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Q: Hurts.

asked by: BabyGT on August 22nd, 2007

Experienced User

Well me and my boyfriend have been together since we were 13 years old, i am now 17 -- and back in december we had a break up, had a different bf, he had a different gf and we both had sex with each of em -- well we got back together in June! =] and its been great since..

but since then, when me and him have had sex, i can't get "wet" -- and i dont know what the problem is, everything feels great but it doesnt happen. So instead of that happening, we get his penis wet and then there we go..
but afterwards everything burns and hurts.. even when i have to go pee.

i dont know if this is an STD or if its because we kind of "forcing" and me not being wet?
please reply..

-- Shelly.

Replies(13)

young Girl

replied on August 22nd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

you should try and use some lube
it may help!!!

BabyGT

replied on August 22nd, 2007

Experienced User

i dont want to use lube though -- i just want everything "natural" i guess you could say...

is something wrong or is it just me not being able to get wet?

young Girl

replied on August 22nd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

BabyGT wrote:

i dont want to use lube though -- i just want everything "natural" i guess you could say...

is something wrong or is it just me not being able to get wet?

well sex should never hurt
the reason why you cant get wet is hard to tell because im not a doctor
however i suggest you may want to try foreplay before hand
like fingering,toys,oral etc which would probably help ALOT

BabyGT

replied on August 22nd, 2007

Experienced User

i was thinking abuot seeing a doctor..

but if im not wet -- and we just get his dick wet -- is that the reason why its hurting && why is burns when i pee then??

young Girl

replied on August 22nd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

BabyGT wrote:

i was thinking abuot seeing a doctor..

but if im not wet -- and we just get his penis wet -- is that the reason why its hurting && why is burns when i pee then??

i dont know? im not sure why it would burn like that? have either of you been tested for STD's or anything?

BabyGT

replied on August 22nd, 2007

Experienced User

no we havent

where should we go to get that done?

Llewellyn

replied on August 22nd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

What do you mean you get his penis wet? Wet with what?

I don't really understand why you don't want to use a store bought lubricant. It might not be 100% natural, but neither is dry and painful sex. So I don't see what difference that would make. If you could have pain-free sex for like $10, why not?

If a lubricant does not work, then definitely talk to your ob-gyn about it. Pain during sex is not normal.

Llewellyn

replied on August 22nd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

BabyGT wrote:

where should we go to get that done?

You can just go to your usual ob-gyn.

young Girl

replied on August 22nd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

BabyGT wrote:

no we havent

where should we go to get that done?

well i think you should go to a OBGYN to get tested
just to be safe
you could have clamydia (sp?) and not even know it

BabyGT

replied on August 22nd, 2007

Experienced User

i mean wet by sucking on it and it getting all wet -- i mean it works and all but afterwards it just hurts, and burns when i pee... and i dont know if its because [[ I ]] wasnt wet and we just did that..

i guess thats what im really asking && you dont think this could be an STD do you?
a few times it does hurts afterwards && when i AM wet it doesnt hurt afterwards

young Girl

replied on August 22nd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

BabyGT wrote:

yes if it burns like that and neither of you have been tested then it could be an std or a uti infection
you need to get checked out though and so does he

Tylanas

replied on August 22nd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Yeah, spit really isn't a good long-term lubricant because it simply dries too fast; that's one of the causes of your pain. Another additional cause could be an STD, so I'd definitely go to a local women's clinic such as Planned Parenthood and get a full Pap Smear done with STD testing.

Georgia59

replied on August 23rd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

I always use lube because my natural lubricant just usually isn't enough. And if you are experiencing burning after- that is definitely because of not enough lube.

Just buy some!! I promise you'll love it.

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