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Q: Am I becoming Asexual ? no attraction to girls ...
asked by: Ansdr on August 27th, 2007
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Im a guy that used to have a moderate to high sex drive. I have always liked girls, ever since i was about 3, so i hear from my mom. But i remember liking girls from preschool and up. I was always interested in them, even before puberty. Well im 16 now, one day i started thinking to myself why does a girls body turn me on into the first place. Then that thought got deeper until it was like i was looking outside of reality questioning the whole sexuality subject. Then soon that question started to apply to every part of a girls body even her face. Well really hope im not turning asexual because i really would like to have a family when i get older, it was on the top of my to do list. Without my attraction to girls it seems like a part of me is missing. Sometimes when im around girls i do get aroused but the questions come into my head again. Is their anyway i can prevent these thoughts (i wish they never existed). And is it true that me being straight is written on my DNA so it can't be changed. I think knowing it can't be changed would make me feel alot better.
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BullZye
replied on August 27th, 2007
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I don't really understand what you're trying to ask... I think you're just overthinking your sex drive a little too much.
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Georgia59
replied on August 28th, 2007
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Relax!!!
You can't really say that you've 'always' had a moderate/high sex drive if you're only 16. You are still in the period of time where your sex drive and sexual desire will be changing constantly, as well as what you find attractive. That doesn't mean you aren't attracted to girls. Just because when you see a girl you aren't instantly turned on means nothing- it's normal.

You are thinking too much. Relax and let it flow.
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knarf72
replied on August 29th, 2007
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Re: Am I Becoming Asexual ? No Attraction to Girls ...
Ansdr wrote:
Im a guy that used to have a moderate to high sex drive. I have always liked girls, ever since i was about 3, so i hear from my mom. But i remember liking girls from preschool and up. I was always interested in them, even before puberty. Well im 16 now, one day i started thinking to myself why does a girls body turn me on into the first place. Then that thought got deeper until it was like i was looking outside of reality questioning the whole sexuality subject. Then soon that question started to apply to every part of a girls body even her face. Well really hope im not turning asexual because i really would like to have a family when i get older, it was on the top of my to do list. Without my attraction to girls it seems like a part of me is missing. Sometimes when im around girls i do get aroused but the questions come into my head again. Is their anyway i can prevent these thoughts (i wish they never existed). And is it true that me being straight is written on my DNA so it can't be changed. I think knowing it can't be changed would make me feel alot better.





Checkout AVEN at www.asexuality.org

hope this helps
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