Hi, I need to know if anyone else is going through what I am going through. Please be honest and blunt if you have to.

I am with an amazing man, he cooks every night, hes very thoughtful in little ways, he is great in bed, he respects me, he has never called me a name or hit me, he would literally do anything for me, I can go on an on abbot all of the GOOD things about him so why cant I get over all the BAD things about him.

Like the fact that hes lazy and has to be told to do everything, he doesnt brush his teeth or shave unless I ask him. He has no initiative when it comes to laundry, cleaning and paying bills. He is very rude when he shouldnt be.

This really bothers me and I find myself resenting him every day. I get mad and talk to him bad cause I am upset over something he said. I know I treat him bad, but I cant seem to stop. Does anyone understand. How can I get over these hang ups? How can I accept when hes rude and sarcastic and has bad breath? It sounds crazy but it is true.

I have sat down and talked to him in a nice way and I have tried being pushy and direct, but my anger is still there.

Any suggestions?