Is it possible to cheat on a person four
times and really love them?
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Danepat
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Joined: 26 Aug 2007 Posts: 2
Infidelity Posted: 08-26-07 21:48pm
Come on people I need advice!!!
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amethyst eyes
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Joined: 04 Nov 2006 Posts: 1339
Posted: 08-26-07 21:50pm
I don't think so. Love requires respect
in a relationship and anyone that cheats 4
times obviously does not respect there
partner or truly care for there feelign
and how they are making them feel
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-26-07 21:53pm
no way
cheating shows disrespect and not careing
for the person
you have to have respect for someone to
love them
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Rosie H
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Posted: 08-27-07 09:58am
Yeah thats not true love. If you are in
love that just doesnt happen. If you are
really in love you wouldnt even have sex
with someone else once let alone 4 times.
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Moo
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Posted: 08-27-07 10:07am
Initial response would be that I doubt it
but it comes down to more about why, if
the person claims to love their partner,
they feel the need to cheat
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normanbatesex
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Joined: 30 Aug 2007 Posts: 4 Location: , uk
Posted: 08-30-07 15:47pm
Noooooooo Waaaaaaaaaay, that is not love,
if you are in love you would not even be
thinking about cheating never mind doing
it 4 times. My ex cheated on me and then
said he loved me and he'd never do it
again..... and guess what he did!!!!!!
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Susan21
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Joined: 21 Jan 2008 Posts: 2
Posted: 02-10-08 14:17pm
I think it depends on why you are
cheating, what you are getting out of it.
You are obviously looking for something
that is lacking in your marriage. You
should probably start seeing a therapist
or a marriage counselor (by yourself) and
explore the reasons why you are cheating.
Then you need to decide what you are going
to do to change things because you cannot
continue having affairs. It is
disrespectful to your spouse and can/will
alter your relationship forever if they
find out. Not to mention diseases that
you might bring home
