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Q: How Can I Encourage Him to Have Vaginal Sex?
asked by: seekhelp86 on August 23rd, 2007
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I have a problem with my new boy friend. in fact what makes me anxious is the fact that what he enjoys is just my sucking his penis and when i ask him to have vaginal sex, he is quite reluctant,,and even when he accepts ,after the sex quickly pushes his penis in my mouth for licking and sucking, is there any special way to encourage him and make him enthusiastic for having vaginal sex? in addition, i want to know the reason of his being obsessed with this kind of ejaculation and sex .
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Georgia59
replied on August 23rd, 2007
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Well, guys like oral. That's just a fact. But you should be getting what you want in bed too... if he's just concerned with his pleasure and not yours, there is a problem.

You should be getting pleasure too. You need to have a talk with him.
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JH2007
replied on August 28th, 2007
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I would say he is selfish. My husband used to be like that. He asked for oral sex all the time, but when it came to vaginal, he finished in less than a minute. And he didn't perform foreplay either. He had PE problem though. After a while I just refused to give him oral. Why should he get all the fun without giving something back.

I am sorry to say you probably met a selfish guy. Sex is probably going to get worse. After being married to a selfish guy for 18 years, I told my husband he would get his oral if he tries to give me some pleasure. Sex is a lot less often now because he has to work on me to get what he wants. But I would go for quality than quantity on any given day. In the last couple of years, I enjoyed sex even though it happened much less. After being married for 20 years, we are actually having great sex. I never thought it would happen in this lifetime.

Good luck.
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