How Common Is a Breast Orgasm?

Well what if I start sucking/licking them and she thinks its kind of weird or something?

Shes a real softie... And i'm a really dirty guy so we have a huge sexual gap between us lol. I just don't want to do it and make her think i'm really horny or weird or something.

I love my breasts played with BUT he has to be really gentle. It hurts me if he is anything but gentle, and not in a good way.

Why do you say she is not ready for foreplay? Do you have sex with her? I'm confused...

Ahh I see.

Sounds like you're doing just fine. Just remember to watch her and try gauge her response, some like it rough, some really don't (like me!)

I don't know why my breasts are so sensitive.

Well, how else can I please her without real sex? She thinks the next step is sex, but I may try to explain to her that we need to take a few smaller steps first with just getting used to each other.

I may want to try fingering her next time, or even going as far as giving oral but I have no idea whether she would be ready for that and I don't even know if she would like it.

Any ideas?

Well, I'd start by exploring with my hands (to the point of fingering if she's comfortable) and see where it goes.

Is she telling you she's not ready? If she's ready to have sex, then I'd go for it. Of course, start with whatever you want. I guess hands-mouth-genitals is a natural progression.

Even if she is a virgin she will still know what she wants. Don't discredit her because you are more experienced!!

Although I think it's really great and responsible for you to be so concerned about her pleasure and readiness....

She was the type of girl to say she wanted to wait til' marriage for sex... But after being with me now, it made her rethink that whole situation. I'm the first guy shes kissed anywhere, made out with, shown her breasts to, let kiss her back and whatnot.

Well, next time i'm with her i'll be sleeping over at her place. If her roommates aren't home then I will try and ask her if shes ready for me to please her vaginally without sex. If her roommates are home then I won't be able to because she might make too much noise and her friends will hear which is no good.

Well, now that I realize there was a question here that had never really been answered....

How common is a breast orgasm?

About 1% of women can achieve orgasm through breast stimulation. I don't have references for it, just something I read in my gyno's office one day and it stuck with me.

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Well, i'm going to be sleeping over at my girlfriends house for 2 nights next weekend, woo! First time ever.

I'll try playing around with her breasts... See how she likes it. Hopefully she enjoys it because i'd enjoy just doing it for her.

First off i would just like to say that i wish all guys had this kind of respect for us ladies. But i was in her shoes just about a year ago and i am 19 now. I was the girl that said i wanted to wait till marriage. The only things i had done was made out and had a guy go down on me WITH MY PANTS STILL ON lol believe it or not. They were un-buttoned, un-zipped and pulled down just enough so that he could get to my clitoris. I was very shy about my bf at that time seeing any of my body. Never saw my boobs and i always made the room be pretty much pitch black with a blanket over myself and him under it. I didn't know what a guy would think of me cause nobody had ever seen me before. And i was a very shy girl VERY VERY SHY! But when i got with the guy i am with now...everything went a lot smoother than i thought. He didn't really believe me that i was still a virgin, hadn't givin' anything...not even a hand job! I'm assuming he didn't believe this cause we were together for 2 years. I just didn't feel comfortable with me. But my boyfriend now...hes amazing. He took it slow, gave me time, and we went step by step. I was so worried that he was going to want me to stimulate him with my hand or oraly..and i had no idea. But just him grabbing my hand and showing me what he liked was a huge relief! AND IM NOT SAYING TAKE HER HAND AND MAKE HER DO IT! If she pulls away leave it! You can't force it cause it will only make her avoid those situations. Take it slow, step by step and don't rush anything...which seems so be what you are doing. I'm sure things will be just fine!

Thats exactly what he did and now we've done anything and pretty much everything..granted thats its been over a year. But i'm still sketchy on the whole givin' him oral but i'm working on it. He says i'm good but don't they all say that just to make you feel good about what your doing?