In a Bad Relationship Help Posted: 08-21-07 23:07pm
i am in a relationship where we fight
every day. and he has pushed me in the
past but hasn't again .we're always off
and on. I'm young still and this guy isn't
really cute and other people think i
shouldn't be with him.
But the thing is I'm really super jealous
and i want a guy who doesn't look at girls
or talk to girls period. am i too
demanding . the talking to girls is my
past relationships and current where i
cant really trust guys. i just think cause
of me having sex that i cant get another
guy and that its missed up down there who
would take me. this guy when we brake up
we always seem to get back and i can't
help not to call him its like i need him .
I've been with him for a whole year and 2
months. I'm super confused. help.......
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october05_mommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Aug 2007 Posts: 101 Location: Battle Creek, Michigan United States
Posted: 08-21-07 23:14pm
First of all, you should of posted this as
a new topic & def. in a diff. forum
(such as, abusive relationships). But
anyways, if you fight everyday & if
he's touched you - whatsoever (including,
pushing you). You shouldn't be with him.
It's not healthy, at all. Also, your
fighting has made you insecure, I'm sure.
Which in turn, is where the jealously came
from. You need to get yourself out of this
relationship, & spend some time with
yourself, get to know yourself.. before
moving on.
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5557 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 08-22-07 10:56am
Yes! Be alone for a while, find some good
friends to hang out with. Forget about
guys for a while and gain your confidence
back.
You need to be strong in yourself before
you can devote yourself to someone else.
This guy sounds useless.
