Becky
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Posted: 08-27-07 15:03pm
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ok just got back from hospital and got the
kids settled to bed. i'll let you know
what happened.
bascially i was round my mums house and
she suddenly said 'oh my god i think my
waters have broken cause i feel really wet
down there' she went to the toilet to
check and was bleeding heavily. she
freaked and i thought 'sh*t i've got to
hold it together cause i had courtney and
the kids there and robbie is away so we
were all alone'
i got her to lay down on the bed then i
took the kids downstairs and put shrek on
for them to keep them occupied. my little
sister was terrified cause she had seen
mum bleeding but i told her everything
would be ok and to just watch shrek.
as soon as i got upstairs i dialled 999
and as i turned round to look at mum she
had fainted. i was seriously scared as
there was blood all over. i shook her
awake and tried to get her to stay with me
but she kept drifting in and out or
conciousness.
while i was waiting for the ambulance i
rang neil and got him to pick up the kids
lcukily he was at his house which is 5
mins away then we went to hosiptal. they
gave her injections to try and stop the
bleeding and eventually asked me to sign
consent for a hysterectomy to save her
life. i was so scared. i thought my mum
would die there and then
they did it and told me the outlook wa
good. she took quite a while to come round
and it was so hard for me to tell her what
has happened. the nurse made it alot
easier by explaining to us that the
pregnancy wasn't 'viable' anyway so we
shoudln't look at it as losing a child but
as saving mums life.
she is currently on bed rest to recover. i
haven't slept for 4 days but i managed to
get robbie back from filming so that he
could mind the kids and i could stay with
mum. unfortunately he had to go back today
or we would of lost £600 but i am looking
after my little sister while mum is in
hospital. it was hard today though as the
kids got bored and were playing up so i
had to leave and i felt so bad leaving my
mum there alone in hospital.
tomorrow i am visiting again after dinner
and i'm hoping in the next few days they
are going to discharge her. i am glad she
is resting there though as i don't know
how i would look after her and the kids.
sorry for the long post but it feels good
to talk about it here
thanks x
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rasuyoung
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Posted: 08-27-07 15:14pm
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Thank God you were at her house when all
this happened. It sounds like you handled
things really well, and I'm so glad she's
doing better. I hope she has a speedy
recovery.
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 08-27-07 15:15pm
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God that's scary! Thank God you were
there to help her!
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rosejackson
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Posted: 08-27-07 15:18pm
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aww im glad things went ok in the end. at
least you were there when it happened
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Becky
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Posted: 08-27-07 15:22pm
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i know i'm glad too. it's just bad that
the kids were there so courtney had to see
it. it was also terrifying cause i was on
my own and didn't know what to do. the
wait for the ambulance seemed the longest
of my life
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rosejackson
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Posted: 08-27-07 15:25pm
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at least the kids are young, so they'll
probably forget about what happened. just
try and be there for your mum as much as
possible
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musikmaker
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Posted: 08-27-07 16:05pm
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I am glad that she is doing better. I
think that I would've flipped had I been
in that situation.
I know that the hysterectomy saved her
life but I would've been devastated had
that happened to me. I will keep her in my
prayers. I heard that it can be
emotionally difficult to recover from one.
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CaNdItAs CrAzY LaNd
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Posted: 08-27-07 16:23pm
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aww becks im so sory hun my prayers go out
to you and your mom.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 08-27-07 16:29pm
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I'm so sorry, Becks! I'm glad your mother
survived this, though. She must be a
strong woman! And she's blessed to have a
strong daughter that was able to keep it
together and be strong for her.
We're here for you.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 08-27-07 17:14pm
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aw becks im so sorry, we're here for you!
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 08-27-07 19:16pm
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god beck thats so awful! i That must have
been really scary for you. Im glad she
made it out ok.
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Bratz72
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Posted: 08-27-07 19:40pm
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I feel for you ...what a scarey experience
one i for sure wouldnt want too go through
...you two are lucky too have each other
and i hope she makes a speedy
recovery...take care
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Fairy Godmother
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Hi Sweetie! Me Fairy*godmother
Posted: 08-27-07 19:49pm
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Becks, I told you last week what a strong
woman you were, this only goes to prove
you came from a long line of them. So very
proud of the way you handled the situation
and also very happy and grateful your
Mother will be good as new very soon. Hugs
to you girlfriend! Hang in there you're
one tough cookie! 
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Becky
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Posted: 08-28-07 02:00am
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thanks so much for your comments girls. it
means alot to me. i just spoke to her and
she said she had quite a restful night but
the top of her legs are hurting because
she hasn't moved around much. i'm going to
ask if they can get her up and moving
today
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 08-28-07 11:12am
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I'm sorry about your moms baby....I wish
nobody had to go through that. I'm glad
she's getting better tho, and she's got a
wonderful daughter to help her through
this.
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sick_mama17
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Posted: 08-28-07 13:06pm
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Thats awful beckster. I read it this
morning and told my mum, she said she
hopes shes ok too.
Morgan
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Becky
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Posted: 08-28-07 13:22pm
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thanks girls. she' doing alot better
today. she has somehow managed to slip a
disc in her back too so she is in alot of
pain from that 
they gave her crutches and she walked to
the toilet unaided so i was very proud of
her. she should be home tomorrow once the
haemotologist sees her and then she'll be
referred as an outpatient
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Fairy Godmother
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See!
Posted: 08-28-07 13:35pm
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She's one tough cookie too!~ So very happy
to hear of her quick recovery. Hope her
legs are doing better, at least she is
getting some form of exercise using her
crutches. She does need to take it easy
and be extra careful. She does realize she
has such a special daughter doesn't she?
If you were my daughter I'd be mighty
PROUD! HUGS!
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Becky
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Posted: 08-28-07 14:02pm
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aw thanks 
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sandyallen
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Posted: 08-28-07 17:06pm
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I am glad to hear that your Mom is doing
somewhat better today. Sorry to hear about
her back and about all the other bad news!
Hope you are doing okay!
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