Georgia59
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Posted: 08-28-07 21:08pm
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| victoria16
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | victoria16
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | I'm not really offended by
it though. I know he still thinks I'm
beautiful and that's all that really
matters. |
How did yu learn to get over
it. |
Why does it bother you so much? I mean, I
understand that it's fake and kind've
silly- but if you realize that he knows
that too then it's not so bad...Maybe if
you figure out what really bothers you
about it you can figure out how to get
around it. |
I know what bothers
me. |
Did you mean to say that you don't know
what bothers you?
I just meant if you can figure out what in
particular it is about porn that bothers
you that you might be able to find a
different option that he likes...
But no, I wouldn't do the strip clubs
either. A little too much for me. To each
her own.
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victoria16
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Posted: 08-28-07 21:14pm
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| prfctbyntre
wrote: | | victoria16
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | victoria16
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | I'm not really offended by
it though. I know he still thinks I'm
beautiful and that's all that really
matters. |
How did yu learn to get over
it. |
Why does it bother you so much? I mean, I
understand that it's fake and kind've
silly- but if you realize that he knows
that too then it's not so bad...Maybe if
you figure out what really bothers you
about it you can figure out how to get
around it. |
I know what bothers
me. |
you cant always be so jealous and not let
him do things.. itll cause you to argue
and eventually break up my boyfriend and i
used to get mad at eachother and not let
one another do things we broke up stopped
living together and eventually got back
together, you have to let him have his
space and do things he wants to do.. if
you let him have his space hes going to
respect you for that and not do anything
stupid. |
He just toled me he doesnt want to watch
it....  I
meen I dont know should I believe him says
he hasnt been watching it, and hasnt been
jacking off I meen thats a major relief to
me 
We have talked about it before hes always
said he didnt watch it but ever since his
friend said that he still had it plus my
miss trust for guys made me overeact, Ill
admit to it.
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 08-28-07 21:40pm
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id rather my bf go and jerk to porn then
go out and have sex with another girl so
i really dont care if he watches it or
not.
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Posted: 08-28-07 21:46pm
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| victoria16
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | | victoria16
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | victoria16
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | I'm not really offended by
it though. I know he still thinks I'm
beautiful and that's all that really
matters. |
How did yu learn to get over
it. |
Why does it bother you so much? I mean, I
understand that it's fake and kind've
silly- but if you realize that he knows
that too then it's not so bad...Maybe if
you figure out what really bothers you
about it you can figure out how to get
around it. |
I know what bothers
me. |
you cant always be so jealous and not let
him do things.. itll cause you to argue
and eventually break up my boyfriend and i
used to get mad at eachother and not let
one another do things we broke up stopped
living together and eventually got back
together, you have to let him have his
space and do things he wants to do.. if
you let him have his space hes going to
respect you for that and not do anything
stupid. |
He just toled me he doesnt want to watch
it.... I
meen I dont know should I believe him says
he hasnt been watching it, and hasnt been
jacking off I meen thats a major relief to
me
We have talked about it before hes always
said he didnt watch it but ever since his
friend said that he still had it plus my
miss trust for guys made me overeact, Ill
admit to it. |
ALL boys jerk off
even if they say they dont
they do lol
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 08-28-07 21:51pm
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this is true..i walk in on my bf doing it
all the time..less work i have to do  lol
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Posted: 08-28-07 21:55pm
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| prfctbyntre
wrote: | | this is true..i walk in on
my bf doing it all the time..less work i
have to do
lol |
lol
as long as theirs no strippers or sex with
otehr women he can jack off to whatever he
wants
the sex is still great  so i cant complain!
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 08-28-07 21:58pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | | this is true..i walk in on
my bf doing it all the time..less work i
have to do
lol |
lol
as long as theirs no strippers or sex with
otehr women he can jack off to whatever he
wants
the sex is still great so i cant complain!
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thats what i say.
the day someone tries to make their bfs
stop watching porn is the day theyre going
to go out and cheat pretty much..its a
part of life
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top_cio
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Posted: 08-29-07 13:20pm
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| victoria16
wrote: | | devils_advocate
wrote: | | Okay, I'm a girl, but I
watch porn to get ideas. Also, because
you can't be having sex all the time with
the guy/girl you love. And sometimes,
masturbating requires something to
stimulate the imagination. Anyway, if
he's MARRYING you, clearly he loves you.
He doesn't just want to marry you for the
sex! So what if he's watching porn?
Maybe you and him could make porn, if he
enjoys it so much? Or you could watch
porn together...that's always fun.
^__^ |
I dont think I could ever watch porn with
him......... |
Poor guy - RUN while you have a chance!
LOL!
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top_cio
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Posted: 08-29-07 13:20pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | | victoria16
wrote: | | prfctbyntre
wrote: | | victoria16
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | victoria16
wrote: | | Georgia59
wrote: | | I'm not really offended by
it though. I know he still thinks I'm
beautiful and that's all that really
matters. |
How did yu learn to get over
it. |
Why does it bother you so much? I mean, I
understand that it's fake and kind've
silly- but if you realize that he knows
that too then it's not so bad...Maybe if
you figure out what really bothers you
about it you can figure out how to get
around it. |
I know what bothers
me. |
And so do all girls.... hehehe
you cant always be so jealous and not let
him do things.. itll cause you to argue
and eventually break up my boyfriend and i
used to get mad at eachother and not let
one another do things we broke up stopped
living together and eventually got back
together, you have to let him have his
space and do things he wants to do.. if
you let him have his space hes going to
respect you for that and not do anything
stupid. |
He just toled me he doesnt want to watch
it.... I
meen I dont know should I believe him says
he hasnt been watching it, and hasnt been
jacking off I meen thats a major relief to
me
We have talked about it before hes always
said he didnt watch it but ever since his
friend said that he still had it plus my
miss trust for guys made me overeact, Ill
admit to it. |
ALL boys jerk off
even if they say they dont
they do lol |
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 08-29-07 13:35pm
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My DH and I have always enjoyed watching
pron together, eventually we get turned on
and shut it off. We have been to strip
clubs numerous times as well, and he
really likes it when I get a lap dance.
