Am I becoming Asexual ? no attraction to girls ... Posted: 08-27-07 15:13pm
Im a guy that used to have a moderate to
high sex drive. I have always liked girls,
ever since i was about 3, so i hear from
my mom. But i remember liking girls from
preschool and up. I was always interested
in them, even before puberty. Well im 16
now, one day i started thinking to myself
why does a girls body turn me on into the
first place. Then that thought got deeper
until it was like i was looking outside of
reality questioning the whole sexuality
subject. Then soon that question started
to apply to every part of a girls body
even her face. Well really hope im not
turning asexual because i really would
like to have a family when i get older, it
was on the top of my to do list. Without
my attraction to girls it seems like a
part of me is missing. Sometimes when im
around girls i do get aroused but the
questions come into my head again. Is
their anyway i can prevent these thoughts
(i wish they never existed). And is it
true that me being straight is written on
my DNA so it can't be changed. I think
knowing it can't be changed would make me
feel alot better.
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BullZye
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Jul 2007 Posts: 112
Posted: 08-27-07 15:22pm
I don't really understand what you're
trying to ask... I think you're just
overthinking your sex drive a little too
much.
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5542 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
Thanks: 89
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Posted: 08-28-07 11:27am
Relax!!!
You can't really say that you've 'always'
had a moderate/high sex drive if you're
only 16. You are still in the period of
time where your sex drive and sexual
desire will be changing constantly, as
well as what you find attractive. That
doesn't mean you aren't attracted to
girls. Just because when you see a girl
you aren't instantly turned on means
nothing- it's normal.
You are thinking too much. Relax and let
it flow.
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knarf72
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Jul 2007 Posts: 49 Location: ,
Re: Am I Becoming Asexual ? No Attraction to Girls ... Posted: 08-29-07 14:12pm
Ansdr
wrote:
Im a guy that used to have a
moderate to high sex drive. I have always
liked girls, ever since i was about 3, so
i hear from my mom. But i remember liking
girls from preschool and up. I was always
interested in them, even before puberty.
Well im 16 now, one day i started thinking
to myself why does a girls body turn me on
into the first place. Then that thought
got deeper until it was like i was looking
outside of reality questioning the whole
sexuality subject. Then soon that question
started to apply to every part of a girls
body even her face. Well really hope im
not turning asexual because i really would
like to have a family when i get older, it
was on the top of my to do list. Without
my attraction to girls it seems like a
part of me is missing. Sometimes when im
around girls i do get aroused but the
questions come into my head again. Is
their anyway i can prevent these thoughts
(i wish they never existed). And is it
true that me being straight is written on
my DNA so it can't be changed. I think
knowing it can't be changed would make me
feel alot
better.
