i need help!! I have a feeling I could be
pregnant. I haven't missed a period yet
but I have had unprotected sex more than
once. My last period started on the 3rd
of this month. I had unprotected sex on
11 & 12th of this month. My cycle is
usually about 28 days. I'm not sure when
my most fertile days would be. Does
anyone know? Thanks in advance
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strawberrybanana
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I Think Im Pregnant! Posted: 03-22-04 04:44am
I have had unprotevted sex too! And I
haven't had a period in two weeks! I
think I might be pregnant too! Im only
15. Im afraid to tell my parents! I
guess I need to take a pregnancy test!
How am I supposed to tell my boyfriend!
Please help!
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sammisa
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Re: I Think Im Pregnant! Posted: 03-22-04 07:02am
Girls, girls, girls... Lol.. Unprotected
sex leads to pregnancy, if you don't want
to be pregnant, use protection, especially
at 15. I know I sound just like your
parents. Lol.. I have a daughter, she
is only 5, but I have already been
thinking about our birds and the bees talk
:d lol. Well, I just wanna be sure she
is protected, im not going to say sex is
wrong dont do it.. Cuz chances are,
she'll do it. But anyway, yes chances
are, you are pregnant especially if you
are 2 weeks late.. You do have to tell
your parents obviously, they will be upset
at first, but hopefully they will
understand that there is nothing you can
do now, and will except the baby.. And
yes, I would take a pregnancy test asap.
And as for the first post, I got pregnant
the last day of my menstral cycle, your
most fertal time is right after your
period I believe. Like the first 1-2
after. I hope you girls are ok, and
everything goes great for you !!! Good
luck when confronting your family etc...
Sandi
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KissyBai912
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Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 03-22-04 09:11am
Ur most fertile time is supposed to be
around day 14 of a normal 28 day
cycle....But I got pregnant on day 20 or
21....Lol....So I guess its possible to
get pregnant at almost anytime during your
cycle....But those are said to be your
fertile days. If you guys dont want to
be pregnant, have protected sex. I am 15
and today is actually my due date but I
used a condom at least.....I can't tell
you what to do about your parents and
boyfriend....You gotta face the
music.....Both of you....If your not
pregnant....Get on some kind of b/c or
stop having sex....Because obviously you
are not ready for the consequences that
come with sex.
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 03-22-04 12:44pm
To the first two posts! Please use
protection!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!
I mean, if you do not want a baby, then
use protection!!!! Goodness, at your age
you can get free birth control, condoms,
foam, diaphrams, whatever you want! And
aside from the pregnancy thing, what about
diseases! It only takes one time girls.
I hope and pray that you two are not
pregnant. You are so young and have your
whole life ahead of you. Please don't
give that up!
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sharon12
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Joined: 19 Mar 2004 Posts: 6
Not Sure Yet!!!! Posted: 03-23-04 23:42pm
Just to let you all know, I still don't
know whether I am or not. My breasts are
quite tender & were really killing me
a few days ago. I am also getting nose
bleeds which I never get! I spoke to a
friend who said it could be a symptom but
i'm not sure. Does anyone know?? By the
way, i'm almost 22, in a great
relationship and would be thrilled if I
was preg. I have been having sex for
years & have always been careful until
this time! I really hope I am. When do
you think would be the earliest time to
take a test? I can't wait to find out
either way...
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sammisa
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Re: Not Sure Yet!!!! Posted: 03-24-04 02:20am
They suggest that you wait until the first
day of your skipped cycle, however I have
taken a hpt about a week and a half before
I was supposed to start, and it came out
pos. So, I dont know what to tell you,
you could spend money now on a hpt but if
it comes out neg. I would take another
one on your first missed day.. Ok ?? ?
Hope this helps.. Good luck.
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sharon12
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Thanx!!! Posted: 03-24-04 05:12am
Hi
thanks for your info. I think I will wait
to see if I miss my period. I don't wanna
be upset if it comes out negative!!! I am
feeling all these emotions. I want to be
so bad that if i'm not i'll be gutted...
I wil keep you posted. Only another week
to go & then i'll know for sure.
Cross fingers 4 me
please....................
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sammisa
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Re: Thanx!!! Posted: 03-25-04 02:21am
Fingers are crossed !! Toes too !!!
Lol... Good luck.. Let me know..
