benc152
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Who Should Supply Protection?
Posted: 08-20-07 13:43pm
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ok so because of a "debate" in another
topic i think this needs to be addressed.
Who is responsible in supplying protection
for intercourse.
and this is way out there but should you
be allowed into clubs and whatever if you
don't have any on you?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-20-07 13:55pm
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I carry protection IN me. I am on birth
control. Also, I have condoms in my
bedroom.
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Birch
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Re: Who Should Supply Protection?
Posted: 08-20-07 13:57pm
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| benc152
wrote: | | ok so because of a "debate"
in another topic i think this needs to be
addressed. Who is responsible in supplying
protection for intercourse.
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All involved parties.
| benc152
wrote: | | and this is way out there
but should you be allowed into clubs and
whatever if you don't have any on
you? |
That's kind of funny; I went in clubs back
in the day and by no means did I intend to
have sex.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 08-20-07 14:03pm
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If you don't want a baby, you should
protect yourself. Women and men. Anyway,
we don't want std's either....
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Anne123
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Posted: 08-20-07 15:19pm
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Oops, I voted no... but I guess it should
have been yes, since I'm on the pill I
walk around protected all the time. Plus
we have condoms at home (I'm married) just
in case I miss a pill or something.
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Fairy*Godmother
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I Agree
Posted: 08-20-07 15:31pm
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I TOTALLY agree with Birch............I
went to a club to dance...what the hell
wrong with the world today??????????????
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-20-07 15:32pm
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everyone should have some kind of
protection
not just men
not just women
its not up to either gender to be
reponsible for birtch conrol
both parties should be equally responsible
and/or protected
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Fairy*Godmother
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The-girlfriend...
Posted: 08-20-07 15:47pm
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Love your new avatar pic sweetie, you are
sooooooooo cute!
If you're gonna dance.......you got to pay
the fiddler!
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 08-20-07 16:17pm
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Anyone who intends to have sex. It scares
me sometimes that women are on the pill
but don't use condoms. I am afraid of my
daughters getting STD's (when they are
older, of course!) When I was a teen I
thought i was having safe sex bc I was on
the pill.
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young Girl
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Posted: 08-20-07 16:19pm
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| sillyakchick
wrote: | | Anyone who intends to have
sex. It scares me sometimes that women
are on the pill but don't use condoms. I
am afraid of my daughters getting STD's
(when they are older, of course!) When I
was a teen I thought i was having safe sex
bc I was on the
pill. |
i agree with you1 i think most people only
think "oh no i could get pregnant from
sex?!" and not enough think about the
std's involved
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young Girl
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Re: The-girlfriend...
Posted: 08-20-07 16:19pm
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| Fairy*Godmother
wrote: | Love your new avatar pic
sweetie, you are sooooooooo cute!
If you're gonna dance.......you got to pay
the fiddler! |
thanks!!!!!!!!!!!! 
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Jude-Love
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Posted: 08-20-07 16:20pm
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I hated condoms. They smell bad. I never
had to worry because I only slept with my
husband and we were both STD free, though.
I was so glad to say good bye to them
permanently after we got engaged. Yuck!
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lonestarguy
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Re: I Agree
Posted: 08-20-07 16:49pm
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| Fairy*Godmother
wrote: | | I TOTALLY agree with
Birch............I went to a club to
dance...what the hell wrong with the world
today?????????????? |
First of all, I'm past the problem myself
(wife had hysterectomy because of cysts
back in the 1980s), but I agree both
parties should be responsible. I never
even thought about STDs without condoms
even if the woman is on bc. But that makes
a lot of sense too.
For Fairy*G & Birch: I too went to
clubs back in the day and something tells
me the clubs today are not like they were
then. We're not in Kansas anymore,
Dorothy.
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Whoaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Posted: 08-20-07 16:53pm
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Jude-Love: I just wanted to comment on
your new avatar pic. Very aeon flux with a
little love thrown in!! 
And very sexy.
toodleloo
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Jude-Love
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Re: Whoaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Posted: 08-20-07 17:07pm
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| lonestarguy
wrote: | Jude-Love: I just wanted to
comment on your new avatar pic. Very aeon
flux with a little love thrown in!!
And very sexy.
toodleloo |
Haha...thanks!
Unfortunately, I look nothing like that.
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lonestarguy
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Reality
Posted: 08-20-07 17:16pm
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Jude-Love....Alas, reality rears its head
again. Excuse me, I've got an appointment
with my plastic surgeon for an extreme
makeover.
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 08-20-07 17:21pm
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I am also very glad I don't have to worry
about STD's anymore. Unless my husband
strays. I don't think it would ever
happen. I am sure nobody thinks it will
ever happen, even when it does. It's just
a very frightening world out there. "Back
in my day" STD's were just becoming known,
and nobody really thought they could get
one if they didn't sleep with "very many"
partners. Times have changed so much
since then.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 08-20-07 18:23pm
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I'm sorry, but I'm also offended by the
clubbing comment. I do not go
out dancing with the intention to have
sex, and I'd be extremely pissed if I
wasn't allowed into a club for not having
an item pertaining to an activity I didn't
intend to engage in! That's exactly like
saying everyone who goes to a club wants
to have a one-night stand!
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young Girl
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Re: Who Should Supply Protection?
Posted: 08-20-07 18:37pm
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| benc152
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and this is way out there but should you
be allowed into clubs and whatever if you
don't have any on
you? |
ooh i missed this part of the post
entirely
so all people go to clubs with intention
to have sex?! hmmm...interesting 
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Aryeani
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Posted: 08-20-07 18:53pm
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I'm on the pill so I'm protected. But, I
have condoms at home and I tend to keep
one in my purse at all times. just in
case. My bf also carries one in his wallet
at all times. But I believe that both
parties are responsible for protection
because both are involved. It shouldn't be
up to just one of them.
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