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Q: What Is He Up To??? He Scares Me...
asked by: Zona on August 23rd, 2007
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Three weeks ago my boyfriend asked me to take life insurance on him for as much as I want up to $3 million. I was shocked and didnt pay attention. He has been insisting ever since. I will be the sole beneficiary and he keeps telling me that if something happens to him, he wants me to be okay and taken care of. Last night he asked me if I have called my insurance brokers, and I hadn't and he got on my case big time. He says he'll tell his family himself so that they won't give me hasles if something happens to him. He has been very generous and loving and our relationship has grown strong and we are very happy together. We are both negative (tested recently)and we've used protection religiously from day one. Needing a socond opinion, I spoke to my elder sisters and they were shocked and said, he must really care. I know when he's being serious about something and hes not kidding on this one. I'm not sure what to make of it.

Please provide me with constructive answers...
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Birch
replied on August 23rd, 2007
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Are you worried he's considering suicide?

Are there other indicators of that; such as giving away personal items, having discussions about the future in which he does not include himself? Does he have a history of depression or suicide in the family?

How long have you been together for? What ages are you?

Little alarm bells would go off for me, too. Sit down and talk it out; tell him your concerns and that you feel uncomfortable. You may find it's something as benign as "my uncle died and his wife was left destitute and I don't want that to happen to you".

Best wishes!
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lucky charms
replied on July 29th, 2008
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have u ever find out what was up with him?
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Blessed Friends
replied on July 29th, 2008
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You said that your relationship is a happy and loving one. Trust in that love and ask him point blank about why he feels this way. Worrying yourself sick is not going to help solve anything but by talking things out you might get a better understanding and it may be nothing at all to worry about. On the other hand if you continue to feel things are leading the other way, and he is really asking for help, then you will be there and focused on envoking positive options that may just make all the difference!

Blessings!
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