitlarian control tactics on women.
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embarrassed40
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Jincks013 wrote:
*chuckles* you so don't get it do you cave man? Hint: Allagory of a cave.. you fail to grasp the significance of the epistimology in relation to your obession with hitlarian control tactics on women.



Your misuse of the English language is only impressive to you. Self-importance is a key ingredient to the willingness to have a frivolous abortion.
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Moo
replied on October 7th, 2007
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anniek wrote:
If you would like to know the medical problems just goggle abortiong complications. I only know what my sister in law had happen. She is not good about going back to the dr so we are not sure all that is wrong. But she ended up in the hospital for a couple days about 2 months after. She was bleeding so bad she could barely make it to the ER 10 min away from her home. The nurse said she had never seen such large blood clots. She had a couple other minor problems but we really don't know if she will even be able to have more children if she wants to later. I only know of one thing she has suffered from which is endometriosis(sorry if that is not spelled right). But other than that she doesn't know because she did not go back after the hospital stay.

Having an abortion does not cause future medical problems. Googling something is not guarenteed to give accurate information now is it, going through an abortion, being told the possible risks is on the other hand.
Even if a woman gets an infection following a termination if it is treated it is unlikely to cause any future problems.
Some women of course are unlucky - as with any medical procedure - and will have some complications.

I urge you to perhaps speak to Cairfairy (who works in the area) if this really is your view.
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Georgia59 wrote:
Ok, I really didn't want to get into this again, but I can't help myself.

Embarrassed- when you find out a woman has had abortions, do you decide not to have sex with her? Knowing that there is ALWAYS a chance she might get pregnant, and she might again have an abortion? Or is it ok to have sex with her, because you don't plan on marrying her?


Georgia,

I think it is ok (But not necessarily preferred) to have sex with a woman who has had a frivolous previous abortion. I would consider doubling up on the proper precautions, and if by some amazing fluke she became pregnant, I would insist she carry this baby.

Thank you for the interest.

Sorry to break this to you but you can't insist someone carries a pregnancy - yours or not. It's up to the woman, sure men should have an input but until it is their body carrying the pregnancy they have no rights (and this has been challenged and remains the same)
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Jincks013
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embarrassed40 wrote:
Jincks013 wrote:
*chuckles* you so don't get it do you cave man? Hint: Allagory of a cave.. you fail to grasp the significance of the epistimology in relation to your obession with hitlarian control tactics on women.



Your misuse of the English language is only impressive to you. Self-importance is a key ingredient to the willingness to have a frivolous abortion.


Back to the cave plato.. this is fun.. circular logic is better then a merry go round sometimes except I don't get motion sick. Its ok to admit you haven't a basic education on the general epistimologies involved. Try reading it sometime. It might help you.

I propose a drinking game.. every time Embarrassed says "frivolous" drink..
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replied on October 7th, 2007
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come on jincks and embarrassed this is a forum not a contest about who knows bigger words because i would surley lose lol and jincks i have noticed that you turn abortion debates into full blown catfights do you kiss ya mama with that mouth
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Moo wrote:
embarrassed40 wrote:
Georgia59 wrote:
Ok, I really didn't want to get into this again, but I can't help myself.

Embarrassed- when you find out a woman has had abortions, do you decide not to have sex with her? Knowing that there is ALWAYS a chance she might get pregnant, and she might again have an abortion? Or is it ok to have sex with her, because you don't plan on marrying her?


Georgia,

I think it is ok (But not necessarily preferred) to have sex with a woman who has had a frivolous previous abortion. I would consider doubling up on the proper precautions, and if by some amazing fluke she became pregnant, I would insist she carry this baby.

Thank you for the interest.

Sorry to break this to you but you can't insist someone carries a pregnancy - yours or not. It's up to the woman, sure men should have an input but until it is their body carrying the pregnancy they have no rights (and this has been challenged and remains the same)


Moo, I WOULD insist she carry the child. Now of course she could still abort the child, since I am not interested in caging her for 9 months and force-feeding her. Among other consequences, she would be unmarriable to me after the procedure.
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Jincks013 wrote:
embarrassed40 wrote:
Jincks013 wrote:
*chuckles* you so don't get it do you cave man? Hint: Allagory of a cave.. you fail to grasp the significance of the epistimology in relation to your obession with hitlarian control tactics on women.



Your misuse of the English language is only impressive to you. Self-importance is a key ingredient to the willingness to have a frivolous abortion.




I propose a drinking game.. every time Embarrassed says "frivolous" drink..


Drinking games are reserved for irresponsible children and lead to drinking and driving deaths. Not something we should encourage the young folks on this forum to be doing. Use your brain!
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replied on October 7th, 2007
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embarrassed40 wrote:
Georgia59 wrote:
Ok, I really didn't want to get into this again, but I can't help myself.

Embarrassed- when you find out a woman has had abortions, do you decide not to have sex with her? Knowing that there is ALWAYS a chance she might get pregnant, and she might again have an abortion? Or is it ok to have sex with her, because you don't plan on marrying her?


Georgia,

I think it is ok (But not necessarily preferred) to have sex with a woman who has had a frivolous previous abortion. I would consider doubling up on the proper precautions, and if by some amazing fluke she became pregnant, I would insist she carry this baby.

Thank you for the interest.

And how exactly do you plan on enforcing this insistence that she abuse her body?
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embarrassed40 wrote:

Drinking games are reserved for irresponsible children and lead to drinking and driving deaths. Not something we should encourage the young folks on this forum to be doing. Use your brain!

I'm pretty sure that if we're all on the computer reading your nonsense, that we're already at home and have no need to drive anywhere. Use your brain!
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embarrassed40 wrote:

Moo, I WOULD insist she carry the child. Now of course she could still abort the child, since I am not interested in caging her for 9 months and force-feeding her. Among other consequences, she would be unmarriable to me after the procedure.

YOU are unmarriagable because you tried to FORCE her to do something which violates her personal rights. After you INSISTED she keep the baby, you would be unmarriagable to her. Not a very good threat there buddy.
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embarrassed40 wrote:

Strictly rationalizations, unsuccessully meant to demean this young ladies opinions as ignorant! Her simple wisdom trumps your silly play on semantics! Laughing

Are you on crack? Because that's about the only way I can comprehend facts suddenly becoming ignorant and opinions becoming supreme truth.
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Eiri wrote:
embarrassed40 wrote:

Moo, I WOULD insist she carry the child. Now of course she could still abort the child, since I am not interested in caging her for 9 months and force-feeding her. Among other consequences, she would be unmarriable to me after the procedure.

YOU are unmarriagable because you tried to FORCE her to do something which violates her personal rights. After you INSISTED she keep the baby, you would be unmarriagable to her. Not a very good threat there buddy.


I do not THREATEN or FORCE women to do things, those are you words, once again. Do you feel threatened? Why? I thought you "Hated me" why are you calling me "Buddy" now?
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Eiri wrote:
embarrassed40 wrote:

Drinking games are reserved for irresponsible children and lead to drinking and driving deaths. Not something we should encourage the young folks on this forum to be doing. Use your brain!

I'm pretty sure that if we're all on the computer reading your nonsense, that we're already at home and have no need to drive anywhere. Use your brain!


Most drinking occurs inside 4 walls, it is only later that a person gets behind the wheel and kills someone. I think it is irresponible to encourage the young people of the board to play drinking games. Apparrently you place a little less value on life than I do, but we knew that already.
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