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Q: 19 F Cannot Orgasam Having Oral/masterbating Just On Top

asked by: ksgirl02 on March 19th, 2004

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I am a young female having problems with orgasming during oral sex, or masterbating. I have never been able to orgasam while masterbating. I know how to its just that the stimulation isnt there I think. I can orgasam by being on top of a guy, or humping him I dont know why? This not normal? I remember as a child I would jump on a pole and kinda hump it because if felt good.....Or using something to hump, do you think that this could of "damaged" me? Me and my bf have sex and he wonders why I dont like to have oral sex, it just doesnt do anything for me...With anyone. Just being on top I can only orgasam. Please help. Oh and I dont like my nipples or my breast played with, is this not normal too?

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oopoopoop

replied on March 19th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

No Such Thing As "normal"

The important thing is to find what works for you! You are lucky that at least you have found one position that does it -- when I was 19 I was still years away from getting anywhere! It seems that we are all wired up a little bit differently, the switches aren't all in the same place or set up the same way. Some women can only orgasm on top, some only during oral sex, some only from masturbation , and some find sitting on top of the washing machine during the spin cycle is the way to go. It helps to be open-minded and try new things every now and then, but a lot has to do with being able to relax and let go, and not taking it all too seriously.

Kas86

replied on January 16th, 2008

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i have never had a orgasam y??????

i have tried so many things befor but i have never had a orgasam my boyfriend and i both get frustrated i just wanna know if there is any reason to this or if there is any advice you could me.. please can you help me

Tylanas

replied on January 16th, 2008

Especially eHealthy

You haven't "damaged" yourself but it is possibly the female version of traumatic masturbatory syndrome, which normally affect males who learn to masturbate face-down on a bed.

My best advice would be what males with this syndrome have to do: Complete abstinence from all sexual stimulation for a week or two, and then masturbating with your hands or a vibrator. You have to re-train your body. It is fortunate you can orgasm when on top; most women can't orgasm during sex at all!

geminichic20

replied on January 17th, 2008

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OMG...I had the same exact problem wow!! For a little over a year now I have been able to orgasim with my bf on top of me but before It used to be only with me on top and he had to play with my nipples! I never orgasimed over oral sex and I still don't...It just doesn't feel good to me! Idk what to say for you but for me as long as my bf plays with my nipples during sex I am able to orgasim.

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