How Can I Encourage Him to Have Vaginal Sex? Posted: 08-23-07 09:17am
I have a problem with my new boy friend.
in fact what makes me anxious is the fact
that what he enjoys is just my sucking his
penis and when i ask him to have vaginal
sex, he is quite reluctant,,and even when
he accepts ,after the sex quickly pushes
his penis in my mouth for licking and
sucking, is there any special way to
encourage him and make him enthusiastic
for having vaginal sex? in addition, i
want to know the reason of his being
obsessed with this kind of ejaculation and
sex .
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-23-07 15:30pm
Well, guys like oral. That's just a fact.
But you should be getting what you want in
bed too... if he's just concerned with his
pleasure and not yours, there is a
problem.
You should be getting pleasure too. You
need to have a talk with him.
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JH2007
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2007 Posts: 32
Posted: 08-28-07 16:43pm
I would say he is selfish. My husband
used to be like that. He asked for oral
sex all the time, but when it came to
vaginal, he finished in less than a
minute. And he didn't perform foreplay
either. He had PE problem though. After
a while I just refused to give him oral.
Why should he get all the fun without
giving something back.
I am sorry to say you probably met a
selfish guy. Sex is probably going to get
worse. After being married to a selfish
guy for 18 years, I told my husband he
would get his oral if he tries to give me
some pleasure. Sex is a lot less often
now because he has to work on me to get
what he wants. But I would go for quality
than quantity on any given day. In the
last couple of years, I enjoyed sex even
though it happened much less. After being
married for 20 years, we are actually
having great sex. I never thought it
would happen in this lifetime.
