Because as we watch there are things us men would like to do with our women. So we basically learn from what we watch.

Yah but yur looking at other woman still. Its cool wanting to do new moves in bed, Im all for it. But I know guys dont just watch porn to learn....

According to my hubby- porn is a fantasy and unrealistic. Yes. But it still turns them on. They don't expect real sex to be like that, but it just turns them on so they like it.

Also according to my hubby- real sex is always preferable to porn.

I used to be hung up about it too, but I got over it and we can watch it together sometimes now. It is fake and artificial and I think that's why they like it! It's kind've taboo.

To the guys- I don't suggest trying to learn from porn. Porn is NOT a how to manual lol.

lol. So yu dont mind him looking at naked woman, etc?

Well if it was a real naked woman (like in our house lol) then I would mind.

But porn, naw. I used to get all hung up over it, but we talked about it and I felt better. He assured me that he would always prefer me over porn and real sex over watching it. And he is fully aware that those women are fake, in fact we have made an effort together to find more realistic porn.

Well atleast yur trying to find more realistic porn.

I'm not really offended by it though. I know he still thinks I'm beautiful and that's all that really matters.

How did yu learn to get over it.

Okay, I'm a girl, but I watch porn to get ideas. Also, because you can't be having sex all the time with the guy/girl you love. And sometimes, masturbating requires something to stimulate the imagination. Anyway, if he's MARRYING you, clearly he loves you. He doesn't just want to marry you for the sex! So what if he's watching porn? Maybe you and him could make porn, if he enjoys it so much? Or you could watch porn together...that's always fun. ^__^

I dont think I could ever watch porn with him.........

As a female. I actually do from time to time watch porn. Honestly its all taboo to me. Women are supposed to be pure and what not. Me and my man can go to strip clubs, porn stores, and watch porn TOGETHER. granted he is a lil weirded out by the strip clubs. Its all about them seeing something unattainable. Plus it gives me more drive to top the bimbo on the screen

WOW!! Even strip clubs???? ...I wouldnt never let my fiance go to a strip club or go with him.
Yu know hey call me pozesive but its just not ok in my relationship.
Dont get me wrong I would never judge anyones relationship, if watching porn 2geather gets you going than it just does. I wish I wasnt so bothered by porn coming near my relationship.

Why does it bother you so much? I mean, I understand that it's fake and kind've silly- but if you realize that he knows that too then it's not so bad...Maybe if you figure out what really bothers you about it you can figure out how to get around it.

lesbian porn is the best

lol!

I know what bothers me.

im for serious!!!! and hun i know alot of people who feel the way you do
but think of it like this

its a person on TV and thats it
just like actors in a movie
porn can really be a fun thing

and guys dont look at it to be sick or anything. they do it because its natural
personally i dont think a naked man is sexy at all. only my travis hoever i find lesbian porn (or porn with more than one women) awsome for some reason! everyone is different and likes diferent things

i would NEVER go with travis to a strip club
lol
and bet 100 bucks he wouldnt be going either

you cant always be so jealous and not let him do things.. itll cause you to argue and eventually break up my boyfriend and i used to get mad at eachother and not let one another do things we broke up stopped living together and eventually got back together, you have to let him have his space and do things he wants to do.. if you let him have his space hes going to respect you for that and not do anything stupid.