me and my boyfriend of 2 years were havin sex last night. i think the friction must have gotten too much or something because one of my inner lips started to hurt. i should have asked him to stop, or got out some lubricant or something but stupidly i didnt, and when i looked at it afterwards, my inner lip had swollen up. like really swollen up! really thick and swollen as though someone had inflated it. it's hardly gone down at all overnight, it's so big and uncomfortable. i look like john wayne when i walk and it's hard to sit down. thing is, it's not even that painful and it's not red - it's just huge and swollen. has anyone ever had this before and how long did it take to go down? it's really hideous looking and i'm scared in case it never gets smaller! help! is there anything i should put on it to make the swelling go away?