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i think its absolutely disgusting.. but my boyfriend really wants to try it.... should we experiment?
got any tips?
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I personally don't find it disgusting at all...
Yes, if you're wiling to try I say go for it.
Be clean. You don't necessarily have to get an enema or anything, but make sure the area is clean and you've "gone" recently, so you don't have anything waiting in the wings, if you catch my drift.
Luuuube. Get a ton of lube.
I actually suggest not using a condom if he's alright with that. I've done anal with and without, and well... actually, with a condom we couldn't even get it in.
Use your fingers! If you can stick three fingers in there, you can stick a penis in there. Feel how you can relax the ring of muscles and pull it wider, just like the vagina in many ways. Ge lube in there while you do this.
I'm going to say another thing that most people won't. Have him just push for it, since it's going to feel very weird, and getting it over with and inside may help.
Yes, if you're wiling to try I say go for it.
Be clean. You don't necessarily have to get an enema or anything, but make sure the area is clean and you've "gone" recently, so you don't have anything waiting in the wings, if you catch my drift.
Luuuube. Get a ton of lube.
I actually suggest not using a condom if he's alright with that. I've done anal with and without, and well... actually, with a condom we couldn't even get it in.
Use your fingers! If you can stick three fingers in there, you can stick a penis in there. Feel how you can relax the ring of muscles and pull it wider, just like the vagina in many ways. Ge lube in there while you do this.
I'm going to say another thing that most people won't. Have him just push for it, since it's going to feel very weird, and getting it over with and inside may help.
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I agree with you Eiri... It doesnt actually feel as bad as you'd expect it to. It is uncomfortable at first...but as long as you've used lots of lube and relax it should make things a lot easier.
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Hi
Tips? RUN like hell....................can you imgaine a ball bat going up in there? Guess my husband is just too large or I have a really tight ass......
ALl hte lube in the wrold would not help...sometimes it jsut ain't meant to be................oh, and if you do decide to do it anal, DO NOT have sex vaginally until you have cleaned up.
ALl hte lube in the wrold would not help...sometimes it jsut ain't meant to be................oh, and if you do decide to do it anal, DO NOT have sex vaginally until you have cleaned up.
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LOL @ The run like hell..
Anal has never ever interested me at all, and does nothing for me..
Hubbys feels exactly the same as me..
Anal has never ever interested me at all, and does nothing for me..
Hubbys feels exactly the same as me..
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My husband and I have done it. He loves it, but I don't like it. To be honest, I shouldn't have done it because now I have problems and we did do it correctly-with a condom, plenty of lube, and I wasn't tensed at all.
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| linds0166 wrote: |
| i think its absolutely disgusting.. but my boyfriend really wants to try it.... should we experiment?
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well if you dont like then dont do it. but it is not as bad as some people are making it seem. the best postion for most people is spooning. you have to be in the mood for it to be more comfortable. lube does help a lot. be very clean about it too. you should wash up after it both of you.
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well we tried it. it hurt like hell!!!!!!!!! i wanted to cry. we used a lot of lube too. i dont know.. i was in so much pain. maybe i was just too worried. i dont like it tho and didnt mind it.. but he would rather do vaginal. ohwell. thanks for the tips tho.
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Oh well, at least you've tried it! You never know, you may decide to try it again sometime. As long as you both are happy!
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That's right..You BOTH have to be happy, it has to be a choice you both take, not one, not one sided but both to make it work..You tried it. And that's what you wanted..
As long as you love each other to understand each other, you wont go wrong.
As long as you love each other to understand each other, you wont go wrong.
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| Eiri wrote: |
| I personally don't find it disgusting at all...
Use your fingers! If you can stick three fingers in there, you can stick a penis in there. |
A tiny tiny penis, if you are comparing it to being able to take 3 fingers.
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A tiny tiny penis, if you are comparing it to being able to take 3 fingers. |
Sorry, but my three fingers held width-wide is just about as big AROUND as any penis I want to be sticking up there! We're not talking length, we're talking girth. And a 1-2 inch wide penis is pretty wide - we're not talking how big the circumference is, just the diameter.
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Sorry, but my three fingers held width-wide is just about as big AROUND as any penis I want to be sticking up there! We're not talking length, we're talking girth. And a 1-2 inch wide penis is pretty wide - we're not talking how big the circumference is, just the diameter. |
but eiri
what about the radius!?!?!?
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but eiri what about the radius!?!?!? |
Lol. Well, if the diameter is say, 2.5 inches, then the radius is 1.25!
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Sorry, but my three fingers held width-wide is just about as big AROUND as any penis I want to be sticking up there! We're not talking length, we're talking girth. And a 1-2 inch wide penis is pretty wide - we're not talking how big the circumference is, just the diameter. |
Wait, so you are saying your three fingers spread apart, not all bunched? I'll give that to you.
By the way I'm not dissing small wieners, they can be fun. They are also the only kind I would want in my butt hole. The one I've been seeing isn't "gigantic". Just to straighten that up.
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Wait, so you are saying your three fingers spread apart, not all bunched? I'll give that to you. By the way I'm not dissing small wieners, they can be fun. They are also the only kind I would want in my butt hole. The one I've been seeing isn't "gigantic". Just to straighten that up. |
I don't know; my fingers are touching on the sides, laid flat on a table, right next to each other. They are 2 inches wide at the base this way. For circumference, it's Pi r^2, so that's Pi x 1^2. One squared is... one, lol. Pi is 3.14159 etc, so that's a perfect circumference of about 3 inches. I do not want anything wider than two inches, and three inches around, going up my anus OR my vagina!
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I don't know; my fingers are touching on the sides, laid flat on a table, right next to each other. They are 2 inches wide at the base this way. For circumference, it's Pi r^2, so that's Pi x 1^2. One squared is... one, lol. Pi is 3.14159 etc, so that's a perfect circumference of about 3 inches. I do not want anything wider than two inches, and three inches around, going up my anus OR my vagina! |
This is very interesting. You have a math figures and all for this. I have tried anal a few times and it has been something I have been interested for a while but I cant get over the discomfort. It's hard to enjoy it when it feels like you and takin a big one!
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| This is very interesting. You have a math figures and all for this. I have tried anal a few times and it has been something I have been interested for a while but I cant get over the discomfort. It's hard to enjoy it when it feels like you and takin a big one! |
LOL @ That, Sorry..
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What I have tried in the past to get over the hurt is rubbing ambasol(sp?) on it & it numbs it enough yet you can still feel it. It will make his ---- feel "weird" but not a bad weird, mainly just different. No more weirder than him doing it in the first place though. lol Tell him he has to pay the price. lol
The best position for me is (once it is in) to lay flat on my stomach with a pillow under me.
Mind I have not done this in 4 years - my husband did not like it at all. I actually love it but they have to know what they are doing. If they don't, it's not even worth your time.
The best position for me is (once it is in) to lay flat on my stomach with a pillow under me.
Mind I have not done this in 4 years - my husband did not like it at all. I actually love it but they have to know what they are doing. If they don't, it's not even worth your time.
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your ass is an exit not an entrance lol point blank it hurt but if u do it make sure your totally empty and relax mainly mentally
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