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Very Angry, Hurting My Relationship Posted: 08-27-07 12:58pm
Hi, I need to know if anyone else is going
through what I am going through. Please
be honest and blunt if you have to.
I am with an amazing man, he cooks every
night, hes very thoughtful in little ways,
he is great in bed, he respects me, he has
never called me a name or hit me, he would
literally do anything for me, I can go on
an on abbot all of the GOOD things about
him so why cant I get over all the BAD
things about him.
Like the fact that hes lazy and has to be
told to do everything, he doesnt brush his
teeth or shave unless I ask him. He has
no initiative when it comes to laundry,
cleaning and paying bills. He is very
rude when he shouldnt be.
This really bothers me and I find myself
resenting him every day. I get mad and
talk to him bad cause I am upset over
something he said. I know I treat him
bad, but I cant seem to stop. Does anyone
understand. How can I get over these hang
ups? How can I accept when hes rude and
sarcastic and has bad breath? It sounds
crazy but it is true.
I have sat down and talked to him in a
nice way and I have tried being pushy and
direct, but my anger is still there.
Any suggestions?
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wazzywoman4ever
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 67 Location: texas, america
You Seem to Posted: 09-22-07 07:25am
have rounded it off and it might be time
for tuff love tactics...hand him a certs
...hand him his tooth brush tooth paste on
it .......when he is rude tell him he is
and that that is not acceptable in your
presence ......dig in and demand he meet
you half way on these issues
If he wont change ,can't change ...find
another great guy or if he is the one make
peace with the wrong for the sake of all
the right and good he does ......sorry if
this is no help at all but you do sound
like you already know what to do just need
to hear us tell you its time to do it
.....wazzywoman/robin
