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Q: Need Help About Contact Order For My Son. Abusive Ex
asked by: normanbatesex on August 30th, 2007
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Just to put you in the picture, i was with my ex for 5 years, and we have a four year old son. We split up last July and since then he has been abusive, threatening, and stalking me. He hit me (police dropped case - lack of evidence), i had an harrassement order out on him for six months( he broke it and police dropped case). Hes hit my new b/f and is now bound over for 6 months. I do not have a contact order in place with Ex over our son, we have a verbal agreement which he is taking the p**s out of , he says he is just going to turn up and take son when he wants to and pick him up from school when he wants to. Does anyone know if I can apply to courts for a contact order to limit the amount times a week my ex has with our son or does my ex have to apply for it!!!! Evil or Very Mad
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Fighter_in_the_Sky_
replied on October 2nd, 2007
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This Is Pretty Serious
Police aren't doing anything? He hit your current boyfriend? This seems quite serious, but I'm 16 and I don't know what to do. At least my post here will make this forum's ranking go up and hopefully more people will post.
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Fairy Godmother
replied on October 2nd, 2007
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What do you mean the police or authority won't do anything? Lack of evidence? Did you not have red welps or bruise marks? Can those ignorant ass wipes not see you are terrified? Here in the US , you can take out restraining order and if he comes within so many feet of you, all you have to do is call and he will be arrested. Not aware of laws on custody in your country as well, but if you are legal custody guardain here ,you have the say so of when and where the father can pick up your/his son. Verbal agreements don't usually hold up in court. I'd advise setting money aside and getting this taken care of legally. Explain to your lawyer you have an abusive ex spouse and you are afraid of him. Also tell them he has hit your new firend. Why did the new boyfriend not file a complaint? This is assault. Maybe the laws where you are are too slack, but here, you DO NOT hit another person nor should yo ube afraid to go and come as you please. Your son does not need to be raisedin this type of environment and if your ex continues, this should be grounds for abuse to your son as well. Good luck!
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whitetiger22
replied on January 21st, 2008
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Ok i have gone though this and i went to a place called Legal aid. Find out if you have one and if u do go there and tell them that you are afride. I know hove had one into place since feb 06 and will be in for another 5 years by then if i still fear for my life i can go back and get it extended.

I know this is late but repose and tell us whats going on and how you are
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