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Q: So Theres This Girl

asked by: greekjohn on August 28th, 2007

Experienced User

And I want to ask her out. I don't know if she has a boyfriend or not, I believe she doesn't. I used to go to school with her and now have her on my msn and facebook. She hasn't any pictures posted with any guys that could possible be her boyfriend.
I have a few problems. I don't have her phone number. I don't know how to ask her either for her number or just plain out over msn. Also I don't have my license, I have my temporary (G1) but I need a fully licensed driver in the from seat but I have my test on 9-11 and hopefully I'll pass cause the last 2 times I went I was unfortunate, nor do I have a car but I do have access to a vehicle. Also I have never been out on a date before.
So any advice will be greatly appreciated

Replies(3)

Apromisetomyself2

replied on August 30th, 2007

New User

Your making progress so far by just talking to her and getting to know her by Msn and Facebook. If she hasn't put pictures of any guy ones maybe that means shes single. Don't worry about not driving right away I know it can be tough I failed my road test twice.
But just keep trying on that and don't give up on yourself you'll pass!
Why don't you just ask for a dinner date close to the both of your houses so you both can walk and get to know eachother.

Whatever happends good luck! Don't give up

greekjohn

replied on August 30th, 2007

Experienced User

To tell you the truth I'm kinda scared to ask her out. I really like this other girl but I didn't have any contact information so I asked her friend to hook me up with her. And her friend turned me down and said she has a boyfriend while her Facebook didin't. Bottom line is I don't want to get hurt again cause I liked that girl and I think it could have worked out between us and have has a serious long term relationship. Besides not getting hurt I don't also want to look like a fool and then you know everything gets all weirds and caca and then you stop talking to each other.

Apromisetomyself2 wrote:

Your making progress so far by just talking to her and getting to know her by Msn and Facebook.

I think its good that we can talk on like MSN. On Facebook she doesn't really reply to my posts. Well I don't think she does to any of them only her best friends posts. But on MSN we talk.

Apromisetomyself2 wrote:

If she hasn't put pictures of any guy ones maybe that means shes single.

Well thats what I think. As well for her relationship status on Facebook, if she was dating she would have at least put in a relationship.

Apromisetomyself2 wrote:

Don't worry about not driving right away I know it can be tough I failed my road test twice.
But just keep trying on that and don't give up on yourself you'll pass!

Doesn't it suck though failing twice? I have and I'm telling you it just a rotten cherry on top of a really good ice cream sundae. The second time I should of passed and the examiner should of been cheery and had some decency it was 2 days before Christmas. Like where is the Christmas spirit with.
Hopefully I will pass. I'm just scared that I will go this next time in 2 weeks and fail again and fail a few more times. Like how many times am I going to pay to do the test.
Driving man. The one thing that kept me going in life. To get my learners permit in high school and pass the road test asap and then get a car and be a big shot. Plus it was something that I love. I love cars and driving and speed and everything about them. Its practically my life you know and it hurts inside when you fail the driving exam while others that you know can't drive well and have passed and are living your dream.

Apromisetomyself2 wrote:

Why don't you just ask for a dinner date close to the both of your houses so you both can walk and get to know eachother.

Whatever happends good luck! Don't give up

Thats a good idea and it would work if we lived closer to each other. You see she lives in a different part of the city. I live in the Toronto area and she lives in the Scarborough area so we can't really do that. I'm not gonna give up if she turns me down I'll just find another girl that is interested.

greekjohn

replied on August 31st, 2007

Experienced User

Ohh yeah and I think I forgot to mention I'm presently out of work

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