Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 08-30-07 10:33am
weirddude662000
wrote:
My girlfriend saids i cant
watch porn either.
She explained to me why she doesnt want me
to watch it.
She saids she see's it as a form of
cheating which i completely understand.
Im not gonna get all mad just cause i cant
beat off to porn just as long as she keeps
me completely satistfied.
which she does.
So porn is not something a man has to
watch.
Nore is there problem with porn.
Although maybe yall should try and make
your own porn then just tell him thats the
only porn he can
watch...lol.
betcha watch it anywayyyssss
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 08-30-07 10:34am
OMG!! I could never ever watch myself
doing it. I would be horrified. I am a
lights out girl!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-30-07 10:46am
Lol sillyak.
I likes me the porns!
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lonestarguy
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Posted: 08-30-07 11:01am
sillyakchick
wrote:
Sorry, who is Ron
White?
He's a Texas-born humorist. His nickname
is "Tater Salad" and his comedy is
outrageous and cutting edge.
Now, back to the topic. I'm not sure if
being completely satisfied by a man's
partner would stop him from ever
masturbating. All men do it and there are
times when a partner is just not
available. Men are visual creatures and
porn fits the bill perfectly. But porn is
not a substitute for the real thing.
I can't speak for all men, but as both
partners get older, lovemaking does
decrease as the heat of passion cools.
Some men still need it a lot while a lot
of spouses/gfs don't need it as much. Porn
is just a means to an end. That end being
the release by orgasm. Women shouldn't get
the impression that porn is used in place
of them, but rather as a stop-gap measure
for the man.
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 08-30-07 11:02am
I can watch anybody else but myself. I
can just see me sitting there analyzing
the stupid O faces I make and how terrible
I look with mu butt stuck up in the air,
and then I would be all self conscious
about having sex. I would so rather not
go there. We had a mirror over our bed
for a while, but I felt like it made my
butt look too big.
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 08-30-07 11:04am
sillyakchick
wrote:
I can watch anybody else but
myself. I can just see me sitting there
analyzing the stupid O faces I make and
how terrible I look with mu butt stuck up
in the air, and then I would be all self
conscious about having sex. I would so
rather not go there. We had a mirror over
our bed for a while, but I felt like it
made my butt look too big.
lol! when you think about it it would be
extremely wierd and awkward to watch
yourself
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-30-07 11:10am
Haha O faces XD
I've done masturbation over a web-cam and
of course, you have to set everything up
and what not... it wasn't too weird.
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victoria16
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Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
Posted: 08-30-07 19:26pm
Jeaston77
wrote:
the_girlfreind
wrote:
oh geez
ron white is a horrible example to use in
a situation like this
lol
How is that??? Its a mens health forum and
I am giving my opinion as a man...My other
opinion is that a 16 year old thats
engaged has a lot more issues then
porn...but that is only my opinion....
Well this is wasnt this forum is about now
is it!?!?!? I dont
care about your oppinion on this subject
ACTUALLY I dont care about anyones
oppinion on that subject. Maybe you just
havent been in love. ON N HERES A FACT!!!
Almost all my friends parents are divorced
n my parents who have been 2geather since
she they were 14 are completly happy
togeather!!
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victoria16
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Posted: 08-30-07 19:27pm
top_cio
wrote:
victoria16
wrote:
devils_advocate
wrote:
Okay, I'm a girl, but I
watch porn to get ideas. Also, because
you can't be having sex all the time with
the guy/girl you love. And sometimes,
masturbating requires something to
stimulate the imagination. Anyway, if
he's MARRYING you, clearly he loves you.
He doesn't just want to marry you for the
sex! So what if he's watching porn?
Maybe you and him could make porn, if he
enjoys it so much? Or you could watch
porn together...that's always fun.
^__^
I dont think I could ever watch porn with
him.........
Poor guy - RUN while you have a chance!
LOL!
NOT FUNNY!!!!
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-30-07 19:34pm
victoria16
wrote:
Jeaston77
wrote:
the_girlfreind
wrote:
oh geez
ron white is a horrible example to use in
a situation like this
lol
How is that??? Its a mens health forum and
I am giving my opinion as a man...My other
opinion is that a 16 year old thats
engaged has a lot more issues then
porn...but that is only my opinion....
Well this is wasnt this forum is about now
is it!?!?!? I dont
care about your oppinion on this subject
ACTUALLY I dont care about anyones
oppinion on that subject. Maybe you just
havent been in love. ON N HERES A FACT!!!
Almost all my friends parents are divorced
n my parents who have been 2geather since
she they were 14 are completly happy
togeather!!
and let suzy add to jeaston77:
mmmhmmm u dont know her
so hushyourmouth
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lonestarguy
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Posted: 08-30-07 20:01pm
Eiri
wrote:
Haha O faces XD
I've done masturbation over a web-cam and
of course, you have to set everything up
and what not... it wasn't too
weird.
Eiri,
What's your webcam address? Strictly for
research you understand.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-30-07 21:55pm
victoria16
wrote:
Jeaston77
wrote:
the_girlfreind
wrote:
oh geez
ron white is a horrible example to use in
a situation like this
lol
How is that??? Its a mens health forum and
I am giving my opinion as a man...My other
opinion is that a 16 year old thats
engaged has a lot more issues then
porn...but that is only my opinion....
Well this is wasnt this forum is about now
is it!?!?!?
Actually, that IS what this particular
forum is about. This post is in the Men's
Sexual Health Forum. What else do you
expect? This isn't the first time you've
angrily reacted to posts you don't like
and say they don't belong when they
actually do.
Quote:
I dont
care about your oppinion on this subject
ACTUALLY I dont care about anyones
oppinion on that
subject.
