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Q: I Just Had a Miscarriage
asked by: bto on August 27th, 2007
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Hello Everyone,i just had a miscarriage 4days & 3days ago had a d&c carried out,9wks pregnant Sad Crying or Very sad after trying to get pregnant for the past 4yrs,9ivf/icsi for 2yrs & miraculous gotten pregnant without any of the above.We Thank the Almighty God for the fruit of the womb being able to felt what other women felts the taste of womanhood,I & mine 'Schat' (meant husband)couldnt explain how we felts & most cases i just complain to my Schat & twin when he calls to know how i am feeling that i ve been feeling strange & eating too much he just laugh at me that i should be happy course now am feeling what other women has been feeling,which is amazing like i said words could nt explain how am feeling,has everyday goes by i thank the Almighty God with praises of joyful songs,just trying to accept the fact that am a mother,couldnt stop shopping for maternity cloths Smile yes i could smile when i can course i couldnt ask for much people around me has been encouraging me that it will happen again course it has happen already that the Good Lord has given to each of us(every woman)the fruit of the womb,it can only take time but surely it will come to past.i thank my Schat course he has being God sent to me for being my partner,my friend,my all & all.i tried nt to be depressed about it all but if i may confess its difficult course something just hit sometimes & down u re again & again & again.Plz is they someone out they that can really explain it all to me course till now no explanation has made any senses to me.How soon again will i ve the fruit of the womb,being mother again.?????
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taykare
replied on August 27th, 2007
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try again right away if you feel up to it as your cervix is more open and it is easier for the sperum to get in and fertilize your egg. I have had a few misscarriages and nothing really helps. I believe that there was something wrong with the baby and God took him or her home to him and He GOD will look after your child until you get there. Docotr 's have told me different things 1 said it is because there is something wrong with the baby, somethimes there is something wrong with the ambilicalcord it it just something that happens. I have had one doctor tell me as I was misscarring I had rung her up and she told me oh well you lost 1 big mass then about 6 hours later another big mass with more tiisue in it well you most likely lost your baby and seeing it is you it was most likely twins you lost. She did not even say sorry nothing no emotion. God is always there to comfort us when we call on Him. 1peter 5:7 say cast all your cares on Him as He cares for you.
I will pray for you and your loss and for you to conceive again
(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))
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Moo
replied on August 27th, 2007
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I'm sorry you miscarried after trying for so long. usually it's recommended you wait around 3 months/cycles for your body to recover before trying again.
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bto
replied on August 27th, 2007
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It Brings Tears To My Eyes Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad To Read Your Kindly Words Of Encouragements & Your Lovely Comments.Thanks Very Much All......Needed To Breath Properly Thanks Alot Embarassed
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bto
replied on May 21st, 2008
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Hi everyone i have been reading forums from everyone the past months when i found out that i was pregnant for the 2time & i wanted to wait just weeks when am 3months b4 i could shout it out that the Almighty lord has done it again,but now today i went to see my doctor b4 going for my study then i found that our baby has no heart beat the past 2weeks ago course i have gone to see the doctor just the 7th of this month making just 9weeks2days ago that it has happen.
Am trying to put on a brave face but inside am burning,am just happy that a friend of mine came around which has really been beautiful.You all going to be curious where is my(schat)husband well he is trying to put on a brave face also which is working so far am short of words dear friends.
Plz everyone & anyone can you tell or explain me what is going on course in less than 12hrs am going for a d&c physically am on brave face but emotionally am reek inside i cannot explain what is going on but sure my questions has been why does it happen,a family doctor made a comment to my schat that i should nt be worried course the 1st time was 9wks & now 11wks that they re good & better chances unlike when its 1st 11wks & 9wks then it would nt ve been good,am tired dear friends let me say my goodnight course the day ahead is nt looking bright for me.
Thanks everyone for the courage & guide u ve been sharing out they!!!
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