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How Long Should U Wait to Get Pregnant After Abortion Posted: 08-24-07 11:02am
how long?????
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Carifairy
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Posted: 08-24-07 22:04pm
Just like with a hospital d&c, most
docs recommend waiting 2-3 cycles.
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popminer
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Posted: 08-24-07 22:10pm
i have a question really fast.
if you just had an abortion, why would you
WANT another baby?
just a question.
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Jules
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Posted: 08-25-07 00:09am
I've edited the above post slightly but
did not remove it because I think it
raises a valid point.
Panda, please think very carefully before
you try to get pregnant again if you
aborted for reasons other than
foetal/maternal health. If you aborted
because you're not ready for a baby right
now then a couple of months rarely makes
such a significant difference in a
person's life that you will truly be ready
for that responsibility. It could be that
you are seeking to 'replace' the baby that
you have lost, and that is a natural
feeling, but you have to remind yourself
of the reasons for your abortion in the
first place.
You can have a baby when you are ready.
Allow yourself time to heal now and don't
rush things
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panda1122
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Joined: 21 Aug 2007 Posts: 21 Location: southern.califrnia., sj
Posted: 09-30-07 15:34pm
popminer
wrote:
i have a question really
fast.
if you just had an abortion, why would you
WANT another baby?
just a
question.
cuz i was forced into abortion
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Carifairy
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Posted: 10-01-07 14:51pm
I know you want to get pregnant..
BUT another pregnancy is not going to
bring THAT aborted baby back. It is dead,
it is gone, and nothing will replace it.
If you were forced into an abortion, I
worry that you are not stable enough to
have a baby.
You should probably get your life
together, get an education, so you can
TOTALLY have a baby without government
assistance or problems.
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Mabel
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Posted: 10-01-07 15:01pm
I agree with Cari.
Be strong, girl.
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Jules
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Posted: 10-03-07 01:12am
Ok, OP has her answer and some good
advice. It's up to her now.
