every girl i have known loves getting her breast played with it does feel good. all girls like different things. i loved getting my nipple bite so hard that i would have cuts around it. so you just try different things and see how she reacts. when she reacts more she likes it and usally if she gets quite she isnt enjoying it.

You've got the right idea; doesn't sound like you need help Just do what you want: kissing, sucking, stroking, it's all excellent. I find stimulation of the nipple through fabric to sometimes feel better than stimulation of the actual nipple.

Well what if I start sucking/licking them and she thinks its kind of weird or something?

Shes a real softie... And i'm a really dirty guy so we have a huge sexual gap between us lol. I just don't want to do it and make her think i'm really horny or weird or something.

try asking her if she wants or you could just try it and see if she goes for it, it really isnt to kinky and she probably might not even mind it. just give it a try

I love my breasts played with BUT he has to be really gentle. It hurts me if he is anything but gentle, and not in a good way.

Why do you say she is not ready for foreplay? Do you have sex with her? I'm confused...

I'm pretty sure all they've done is kiss.

Yes... Most done is kissing. She goes crazy when I kiss around her neck while grabbing her breasts and touching her back, basically all her good spots at once and she goes wild.

But I was talking to her... When we were kissing and everything, she told me that I did happen to go for her breasts with my mouth a couple times but nothing crazy. She told me I left a mark or two because of it.

I asked her whether its a good spot for her or not, and she said it doesn't really matter. So I just laughed and said that theres gonna be plenty of marks in the same spot next time I see her and all she said was "oh dear" haha so i'm just gonna go for it next time and see how it goes.

Ahh I see.

Sounds like you're doing just fine. Just remember to watch her and try gauge her response, some like it rough, some really don't (like me!)

I don't know why my breasts are so sensitive.

Well, how else can I please her without real sex? She thinks the next step is sex, but I may try to explain to her that we need to take a few smaller steps first with just getting used to each other.

I may want to try fingering her next time, or even going as far as giving oral but I have no idea whether she would be ready for that and I don't even know if she would like it.

Any ideas?

Well, I'd start by exploring with my hands (to the point of fingering if she's comfortable) and see where it goes.

Is she telling you she's not ready? If she's ready to have sex, then I'd go for it. Of course, start with whatever you want. I guess hands-mouth-genitals is a natural progression.

Even if she is a virgin she will still know what she wants. Don't discredit her because you are more experienced!!

Although I think it's really great and responsible for you to be so concerned about her pleasure and readiness....

She was the type of girl to say she wanted to wait til' marriage for sex... But after being with me now, it made her rethink that whole situation. I'm the first guy shes kissed anywhere, made out with, shown her breasts to, let kiss her back and whatnot.

Well, next time i'm with her i'll be sleeping over at her place. If her roommates aren't home then I will try and ask her if shes ready for me to please her vaginally without sex. If her roommates are home then I won't be able to because she might make too much noise and her friends will hear which is no good.

Mutual masturbation was the step I took. It's fingering but without insertion lol. Plus, she gets to see your penis. You can touch each other to orgasm, and you don't have to be naked which can really help with shy females

What a sweet story. Reminds me of when my husband and I first started going out. ::::::sniff sniff:::::::

I have major pms. This is actually making me cry.

Haha yeah i'm 19 now and she'll be 19 by the end of this year, we're both very faithful and love each other and know we'll last and get married. I'm really lucky to have her, shes caring, she really loves me, smart, faithful, amazing personality, and has looks and a body that drives me insanely crazy.

Well, now that I realize there was a question here that had never really been answered....

How common is a breast orgasm?

About 1% of women can achieve orgasm through breast stimulation. I don't have references for it, just something I read in my gyno's office one day and it stuck with me.

:::sniff sniff:::::

Well, i'm going to be sleeping over at my girlfriends house for 2 nights next weekend, woo! First time ever.

I'll try playing around with her breasts... See how she likes it. Hopefully she enjoys it because i'd enjoy just doing it for her.

I know with me, licking around the nipple gets me all tingly lol.
Especially fast licking with the tongue, but not hard, gentle but fast..

First off i would just like to say that i wish all guys had this kind of respect for us ladies. But i was in her shoes just about a year ago and i am 19 now. I was the girl that said i wanted to wait till marriage. The only things i had done was made out and had a guy go down on me WITH MY PANTS STILL ON lol believe it or not. They were un-buttoned, un-zipped and pulled down just enough so that he could get to my clitoris. I was very shy about my bf at that time seeing any of my body. Never saw my boobs and i always made the room be pretty much pitch black with a blanket over myself and him under it. I didn't know what a guy would think of me cause nobody had ever seen me before. And i was a very shy girl VERY VERY SHY! But when i got with the guy i am with now...everything went a lot smoother than i thought. He didn't really believe me that i was still a virgin, hadn't givin' anything...not even a hand job! I'm assuming he didn't believe this cause we were together for 2 years. I just didn't feel comfortable with me. But my boyfriend now...hes amazing. He took it slow, gave me time, and we went step by step. I was so worried that he was going to want me to stimulate him with my hand or oraly..and i had no idea. But just him grabbing my hand and showing me what he liked was a huge relief! AND IM NOT SAYING TAKE HER HAND AND MAKE HER DO IT! If she pulls away leave it! You can't force it cause it will only make her avoid those situations. Take it slow, step by step and don't rush anything...which seems so be what you are doing. I'm sure things will be just fine!

Thats exactly what he did and now we've done anything and pretty much everything..granted thats its been over a year. But i'm still sketchy on the whole givin' him oral but i'm working on it. He says i'm good but don't they all say that just to make you feel good about what your doing?

hey. ima guy 2. i think all guys shuld respect there girl and let her go slow if she wants. ladies deserve the respect cuz no and days no 1 cares bout n e thing but sex. go slow and remember if she likes it dnt stop till she wnts u 2 or u get cramps or something then stop. dnt rush and talk 2 her! not just wit sex but other stuff 2! u guyz culd fall deeper in love thru more then just sex. hope i culd help