They are still punishing dyslexics like the olden days instead of correcting disorientation and drawing out one's strengths. Has she had a formal IQ test? Also, with those some areas may be lacking while others very high (such as in visual-spatial matters). Reading problems and such can be dealt with. Ron Davis' book, "The Gift of Dyslexia" is key and even provides the steps for the non-pro helper. But a facilitator is best. Have her undergo the 3 hour intake exam.

I would look into centers specializing in helping children with dyslexia. Kids are great and their brains adjust. Specialists can help you and your daughter work out her problems. Also, get her tested at a real dyslexia testing facility. It takes about a day to 2days of testing and the results are extremely helpful. They break down which areas she's weakest at and where her problems lie. Start here with formal testing then bring that to the school besides a good center will know of places that offer help to dyslexics or have one in their building. If you live in the chicagoland area I have a list of places that test for dyslexia. Many universities have a learning disability department. contact one close to you and they can give you a list of places to get tested for dyslexia. Don't give up. There are smart people out there with the means to help you.