But strip clubs are really kinda boring
and a little sad, so we don't go much
anymore. I guess i just feel pretty
confident that he's not going anwhere with
any of them, so I don't get worked up over
it. I admit that strippers bothered me at
first because they are real people, not
just ona tv screen. then i went to a
strip club and I figured out that he would
not be leaving the club with one, so I
don't worry. IF he PAID for porn, or went
to the strib club WITHOUT ME often, then
heck ya I'd be mad. But just about the
monetary expense for fake stuff, when he
has the real thing for free at home.
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 08-29-07 13:37pm
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| sillyakchick
wrote: | | My DH and I have always
enjoyed watching pron together, eventually
we get turned on and shut it off. We have
been to strip clubs numerous times as
well, and he really likes it when I get a
lap dance. But strip clubs are really
kinda boring and a little sad, so we don't
go much anymore. I guess i just feel
pretty confident that he's not going
anwhere with any of them, so I don't get
worked up over it. I admit that strippers
bothered me at first because they are real
people, not just ona tv screen. then i
went to a strip club and I figured out
that he would not be leaving the club with
one, so I don't worry. IF he PAID for
porn, or went to the strib club WITHOUT ME
often, then heck ya I'd be mad. But just
about the monetary expense for fake stuff,
when he has the real thing for free at
home. |
what does dh mean? lol
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 08-29-07 13:42pm
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"dear husband" or if in different context
"dam husband"
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Rosie H
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Posted: 08-29-07 13:45pm
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I agree with what you guys said, as long
as porn doesnt take the place of me I am
fine with it. My hubby and I use it to
spice things up once and a while. Its
exciting to go and pick our movie out
together, get home and get going. Every
time he is so turned on he pays more
attention to me more than the movie.
Have you gusy seen that movie Pirates? We
rented it 3 times trying to actually watch
the whole thing cause it has a story line.
Well each time we only got 10-15 into it
before we were going at it. LOL
I wasnt always like this though. Most of
my problems with porn we due to my own
insecurities about sex. Either I felt not
as pretty or I was worried that my
performance wasnt as good. Once I got
through my hang ups porn became something
to enjoy
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Jeaston77
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Posted: 08-29-07 22:08pm
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| Rosie H
wrote: | | I wasnt always like this
though. Most of my problems with porn we
due to my own insecurities about sex.
Either I felt not as pretty or I was
worried that my performance wasnt as good.
Once I got through my hang ups porn
became something to
enjoy |
Most people don't go to a baseball game
and get upset that they can't play
shortstop like Derek Jeter...Porn is porn
sex is sex the two shouldn't get
confused...Like Ron White said "once you
have seen one girl naked you pretty much
want to see the rest of them naked"
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-29-07 22:09pm
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| Jeaston77
wrote: | | Rosie H
wrote: | | I wasnt always like this
though. Most of my problems with porn we
due to my own insecurities about sex.
Either I felt not as pretty or I was
worried that my performance wasnt as good.
Once I got through my hang ups porn
became something to
enjoy |
Most people don't go to a baseball game
and get upset that they can't play
shortstop like Derek Jeter...Porn is porn
sex is sex the two shouldn't get
confused...Like Ron White said "once you
have seen one girl naked you pretty much
want to see the rest of them
naked" |
oh geez
ron white is a horrible example to use in
a situation like this lol
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Jeaston77
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Posted: 08-29-07 22:44pm
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| the_girlfreind
wrote: | oh geez
ron white is a horrible example to use in
a situation like this
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How is that??? Its a mens health forum and
I am giving my opinion as a man...My other
opinion is that a 16 year old thats
engaged has a lot more issues then
porn...but that is only my opinion....
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-29-07 22:46pm
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| Jeaston77
wrote: | | the_girlfreind
wrote: | oh geez
ron white is a horrible example to use in
a situation like this
lol |
How is that??? Its a mens health forum and
I am giving my opinion as a man...My other
opinion is that a 16 year old thats
engaged has a lot more issues then
porn...but that is only my opinion....
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*scarcasm* 
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Posted: 08-30-07 08:56am
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| Jeaston77
wrote: | | Rosie H
wrote: | | I wasnt always like this
though. Most of my problems with porn we
due to my own insecurities about sex.
Either I felt not as pretty or I was
worried that my performance wasnt as good.
Once I got through my hang ups porn
became something to
enjoy |
Most people don't go to a baseball game
and get upset that they can't play
shortstop like Derek Jeter...Porn is porn
sex is sex the two shouldn't get
confused...Like Ron White said "once you
have seen one girl naked you pretty much
want to see the rest of them
naked" |
Sorry, who is Ron White?
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weirddude662000
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Posted: 08-30-07 10:26am
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My girlfriend saids i cant watch porn
either.
She explained to me why she doesnt want me
to watch it.
She saids she see's it as a form of
cheating which i completely understand.
Im not gonna get all mad just cause i cant
beat off to porn just as long as she keeps
me completely satistfied.
which she does.
So porn is not something a man has to
watch.
Nore is there problem with porn.
Although maybe yall should try and make
your own porn then just tell him thats the
only porn he can watch...lol.
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prfctbyntre
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Posted: 08-30-07 10:27am
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i dont get why people think porn is a form
of cheating?
if theres no touching involved its not
cheating.
thats how i view it anyways.
as long as im the only naked girl whos in
my bfs apartment and who he touches its
fine by me.
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