A little pain (incl. cramping after), but mostly emotional stress
28%
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Barely felt anything but cramping
14%
[ 1 ]
Didn't feel anything at all
0%
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rockmeethardplace
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Info on abortion procedures please! Posted: 08-30-07 00:24am
Well, first, a little background. I'm 19,
have been with my boyfriend for 3 years,
and just found out I'm pregnant.
I found out 4 days ago, have a good idea
that I'm around 6-8 weeks along (because
that's when the boyfriend and I decided we
would quit having sex and did.
First of all I do not need anyone trying
to pressure me to have a baby. I am 100%
certain that I am not. My abortion is
scheduled for next Tuesday (5 days away).
My problem is that I am absolutely
terrified. I have never had surgery
before, and for my own sake have to
prepare myself for the worst. I may be
able to have a medical abortion, but most
likely will have to have a surgical
abortion (or am at least preparing for
that).
I was just wondering if anyone here has
had a surgical abortion, or an abortion at
all for that matter. I am scared and
would really like to be able to talk to
someone that has experience with this
situation. I have looked all over
websites and forums and haven't really
found any information about the actual
physical pain an abortion induces.
Especially a surgical abortion.
I really appreciate the help, as I feel
very sick to my stomach about the
situation (and, no, it's not morning
sickness).
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-30-07 00:26am
We have many women on here who have had
surgical abortions and I know all of them
would recommend it over a medicinal one! I
don't think many of them had severe pain,
if any of them.
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rockmeethardplace
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Posted: 08-30-07 00:40am
I just realized there was a post on this a
few days ago. Sorry bout that.
Well, I had a friend that had a medical
abortion and I called her to talk about
it. She is now pregnant, and instead of
helping me she begged and pleaded for me
to keep the baby. I am not financially
well enough to raise a baby, nor am I
emotionally stable. I believe she just
wanted someone to go through pregnancy
with her.
Well, from what I've read surgical
abortion has a higher success rate, even
if it is just a few percent. I guess it
would be nice to know what it's like
compared to menstrual cramps. I have
always had ovarian cysts too, so if it
compares to that in some way that would be
nice to know.
All the description of surgical abortion
I've read sounds quite painful. Talking
about stretching and such. It would be
really nice for me to know how big around
that vacuum is as odd as that sounds.
Because (and I try to say this discreetly,
but tightness has always been an issue for
me).
I appreciate the response...I haven't been
able to talk to anyone about this at all.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-30-07 09:48am
If you regularly have severe or strongly
moderate cramps, then I believe the pain
is equivalent, but that's if you have no
sedation at all.
What is suggested is what's called IV
sedation.
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Carifairy
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Posted: 08-30-07 13:28pm
I do not know if you know this..
You can be asleep or have IV sedation for
an abortion, just like with any other
surgery, and it would be painless.
NOT ALL clinics offer painless
abortions/IV ANESTHESIA, but most do, so
sometimes you have to call around and ask.
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Carifairy
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Posted: 08-30-07 13:30pm
The vacuum is a bit larger than a drinking
straw, of sorts.
I work in an abrotion clinic.
The vacuum is not very big at all.
Here is a short listing of clincis in
Indiana...You can find out which ones
offer IV sedation.
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 08-30-07 13:39pm
I wish I could give you more info on the
experience, but i am just here to tell you
that you will not be judged in this place
for having an abortion. I will support
your decision and be here afterward to
answer any questions you might have later.
It must seem a little scary to you right
now, but many women have been through
exactly what you are going through, and it
sounds like you have done a lot of soul
searching to reach the decision you have
come to. I wish you the best for a speedy
recovery. I am sending positive energy
your way.
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rockmeethardplace
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Joined: 30 Aug 2007 Posts: 3 Location: Indiana, USA
Posted: 08-30-07 23:02pm
Well, I don't know how anyone feels about
planned parenthood, but I've read some
pretty lousy things about it. If they're
horrible about it I don't really want to
know it will just make me more nervous.
And I'm sure it varies a lot from clinic
to clinic.
However, I don't think they offer IV
sedation, just a GA, but I think I'll just
refuse the GA because I've heard it
doesn't do much good.
I've always had VERY heavy cramping due to
ovarian cysts. And cramping pretty much
doesn't bother me anymore.
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amino65
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Posted: 08-30-07 23:48pm
I'll describe my experience with you
I had a surgical abortion at 7 weeks
along, and was given general anesthesia
administered intravenously.
I had no horrible adverse effects to the
anesthesia and woke up fairly quickly from
it (I woke up as they were wheeling me
into the recovery room). They put me to
sleep before I had the procedure done.
When I woke up I felt the kind of cramping
I suppose you would associate with
menstrual cramps (I rarely cramped during
my periods, so these were a little
stronger than what I have ever felt, but
definately not unbearable). I bled very
little, and in fact, pretty much after I
left the clinic I did not bleed at all.
The cramping went away basically after I
was able to stand.
The only thing that happened with the
anesthesia was that my arm reacted to it,
the nurse monitoring me checked it when I
asked her why my arm had become blotchy
and she told me that occasionally the
medication will flow from the site and
pool underneath the skin , and she said it
might swell and get redder but should go
away in a few days, and to just keep my
arm elevated. This sucked cuz I had to
wear long sleeved shirts to hide the
redness and swelling from my parents. My
mom is a nurse so she would have
recognized it for what it was . It
eventually turned into a huge bruise that
covered most of my upper arm, but went
away completely after 5 days.
I suppose I was one of the lucky ones,
when it comes to pain and recovery,
because I had virtually no pain and
recovered almost at once, except for my
arm.
hope this helped.
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Carifairy
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Posted: 08-31-07 00:13am
GENERAL ANESTHESIA Knocks you OUT.
It is the same thing they give for
'regular operations'. It would be
painless.
It is the LOCAL anesthesia that does not
do much, because you are awake!
Here are clinics you can choose form, not
necessarily planned parenthood.
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Posted: 08-31-07 00:15am
INdiana has abortion clinics to choose
from, just go to that site =)
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Moo
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Posted: 08-31-07 11:22am
How are you?
I had a surgical abortion under general
anaesthetic so obviously I couldn't feel
anything during it. Afterwards I had some
cramping but no more than mild period
pains if I'm honest