It does usually take more than once to get pregnant. I'm 16 and i have a nearly 11 weeks old daughter so i think i should give you some home truths and if they sound harsh i'm sorry but it will all be true:
1. You need to educate yourself about sex if you thought that you would automatically become pregnant.
2. You need to finish your education in order to spell correctly because it's spelt TODAY not 2DAI.
3. Do you really want to live off of benifits and live in a council house all your life? I know i don't but i have to untill i can go to college and get a career. Or if you're planning on living at home if you are to get pregnant in the future do you think that's fair on your parents? I know that it's not fair on mine but i'm in the process of moving out.
4. Are you in a stable relationship to bring up a baby?
5. Can you afford a baby?
6. How would you get to the hospital for appointments and to actually have the baby?
7. Are you willing to go through the pain and possible complications of giving birth?
8. Are you willing to Breast-feed during the night or get up to go a warm up a bottle?
9. Are you willing to sterilise bottles everyday if you bottle feed?
10. Will your parents be the ones to buy nappies, milk and clothes etc for the baby? Ifso is that fair on them in your opinion?
11. When a baby is crying in the middle of the night and won't feed, doesn't need changing or burping and still won't go to sleep or stop crying and you're exhausted from the previous day how will you feel?
12. Finally, do you want to have a career? Ifso it is alot harder to get started on the career ladder when your attention is divided between a child and the career