I'm not so sure now whether it is a yeast infection..
I read up on UTI symtoms and they seem to match more( I'm passing a tiny amount of blood when i pee which i have to do quite frequently and urgently, holding it in is agony..)
The thing thats still got me caught in between is that when it first started it was extremely itchy almost constantly.. but now the itch has faded a good deal and its mainly just the pain..
I've decided to just suck it up and make an appointment with my doctor though..don't want to go through anymore pain and it is for my own health's sake, no point in risking not finding out if is (touch wood..)something more serious..
p.s.- the bf has gone to New Zealand for 3 weeks!

So no danger there..