I too got off the shot in Nov. I didnt have a period until June. So dont worry, it takes at least a year for your body to get back to normal after taking the shot. Per my doc your body is trying to get its own hormones back and also you probably wont be able to get pregnant until a year.
I dont think you have to worry too much. Your body is just putting itself back on track. Mine get sore just before my period so maybe yours is on your way.

Not to pry and be to personal but did yours feel like it had hard cysts in them? i guess if you wan to put it bluntly is you ''probe'' at them...lol you can feel the hardness about an inch around the areola then normal tissue as you go farther out.

What is your whole take on the store bought prego tests? Should I get a blood test from my obgyn or the ones at the store good enough.

And also if what you say is true that my period could be on the way me and my boyfriend just fooled around last night and we havent been using protection so could i get pregnant now and never have the period becuase I pregnated the first egg?

And if that is the case have ou heard of any problems coming off depo and there being birth defects ebcuase it is the first one?

As far as I know my boobs always have "hard cysts" in them. I can feel them if I probe and poke at them, but my boyfriend says he cant feel anything but softness. The hard lumps are the milk ducts, I think thats what they are called. Its normal, my doc has never said anything bout them. Do you go in for check ups or do the self breast exam. If you do notice an unusual lump that gets bigger or was never there before then see a doc.

I think the store prego tests are 99.9 % effective, like they say on the box. I have never known of them being wrong, but there is always that .1% chance. I trust them. But the sure way to know is by a doctor.

You could be pregnant if you had unprotected sex, yes. There is always that chance. My mom got prego with my bro 1 month after getting off the shot. But the chances of that are slim. GENERALLY it takes 1 year for the shot to wear off.

I know how frustrating this is, beleive me I have gone through this so many times. Since you took the test and it came out neg then you can blame you syptoms on the shot. But I do suggest going to your doctor regarding your periods. SInce you havent had a period for a long time they can give you hormones to promote you body to bleed. This way you get on a regular cycle sooner than later.

I took the prego test a month ago though. This is a recent development the last 2-3 days and i have ben off the depo since nov 06. I am so screwed arent I. Im so afraid to be pregnant only becuase of my boyfrined. I feel as if he would hate me but bcuas ehe is sucha good guy he will stay with me because of the baby but be extremly spiteful like i did it on purpose or something. And I wouldnt want him to be around me only cause of hte baby I want him be be pat of a happy family. I dont know what to do I dont want ot loose him if i am pregnant but I dont belive in abortions

Well the only thing I could suggest is use protection or another form of BC from now on. Esp if you do not want to get or be pregnant and if you or him arent ready to be parents. Take a test in a couple of weeks and see if it comes back pos or neg. Once you find out for sure then decide what to do.

So why did you get off of depo and why would he be angry arent you open about your situation?

i got alot of negative feed back about the depo and I was on it for 3 years and stuff and I wanted to give my body a break. And back in nov of 06 i didnt have a boyfrined and wasnt having sex so I said what the hell. Yes me and him have discussed it in the past many times and he feels very strongly about not having a baby right now and I dont want im o think I did it on purpose or whatever ya know. I mean he is a great guya nd I can see spending the rest of my life with him but I feel if I was to be pregnant right now that he would walk out of our relationship emotionally and just be the physically for the baby. I dont know what to do. Im so nervous... I dont want to loose him but I dont agree in abortion.

Hun, if he voluntarily was having unprotected sex with you, then how can he blame you for becoming pregnant? I can understand him not wanting to raise a child at your ages. Is that what you would want to do?

I'd take another urine test. You had very unprotected sex.

IM PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!!!! no doubt!!!! How do I tell the father.......I cant he is going to flip.

well
then you dont need him in your life
its not all your fault ya know

What is your plan now, aside from telling people? What are you going to do? We're here to help.

im not telling anyone yet other then you!!! If my mom finds out then she will disown me even more. Im not to scared becuase I have already had one daughter so I know what to expect. I just dont know how to tell her father. Part of me wants to just be like we cant see eachother anymore so he doesnt yell at me.

So you're going to keep it? How is your mom not going to find out? if you've already got a child, why would she disown you for a second?
You need to tell him the truth. Lies beget trouble.

yes i am keeping it i odnt agree on abortion.
she told me not to get pregnant or else.
and donnie my boyfriend was very strongly against it and im afriad to conforn him i just want some advice on how too.

would he hurt you?! becaise if he would even get mad about something like that then you should just break it off with him now
you dont need tress in your life
how old are you hun? im here to help any way i can

no he wouldnt hurt me im judt afraid he might think i did it on purpose or somethign and he made it very apparent that he didnt want kids right now. im afraid that he will writre me off emotionally and just be there when the baby is born. its like being divorced before we get married ya know what i mean. im 22 i will be 23 in dec. i have had a baby bfore so im not scared in that aspect donnie my boyfriend is mybiggest concern.

if there are any guys out there that can give me some advice to i woudl appreciate it.

hmm well if you are 22 then why would your mom have anything to do with this pregnancy? thats not fair for her to threaten to disown you if you get preg

was it unprotected sex?

yea it has been for 4 1/2 months we have never used protection becuase we thought i could get pregnant becuase of the depo.

obviousl i was about to get my period but instad of getting it we fertizlized the egg.

I think you should tell him.

As for your mother... I think she'll be understanding but it can be so hard to tell. We don't know your mom. Do you live at home, or what? What would "disowning" entail?

Okay, no abortion. What about adoption? If you presented that to both your boyfriend and your mother, do you think they'd be more alright with the situation?

Why are they so afraid? Is it because you don't support yourself with a job, or what? Does your mom help out with all the bills and stuff, and so she doesn't want another mouth to feed?

If you're on your own and fending for yourself then I really don't see what your mom's problem is. However, if she's caring for you and/or your child, then I can certainly understand her ire.

I told Donnie!!!! It went alot better then I expected. I am currently living by myself so if my mom wants to be retarded I dont care/ Anyways I did have one question though sinc you seem extremly knowlegable with this kinda stuff. Im trying to not get to excited about this pregnancy becuase i was wondring if there is any chance of there being birth defecs or possible miscarry since it is the first egg in 4 years like ya know what it means i still technically never got the period lol and the egg like is it possible that it was contaminated?