Then why in god's name did you make a
topic about it!!? Illogical, much?
Quote:
Maybe you just
havent been in love.
Love and porn are not related. I've been
in love, I've been engaged, I'm a adult
woman.
I still like porn.
Quote:
ON N HERES A
FACT!!! Almost all my friends parents are
divorced n my parents who have been
2geather since she they were 14 are
completly happy
togeather!!
Um, that's... nice?
Ooh waaait, you were reacting to him
saying you were engaged at age 16. If that
offends you... then maybe there is an
issue there. You don't need to defend
yourself so violently.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-30-07 21:59pm
lonestarguy
wrote:
Eiri
wrote:
Haha O faces XD
I've done masturbation over a web-cam and
of course, you have to set everything up
and what not... it wasn't too
weird.
Eiri,
What's your webcam address? Strictly for
research you understand.
It's broken right now, swear to god XD
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victoria16
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Joined: 09 Jul 2007 Posts: 451 Location: ,
... Posted: 08-30-07 22:00pm
Eiri
wrote:
victoria16
wrote:
Jeaston77
wrote:
the_girlfreind
wrote:
oh geez
ron white is a horrible example to use in
a situation like this
lol
How is that??? Its a mens health forum and
I am giving my opinion as a man...My other
opinion is that a 16 year old thats
engaged has a lot more issues then
porn...but that is only my opinion....
Well this is wasnt this forum is about now
is it!?!?!?
Actually, that IS what this particular
forum is about. This post is in the Men's
Sexual Health Forum. What else do you
expect? This isn't the first time you've
angrily reacted to posts you don't like
and say they don't belong when they
actually do.
Quote:
I dont
care about your oppinion on this subject
ACTUALLY I dont care about anyones
oppinion on that
subject.
Then why in god's name did you make a
topic about it!!? Illogical, much?
Quote:
Maybe you just
havent been in love.
Love and porn are not related. I've been
in love, I've been engaged, I'm a adult
woman.
I still like porn.
Quote:
ON N HERES A
FACT!!! Almost all my friends parents are
divorced n my parents who have been
2geather since she they were 14 are
completly happy
togeather!!
Um, that's... nice?
Ooh waaait, you were reacting to him
saying you were engaged at age 16. If that
offends you... then maybe there is an
issue there. You don't need to defend
yourself so
violently.
I wasnt being Violent Im just having a bad
day. N were talking about porn not me
being engaged it really isnt the topic. I
dont want peoples oppinions on my fiance n
I's engagment just the porn topic. ok.
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shgrdii
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Joined: 22 Mar 2005 Posts: 14
Posted: 08-31-07 10:37am
When I look at porn, I actually fantasize
that what is happening on the screen is me
and my girlfriend. Then, if I masturbate
without porn, sometimes I visually me and
my girlfriend doing some of the moves I
saw in the porn. Watching it gets me
excited but I always prefer the real thing
with my girlfriend. I think watching porn
a lot can lead to an unhealthy addiction
to it and it could ruin sex lives because
the guy might be so addicted to porn that
he'd rather watch it than have sex with
his girlfriend/wife or he may only be able
to get off by watching porn.
My girlfriend found out that I watched it
and at first she got really upset because
she thought it meant I wasn't attracted to
her. That wasn't true at all, I am and I
always wanted to have sex with her. Its
not like I am attracted to the porn stars
I see on the screen, I am attracted to the
sex I see and I imagine me and my
girlfriend doing that stuff. There was
also times when my girlfriend didn't have
much of a sex drive and didn't really ever
want to have sex for a period of time and
she actually told me it was ok to look at
porn because she knew I always wanted sex
but she didn't want to do it. So I think
porn is ok as long as it doesn't control
your life or affect your sex life with
your partner in a negative way.
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elamentalist
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Joined: 08 Sep 2007 Posts: 5
Posted: 09-08-07 03:49am
actually luckyguy,
from what i understand, men in commited
relationships masterbate more that single
men. even when the sex is constant.
but maybe that is wrong.
anyway, to the point.
Porn, strip clubs, porn shops, they are
all things that can be used in a
relationship, or not. that is the point of
them, to stimulate.
In fact the things you buy in a porn shop
(maybe aside from movies) are all designed
to add a little "diffrent" to the sex
life.
Though honestly, whether a guy watches
porn is not the big issue. Its whether he
watches it as an escape, or as a
recreation. IF he watches it because the
sex is bad and he needs something else...
then that has its own problems, but this
is pretty rare i would think. Most men
watch porn for the hell of it. cause they
have a few hours. and because boobs are
always interesting.
at least i always think boobs are
interesting. lol.
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Chezzy
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Joined: 16 Jan 2007 Posts: 152
Posted: 09-08-07 03:59am
weirddude662000
wrote:
My girlfriend saids i cant
watch porn either.
She explained to me why she doesnt want me
to watch it.
She saids she see's it as a form of
cheating which i completely understand.
Im not gonna get all mad just cause i cant
beat off to porn just as long as she keeps
me completely satistfied.
which she does.
So porn is not something a man has to
watch.
Nore is there problem with porn.
Although maybe yall should try and make
your own porn then just tell him thats the
only porn he can
watch...lol.
Hee hee, that's lovely ..Yea I
agree have fun together make your own
together, experiment..There's so much you
can do, and make your sex life brilliant.
I dont
care about your oppinion on this subject
ACTUALLY I dont care about anyones
oppinion on that subject. Maybe you just
havent been in love. ON N HERES A FACT!!!
Almost all my friends parents are divorced
n my parents who have been 2geather since
she they were 14 are completly happy
togeather!!
..Yea I
agree have fun together make your own
together, experiment..There's so much you
can do, and make your sex life brilliant.