Eva-n-Dayton
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Location: Minnesota, USA
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Oh God Please Help Me
Posted: 08-24-07 18:15pm
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I can't even stop crying. Dayton has
basically decided to break up with because
he doesn't feel the same way I do. OH GOD
I love him so much, I can't let go. Its
hurts so bad. I don't want to. I don't
know what to do. I'm being replaced by a
girl he's met. He's fallin for her really
badly as he says. God I feel horrible. I'm
being replaced. We'd still be living
together, I don't know what to do. It
hurts so bad. He hasn't officially cut me
off yet but I know its coming. I don't
want anyone else I love him so much. I'm
just in pieces right now I'm afraid if I
cry in front of him he'll take off and I
won't see him again. I feel so horrible.
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meblonde01
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Re: Oh God Please Help Me
Posted: 08-24-07 18:31pm
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| Eva-n-Dayton
wrote: | | I can't even stop crying.
Dayton has basically decided to break up
with because he doesn't feel the same way
I do. OH GOD I love him so much, I can't
let go. Its hurts so bad. I don't want to.
I don't know what to do. I'm being
replaced by a girl he's met. He's fallin
for her really badly as he says. God I
feel horrible. I'm being replaced. We'd
still be living together, I don't know
what to do. It hurts so bad. He hasn't
officially cut me off yet but I know its
coming. I don't want anyone else I love
him so much. I'm just in pieces right now
I'm afraid if I cry in front of him he'll
take off and I won't see him again. I feel
so horrible. |
I am sent you a IM
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-24-07 18:32pm
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Coming from the other side of that
equation... If he doesn't feel the same
way about you, there's not a lot you can
do about it.
I know it hurts a lot, and you have my
empathy and my hugs!
*hug*HUG*hug*HUG*hug*HUG*hug*HUG*hug*HUG*h
ug*HUG*hug*HUG*hug*HUG*hug*HUG*hug*HUG*hug
*HUG
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meblonde01
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Re: Oh God Please Help Me
Posted: 08-24-07 18:52pm
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| Eva-n-Dayton
wrote: | | I can't even stop crying.
Dayton has basically decided to break up
with because he doesn't feel the same way
I do. OH GOD I love him so much, I can't
let go. Its hurts so bad. I don't want to.
I don't know what to do. I'm being
replaced by a girl he's met. He's fallin
for her really badly as he says. God I
feel horrible. I'm being replaced. We'd
still be living together, I don't know
what to do. It hurts so bad. He hasn't
officially cut me off yet but I know its
coming. I don't want anyone else I love
him so much. I'm just in pieces right now
I'm afraid if I cry in front of him he'll
take off and I won't see him again. I feel
so horrible. |
cry to him.. what do you have to lose..
at least you can say you said everything
you felt.. the rest is up to him.. then
let it go..I know it hurts! love sucks..
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Eva-n-Dayton
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Location: Minnesota, USA
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Posted: 08-24-07 18:54pm
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I can't find it, not in the private
messages box. He says he still loves me
but he feels like I'm a really good friend
instead.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-24-07 18:55pm
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| Eva-n-Dayton
wrote: | | I can't find it, not in the
private messages box. He says he still
loves me but he feels like I'm a really
good friend
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It happens; people don't always feel the
same forever. I know it really sucks;
we're here for you.
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KatieFlower
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Posted: 08-24-07 18:55pm
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I know this isn't much help but if he is
going to leave you for another girl then
he's a piece of sh*t and you are too good
for him anyways. Good luck and I hope it
all works out for you
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-24-07 19:06pm
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im so sorry hun! i know that probably wont
help at all but im so sorry and im here if
you wanna talk ok?
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meblonde01
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Posted: 08-24-07 19:10pm
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| Eva-n-Dayton
wrote: | | I can't find it, not in the
private messages box. He says he still
loves me but he feels like I'm a really
good friend
instead. |
how long have you been together?
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Eva-n-Dayton
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2007
Posts: 25
Location: Minnesota, USA
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Posted: 08-24-07 19:33pm
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| meblonde01
wrote: | | Eva-n-Dayton
wrote: | | I can't find it, not in the
private messages box. He says he still
loves me but he feels like I'm a really
good friend
instead. |
how long have you been
together? |
almost 9 months...Lol my neighbor came
down and hugged me for a while I calmed
right down. I need people right now. My
brother's taking a long time to get
here.... GARGH
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-24-07 19:40pm
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I just broke up with my fiancee. We'd been
going out for 3 years and engaged for 3
months of that.
But my feelings for him had changed in the
past year. I'm not a bad person for
feeling this way O.o It just happens.
For me, the engagement hid the things that
weren't going right for months.
So what I'm trying to say is... even in
long relationships, sometimes things
happen. People change, feelings change.
You will be fine, I know. You will love
again; your heart is too big to be
permanently broken.
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Chezzy
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Posted: 08-26-07 00:22am
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I know it probably hurts right now, I cant
imagine what you must be feeling, come
onto the boards anytime just to vent
feelings, its always good to get things
off your chest..
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Fairy*Godmother
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Hi
Posted: 08-27-07 12:07pm
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HI Eva, its been a couple of days now, how
are things with you? Just know you are
never alone, casue we are AlWAYS here for
you! We've been there and done that so, we
understand your hurt and pain..........but
life does go on and you will find someone
who loves you as much as you will love
them! Keep that chin up Girlfriend! 
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 08-27-07 12:15pm
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im sorry.. atleast he told you know insted
of a couple of years down the road..
it hurts, but its better than living a
lie.
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Eva-n-Dayton
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2007
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Location: Minnesota, USA
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Posted: 08-28-07 17:56pm
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I was happy he told me. I'm great now,
we're like best friends. I've been going
out on the town alot now and keeping busy.
My diet changed for a while though, I lost
13 pounds since the 23rd. :S Dayton wanted
me to go to counceling because he didn't
want to see me so hurt and sick. But I'm
eating fine now and we talk and laugh
still. Everything is fine now 
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Love_Like_Winter
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Posted: 08-29-07 03:01am
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Glad to hear you're feeling better about
it all. And its great that you can still
be good friends!!
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