You learn how to deal with it and it will be the hardest thing to do in your life. It wont be about you and your parties and your car and your graduation party. Now its more like: the babies milk, diapers, medicine, clothes, crib and on and on. You learn to get a job, go to night school have help from your mom for babysitting and anything else to help you get by. There are programs to help financially like wic, food stamps, child support (if the dad is gone), medical and others. Your social life will be over. Even though you have your best friends, they move on because they dont want to stick behind and babysit. I made a good choice. I lost my social life too for my sister so she wont be alone. But its ok now cuz im getting married and we still stick by my little sister. Hopefully all young girls learn from examples that having sex has consequenses and they lose everything by having a baby. Sure some parts are exciting but the rest is a mission.