Please..
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sharon12
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Joined: 19 Mar 2004 Posts: 6
Really Upset!!!!! Posted: 03-25-04 03:05am
I couldn't wait any longer so I got a home
pregnancy test. Took it a couple of hours
ago & it was negative. I really
thought I was & I am so upset. It is
still a week until my period is due and I
really hope that I just did the test too
early... I feel like such an fool because
I can't stop crying. It's not like I
planned to have a baby. My partner says
that I should go back on b/c when my
period starts as maybe it's not the right
time. I guess he has a point but I am so
heart sore at the moment that I can't bear
to think about that. I think he feels
quite relieved as he thinks that we are
not financially stable yet, although he
has a brilliant job & I don't even
have to work. I am not getting much
support from him at the mo. Is there
still a chance I could be pregnant????
Please tell me what you all think. Thanks
so much.
sharon
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littlehunybunny
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Joined: 28 Mar 2004 Posts: 644 Location: Los Angeles California
Pregnant Posted: 04-16-04 13:06pm
Its very possible you took the test too
early. Did you make sure it said it could
test early? The earlest I think you can
test (and this is only on some tests) is 4
days. If I were you, I would wait a week
after my missed period to test again.
Honestly, I hope you are since you want
this so bad. I remember the first month I
tried and I swear I thought I was
pregnant, I had all these simptoms, but
they turned out to all be in my head,
unless I was and miss carried! But the
very next month I got pregnant. Though I
chose not to think about it once because I
didn't want to be disapointed again. I am
now 9 weeks pregnant. It was funny,
because when I chose not to think about
it, I really didn't! I was due for my
period march 8th, and suddenly it was
march 19th and it was dawning on me that I
still had no period! I got tested at a
clinic march 25th and to my supise it was
positive. I know its hard not to think
about it when you want it so bad, but the
more you think about it, the less chance
of you getting pregnant. Something in
your body kind of blocks it when you work
to hard at it. If you just enjoy yourself
and let things be as they are, and not try
to get pregnant, chances are you will. I
wish you all the luck, and tons of baby
dust to you sweety!! Please update us on
your next test, or if you get your period,
so we all know. We all have our fingers
crossed for you!
Stacey
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2ferano
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Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 04-16-04 13:10pm
Yes it is still possible that you are
pregnant. I am sorry that you are not
getting much support from him, but at the
same time if he feels relieved that you
are not pregnant then I definately would
not keep trying! Be sure you are both
ready. It is a serious thing.
But at the same time I am sorry for your
disappointment! It will be alright!
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nobleview
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Joined: 23 Sep 2004 Posts: 37 Location: michigan
I Am Kind of Going Thru the Same Posted: 09-25-04 09:04am
Girl, I totally understand I had sex but
the guy didn't cum, and I did get my
period but it stop after two days and I
usually go three. I took 6 clearblue easy
test ant they all said no. So I
understand where you are coming from you
need to go to the docter.
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nobleview
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Joined: 23 Sep 2004 Posts: 37 Location: michigan
Can You Help Me Posted: 09-26-04 09:41am
My question is on the dating subject topic
what do I do w/ him
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urgirlsunshine
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Posted: 10-19-04 17:54pm
U have to count 14 days backwards from ur
last period.
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NancyNJack1971
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What I Need to know... Posted: 07-24-08 02:41am
I Am 17 years old and i think that i may
be pregnant. i dont know what my fertile
days are. i have had unprotected sex, and
i want to know what is the earliest time
that i can take a test... someone please
help me!
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Shikoi
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Joined: 27 Jul 2008 Posts: 4
Posted: 07-27-08 18:24pm
Um no. No to many of these posts.
You are young, the specific date for your
most firtile days is NOT specified this
early. There is no specific day or week or
whatever. Every woman is different, and
for a few more years you won't have a
schedual.
DON'T RELY ON WHAT THESE PEOPLE ARE
TELLING YOU ABOUT COUNTING BACK, ECT. If
you do, there is a chance you might get
pregnant. USE protection at all times! I
know i'm a hypocrite, i'm 15 and pregnant,
but i'm here to help, I have researched
and asked a professional about these
things thus why I am here.
Also mens semen can last longer then 5
days, if it doesn't touch air... The only
way to avoid getting pregnant is to not
use unprotected sex.