I have had a bladder problem, in that i feel like I'm going to leak or dribble some urine. I panic and then am extremely tense and find it hard to relax. I used to have this problem about a year ago but it has disappeared over the last year. Now, for no reason that I can think of, it has come back!It used to happen only when I was nervous, but now it is most of the time, cos I am worrying about it happening! If I am completely relaxed, then it is fine - which leads me to think its a mental problem. Driving is impossible cos I am constantly trying to hold it in.It is worse after showers/baths/etc. Quick movements also affect me,and sitting.
This is a huge problem as,as a student,I have to sit through many lectures, and take part in many activities. I would wear pads, but it is unattractive for my boyfriend.
thanks for any help!