Bf Accusing Me of Infidelity W/ Straight Guys Posted: 08-23-07 16:13pm
I am a gay male and have been living with
my boyfriend for over two years. I made a
really big mistake by virtually moving in
with him when i met him.
He is so paranoid ive never known anyone
to be this bad. I was working in London in
a school and he accused me of sleeping
with every male member of staff even
though they were straight. He has accused
me of sleeping with all my friends and I
have already lost some good friends.
Recently I have moved back to my home town
and things have got even worse. (he just
came in the room and questioned me)
He has tried to stop me seeing my
bestfriends and theyhate being around him.
People round here do not know im gay
apartfrom a few close friends and now
evrytime im in a straight nightclub if he
turns round and cant see me he shouts at
me all night in front of everyone.
I really cant take anymore and its
starting to get physical. I go to work all
day (he does not work and i come home to
get accused and it breaks me)
Now im at this new job he has already
accused me and given me a really hard time
about all the male members of staff. If a
male phones me I know im in for a few
nights arguing or defending myself.
There are 100s of more sick and sad
situations i culd tell you about but you
haveheard enough. Ive asked him to leave
loads of times but he wont go. I did
lovehim atthe startof the relationship but
the paranoia has droveme away completely.
I feel like im on my own.
Please help me with your suggestions
|
Mommy35
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 08-23-07 19:57pm
Your partner is never going to stop
accusing you of sleeping around. He's
obviously very insecure. Maybe he has
been cheated on and is punishing you for
his former lovers mistakes. Or maybe he's
been the cheater and always thinks that
others have the same ill intentions as
well.
My suggestion would be get away from this
person and find yourself a nice guy that
will love you and let you go to work or
visit your home without accusing you of
being unfaithful. You don't deserve to be
treated that way.
