I Cant Stand This Anymore!!!!!!! Porn Is Horrable!!! Posted: 08-24-07 01:21am
I need help. I've asked my fiance that he
not look at porn. Its NOT such a big deal
to me if he jacks off but IT IS if hes
jacking off to bleach blond barbies with
huge breasts, Its not real, I hate it. I
mean I prefer he doesnt jack off, since he
has me. He says he doesnt but I just dont
believe him, plus his friend toled me were
I could find them in the house. Havent
looked yet becuase I want to trust him but
I feel like I need to check.
I know some people dont think thier is
anything wrong with watching porn but to
me its like walking in a stoor and yur man
checking out other woman its not ok thier
an its not ok in the house or at all.
Maybe someone can help ease my porn
hatetred? Its
really bothering me.
To me porn is like junk food, artificial
and its bad for you. It gives young boys
an unrealistick view on woman, what they
should look like, act like in bed, etc.
-Victoria
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babygirl24
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Re: I Cant Stand This Anymore!!!!!!! Porn Is Horrable!!! Posted: 08-24-07 01:39am
im on your side i belive that guys these
days are getting a wrong view on girls
all they want in a girl is big boobs, big
but, a guy shouldnt watch porn its wrong
in my thoughts too. i think guys should
think about thier girlfriends in bed not
how to do it like the girl on tv. if you
feel you need to check then do it rather
now then when your married.if he has it
then he not listening to you . and other
people have diffrent views but you need to
think of your own sometimes. and rember
people who read this and disagree its just
my thoughts.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-24-07 01:51am
Wait... not only do you not want your
boyfriend to look at porn, but you don't
even want him to masturbate!?
I'm sorry girl, but thats just a little
possessive and crazy in my book. For one
thing, I like porn. I don't use it to get
off, but I've got no problem with it.
Secondly, I loooove masturbating. I
masturbated even when I had a bf.
You say porn is junkfood, and that can be
a good way to look at it. But think about
junkfood for a minute: One cookie ain't
gonna hurt you.
It's called moderation. A little porn
isn't harmful. If he's choosing porn
instead of sex with you on a regular
basis, *then* it's a problem.
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Lion79
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Posted: 08-24-07 05:02am
Porn is fantasy. Like you said, it's not
real, and it's totally unrealistic. But
everybody knows that and I'm sure your guy
isn't expecting busty blonde to come up to
him one day asking for sex. Fantasies are
good things, but it doesn't mean people
actually want to act them out. Some people
fantasise about beastiality etc and
masturbate to it but have no desire to
actually do it in real life.
Porn is a fantasy, it's so false and yes
it does give an unrealistic view but as
long as he's still interested in you then
there's no problem. It definitely doesn't
mean he wants to cheat on you or anything.
I have a bf but I still fancy guys off the
TV, but I know I'll never ever meet them!
It's fine, really.
Its
really bothering me.
